Things your parents did to save money

I come from a rural very small town. The things i've been reading are just some of things our family did.

To get to a Mcdonalds it was a 45 minute car ride. Mcdonalds didn't come into our county until 1986 ( I was a senior in high school). They had way more applicants then they had jobs when they wanted to open.

going to "town" ment a trip to grandma's and maybe a stop at the drive in for a "small" one flavor cone.
 
I come from a rural very small town. The things i've been reading are just some of things our family did.

To get to a Mcdonalds it was a 45 minute car ride. Mcdonalds didn't come into our county until 1986 ( I was a senior in high school). They had way more applicants then they had jobs when they wanted to open.

going to "town" ment a trip to grandma's and maybe a stop at the drive in for a "small" one flavor cone.

We still don't have a McD's...the closest one just moved in 19 miles from my house. Otherwise it's a 35 minute drive to one. We have a Subway and Dairy Queen in our town for fast food, that's it!
 
Funny, I get jealous when I read of those that were raised on a farm. I think of sunshine, gardens, animals and reading a good book up a tree. :confused3

We were 5 girls in a two bedroom flat in NYC. Think of a row of rooms. On one end is the kitchen with a tiny bathroom, 2 bedrooms and at the other end a living room. The tub was in the kitchen. We had to time it when our father went out to take our baths or tell him he better go to the bathroom before we locked ourselves in the kitchen. Once in a while, when he came home and we heard him put the key in the lock, if someone was unfortunately taking a bath, we had to make a mad dash to the tiny bathroom. I hated it. :headache:

We slept in 2 full size beds. Three in one, two in the other. Unfortunately, I was the youngest and in the middle. The other two, on either side of me, were dominant personalities who constantly argued and still do. Double :headache::headache:

When we were in our teens, we started making our own pizzas and cakes by scratch. We found 101 ways to bake a cake. My mom was never into baking, however, she enjoyed our experiments.
 
My parents paid cash for everything. Our house, cars, washer & dryer etc. They probably had a credit card for emergencies but I am sure it was paid every month!

We once had a Disney trip all booked!! Then we found out I needed braces and of course since they only paid cash for everything the Disney trip was canceled and we never went.

The one thing I do remember is my mother thinking I only needed a few outfits-wear one while the other is in the wash. By late elementary middle school I wanted enough pants to wear a different pair 5 days a week. Thanks goodness my father agreed. Plus I had been babysitting for as long as I could remember. I bought most of my clothes starting in 7th grade (if not younger).
 

My parents never got a hotel when we went on long car trips. We would just sleep in the car in some random field; it was quite awful and probably dangerous now that I think back on it.

And then in college, my mom and sisters slept in my dorm room when visiting, and my dad either slept in the car or somewhere outside in Baltimore; I'm still not sure.

God, I could go on about my childhood and the things they did... we also collected cans to recycle for $, and searched for $ every Sunday morning at the high school. Still to this day, I pick up every penny I come across.
 
My parents never got a hotel when we went on long car trips. We would just sleep in the car in some random field; it was quite awful and probably dangerous now that I think back on it.

And then in college, my mom and sisters slept in my dorm room when visiting, and my dad either slept in the car or somewhere outside in Baltimore; I'm still not sure.

God, I could go on about my childhood and the things they did... we also collected cans to recycle for $, and searched for $ every Sunday morning at the high school. Still to this day, I pick up every penny I come across.

This sounds like the trips we took....

We moved from NH to PA when I was a kid, and we'd go back to NH on holidays to stay with relatives. I remember once, our car broke down and we slept in it, in a parking lot somewhere. We had an old Plymouth Satellite station wagon...a huge tank of a car. I can also remember the year that we moved is when they rationed gas, you could only buy it on an odd or even day according to your license plate. I can remember having to sleep in the car overnight, because the car couldn't make it on just one tank of gas and we couldn't buy more until the next day. :confused3
 
Having read this whole thread I have to ask what is government cheese?

I'm thankful we didn't have to have powdered milk and fortunately we had good meals on the table, all made from scratch. My dad was quite picky and only ate meat and potatoes if you know what I mean. Once in awhile he could be enticed to have macaroni if it was mixed with tomatoes. Us kids loved mom's perogies but we only had those when he worked nights -- he called them "rogies" and wanted to know who would eat dough rolled around potatoes. We had no processed food, and junk food only on our birthdays or celebrations like Christmas or New Years Eve. Our popsicles were homemade and we drank koolaid or crabapple juice that my mom would freeze in the fall.

My parents definitely lived within their means and while we didn't lack for anything we certainly didn't ask for anything either. My mom could stretch a dollar 15 ways.

This whole thread has me thinking about the excesses in my home and has got me thinking that maybe some changes are necessary.
 
Mom did the powdered milk thing, but we could never stomach it so instead she would use it in cooking. For whatever reason it was fine cooked but not to drink. She even tried putting it in the milk jug but we always knew and we just didn’t drink it or eat cereal.
My kids and I LOVE cubed steak w/mushroom soup, I serve it with mashed potatoes or rice, DBF and I use the soup as gravy, the girls don’t like gravy so they skip that part. We usually eat it with green beans & pickled beets, YUM! 
We always saved grease too, sometimes I still do but there aren’t many things I like to use it for, it’s just too unhealthy.
Government cheese, we always had a big block in the fridge. Mom made the best grilled cheese sandwiches with that stuff……it melted soooooooooo good and it tasted good too, maybe it’s different from what others had but our cheese was the bomb, in fact my friends would come over (who didn’t get government cheese) and beg my Mom to make them grilled cheese with her “special” cheese. LOL
Spam, we did spam & eggs every 2-4 weeks. I loved it, but now I only want it if I’m eating it in Hawaii! LOL My girls have only had it at our local Hawaiian BBQ, I never make it at home, and I haven’t been to HI for 13 years so the only place I’ve had it lately is our local Hawaiian BBQ. 
We had a garden, we grew everything you might want for a salad, we canned and we pickled. Mom made homemade pickles and they were so good….we had fruit trees too, we picked and canned and ate it during the winter. We did meatless meals (I still do these today with my kids) and we did breakfast for dinner a lot. Day old bread was fine with us, so were day old donuts, muffins and any other pastry. We added extra water to concentrate, added less sugar to Kool Aid and made our own freezer pops from juice or Kool Aid. My favorite type of cookie was graham cracker cookies, 2 graham crackers with frosting in between.  I still like them and get a warm fuzzy feeling when I have them. 

We had a big house, built in the 1800’s, no central heat so we used our wood stove. It snowed, we would stack wood on the back porch to keep it dry so it would burn but we had to bring new wood in to keep dry when we got low, so we did family trips to the mountains, cut trees down, chopped them, took it home, stacked it outside, tarped it, then brought it inside and had to restack to keep the dry wood in the front. It was a chore but it worked.

We didn’t have paper towels or napkins unless we were picnicking or camping, then we had them but after the picnic or camping trip they got packed up again. We used washcloths to do dishes, no sponges.

My Mom sewed, she made my drill team costume and mine was the CUTEST, other girls had store bought but mine was awesome! Mom made mine and my BFF’s, we were so smug about our outfits. LOL And Mom scrimped and saved and bought me a pair of red and white Nike’s to wear on game days so I would match, our school colors were red and white.  My skirt was white with red insets so when I twirled the skirt twirled and the red showed.  She also made me Barbie doll clothes as Christmas gifts. I loved those clothes and I’m pretty sure she still has some in her closet. 

NO family vacations, our vacations were trips to the mountains camping.  NO McD’s in our town at all, only the A & W and we got to eat there maybe once a month, or if Mom was horribly sick. Mom & Dad went to dinner once a month with no kids, that was usually a nicer place to sit down and eat but rarely did we kids get to go.

I babysat for money, from the time I was 13 I was babysitting for money. Not much but it was enough that I could buy my own school lunches (we had open campus, I could get fries and a coke from a drive in nearby for $1!) and still get myself nail polish or something from the drug store at the end of the week.

I wore my sisters hand me downs; I hated that because everything was out of fashion or the wrong size for me. I have made it a goal to make sure that DD10 doesn’t have to wear too many of her sisters hand me downs. But sometimes DD10 will point something out to her sister and say “get that, I want to wear it in a couple years” LOL We had jeans shorts too, and I still do that for my girls too. It’s a good way to “use” up the jeans. LOL Coats were always bought 1 size too big, we had to get at least 2 years of use out of them, then they were handed down as “play” coats and we got new “good” coats.

To this day I still reuse certain wrappings, gift boxes are used until they are falling apart, bows are reused, gift bags are reused. In some cases I’ll save tissue paper for various uses, my girls like using food colors and dying the tissue paper and making butterflies.  I learned those tips from my Mom & Gma and I love them, we save so much $$ on wrappings. LOL And I always buy that stuff after the holidays the following year, so I need to swing by Target and get some new gift boxes and gift bags.  I loved gifts from my Grandparents, they always used the comics to wrap and it was so fun to read them as you were opening, it was like 2 gifts in 1. 

But every year for bdays and Christmas we always had plenty of gifts under the tree and we always got what we wanted, no matter what hoops Mom had to jump thru to find me that Strawberry Shortcake doll…which I still have btw 

Gma still saves her Ziploc bags & tin foil, in some cases I save mine too. 

My kids are taught to respect what they have and what they are given. Hopefully that stays with them, neither of the 2 that are at home are overly selfish, sure a little but that’s normal kid behavior. Of course they aren’t teenagers yet either so that may change. My DD21 is the opposite, she had a major sense of self entitlement, so much so that she bought a truck she couldn’t afford and expected ME to bail her out on it (my sister did, but DD has paid her back), she bought a cell phone and ran up the charges and wanted ME to pay for it, she was told if she went to college she could live at home for free but if she did not she would be required to pay for her car (before the truck I gave her a car, it was paid for) and pay rent, she chose to get a job and she did pay rent for a while, but then she ran up a cc bill and wanted me to pay for it!! When I said NO she stopped paying “rent” and started to save to move out, only it took her over a year to save up enough….. LOL This was all when she was 18 (she’s a Feb baby too) but still at home and not graduated. Then she moved in with her DBF and they now have a baby (DGD will be 1 in Feb about a week after DD turns 22) and DD is finally understanding EVERYthing I did to give her what she has……it’s nice to be vindicated.  It really makes no sense tho, I tried to raise all my kids the same and the 2 younger ones are much more appreciative. Again, that may change when they hit the teen years but somehow I doubt it.

This is an awesome thread, it’s been fun to remember. 

Oh ya, we had a tarp that we ran water over and slid on too, our very own slip n slide. LOL
 
Four words: Chunky Soup over Rice.

:thumbsup2 We had Chunky Soup over No Yolk Egg Noodles. Actually I made it the other night, never thought of it as a way for my mom to stretch the $ till I saw your post. We have it now when it is cold out and it just seems like a heart meal.


My sister and I to this day despise Salmon patties. Shredded salmon that came out of a can and Mom somehow put into a patty shape and fried up. :crazy2:
 
As far as food....

Once in a while my mother would make Vienna Sausage with rice. We used to snack on it when we were hungry after school.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vienna_sausage

Even my oldest sister made this in the 80's when I lived in her house for a short while. Can't say I cared for it much, but it was a quick cheap meal. :rolleyes1
 
My sister and I to this day despise Salmon patties. Shredded salmon that came out of a can and Mom somehow put into a patty shape and fried up. :crazy2:

I LOVE salmon patties! We used to eat them quite regularly when I was a kid.... never made the connection that it was because they're dirt cheap to make. :rotfl: I made them for my DH a few months ago and he hated it.... I was ok with it, though, because I just made "salmon burgers" for lunch for the rest of the week. :lmao:
 
I remember our snacks were a hunk of cheese and soggy bread in milk..actually at the time, I thought it was good. :)

I enjoyed the movie "Mother" with Debbie Reynolds where she freezes the cheese and argues with her son over the cost of food in the supermarket. :lmao:

My mom did teach me to be frugal and it has paid off. I always think of need vs wants. Although, I always go on vacation yearly. :)


Ha-Ha. Loved that movie.....remember the "protective coating" on the ice cream? It reminded me so much of my mother....she throws everything in the freezer. It's amazing the stuff I find in there when I visit her house.
 
I love, love, love salmon patties, but they are not so cheap to make anymore.
 
My parents paid cash for everything. Our house, cars, washer & dryer etc. They probably had a credit card for emergencies but I am sure it was paid every month!

We once had a Disney trip all booked!! Then we found out I needed braces and of course since they only paid cash for everything the Disney trip was canceled and we never went.

The one thing I do remember is my mother thinking I only needed a few outfits-wear one while the other is in the wash. By late elementary middle school I wanted enough pants to wear a different pair 5 days a week. Thanks goodness my father agreed. Plus I had been babysitting for as long as I could remember. I bought most of my clothes starting in 7th grade (if not younger).

I'm happy at least you got the braces! My parents refused to get me braces, even though it was painfully obvious I needed them. :sad2: They simply wouldn't spend the money. Sadly I paid for that decision big-time: years of teasing, no dates, non-existant self-esteem, and huge difficulty in presenting and selling myself in job interviews. I eventually had no choice (if I ever wanted a career and social life) so I paid for braces myself as an adult (with no professional job and no insurance). By then the cost was five times as much than if I did it as a kid, since I needed surgery as well as the braces. I was very angry at my parents for not stepping up to the plate and making the right decision to get me braces as a kid, but saving money was far more important to them. I had to learn to live with the teasing and try to have a better personality to deal with it, they told me when I was growing up. :(

My parents stopped taking me to doctors when I was 14 - once again, they didn't want to pay, and they didn't consider it their responsibility anymore. I had no medical care until I was in my mid 20's and paid for it myself.

We only went to the Jersey shore for 4 nights as our yearly vacation (about a 4 hour drive from our house in north NJ). The minute my youngest sister left for college, my parents traveled the world. They admitted they didn't want to take us on "real" vacations - too much hassle and too much money. My first real out-of-state vacation was when I was 25. I never flew on a plane as a kid - absolutely out of the question.

My mom also gave me very few clothes to wear - in middle school I had 2 pairs of pants and like 3 shirts and had to rotate the combinations. I was teased but there was nothing I could do about it. My clothes were often dirty. I remember often wearing my coat all day during school, just to try to hide the fact I was re-wearing my shirts over and over.

My parents also stopped making meals for us when I was starting middle school. Most nights became "help yourself" nights, which means we had to find something and make it ourselves. Usually we had cereal or a tv dinner, since they were easy to make.

My parents have a very comfortable retirement, so I guess all the cost-cutting paid off.
 
My parents have a very comfortable retirement, so I guess all the cost-cutting paid off.

Uuuuuhhh..really? I don't think I would ever think a childhood like that was worth it. I am sorry that you were treated like that. I think your story takes the cake in this discussion. :grouphug:
 
I'm happy at least you got the braces! My parents refused to get me braces, even though it was painfully obvious I needed them. :sad2: They simply wouldn't spend the money. Sadly I paid for that decision big-time: years of teasing, no dates, non-existant self-esteem, and huge difficulty in presenting and selling myself in job interviews. I eventually had no choice (if I ever wanted a career and social life) so I paid for braces myself as an adult (with no professional job and no insurance). By then the cost was five times as much than if I did it as a kid, since I needed surgery as well as the braces. I was very angry at my parents for not stepping up to the plate and making the right decision to get me braces as a kid, but saving money was far more important to them. I had to learn to live with the teasing and try to have a better personality to deal with it, they told me when I was growing up. :(

My parents stopped taking me to doctors when I was 14 - once again, they didn't want to pay, and they didn't consider it their responsibility anymore. I had no medical care until I was in my mid 20's and paid for it myself.

We only went to the Jersey shore for 4 nights as our yearly vacation (about a 4 hour drive from our house in north NJ). The minute my youngest sister left for college, my parents traveled the world. They admitted they didn't want to take us on "real" vacations - too much hassle and too much money. My first real out-of-state vacation was when I was 25. I never flew on a plane as a kid - absolutely out of the question.

My mom also gave me very few clothes to wear - in middle school I had 2 pairs of pants and like 3 shirts and had to rotate the combinations. I was teased but there was nothing I could do about it. My clothes were often dirty. I remember often wearing my coat all day during school, just to try to hide the fact I was re-wearing my shirts over and over.

My parents also stopped making meals for us when I was starting middle school. Most nights became "help yourself" nights, which means we had to find something and make it ourselves. Usually we had cereal or a tv dinner, since they were easy to make.

My parents have a very comfortable retirement, so I guess all the cost-cutting paid off.

Gosh, I normally don't get angry or vindictive, but if they were my parents, they'd better DARN SURE hope they never needed my help in their old age.
 
Gosh, I normally don't get angry or vindictive, but if they were my parents, they'd better DARN SURE hope they never needed my help in their old age.

Uuuuuhhh..really? I don't think I would ever think a childhood like that was worth it. I am sorry that you were treated like that. I think your story takes the cake in this discussion. :grouphug:

Thank you for the comments - I appreciate them! Of course I love my parents, I just don't understand why they did certain things. :( They were very socially isolated and naive, and simply didn't know to do certain things, which is hard to understand since we grew up in an affulent town! There was this giant "disconnection" with them that's hard to explain. The dental/medical care and being unclean (I could tell more stories, sadly) were things I absolutely don't understand why they chose to stop taking responsibility. I always jokingly called them "social darwinists" since they gave birth to us, gave us a house to live in, and beyond that, we were on our own to survive!

On the rare occasion where I bring up these issues with them, my parents say this is how everyone parented in the 70's/80's.

I certainly understand saving money (like not taking vacations) but to skimp on basic care for your kids is crossing the line. :(

My little sister just had ger first baby, and she already is making sure she has a completely different parenting style and never makes the same mistakes my parents did!!

On this thread, I was very saddened to read Cindy B's story (being forced to leave at 18) - my parents didn't go that far, fortunately.
 
Having read this whole thread I have to ask what is government cheese?
Um . . . the government would pay dairy farmers for certain quantities their milk, to control prices and supply; but they would make cheese and other dairy products and distribute these products to WIC participants and other federal emergency food programs. Not sure if this still is going on today or not.
 
Oohh, 40 years later and I still remember the foul taste of that powdered milk!:lmao:

I just mixed some up to use in baking (can't taste it that way) and just the smell about gagged me! My friend's mom used it for drinking and I hated eating dinner at her house.

My parents used to turn the heat down really low in the winter because we lived in a large old house and would only really heat two rooms of the house. We had this big house, but in the winter we lived in two rooms 24/7! Same thing in the summer. We had one air conditioner and it was in my parents bedroom. On extremely hot nights, we were allowed to sleep on the floor in their bedroom. I have central air now and I suppose I could go without it if necessary, but hopefully won't have to do that!
 
Thank you for the comments - I appreciate them! Of course I love my parents, I just don't understand why they did certain things. :( They were very socially isolated and naive, and simply didn't know to do certain things, which is hard to understand since we grew up in an affulent town! There was this giant "disconnection" with them that's hard to explain. The dental/medical care and being unclean (I could tell more stories, sadly) were things I absolutely don't understand why they chose to stop taking responsibility. I always jokingly called them "social darwinists" since they gave birth to us, gave us a house to live in, and beyond that, we were on our own to survive!

On the rare occasion where I bring up these issues with them, my parents say this is how everyone parented in the 70's/80's.

I certainly understand saving money (like not taking vacations) but to skimp on basic care for your kids is crossing the line. :(

My little sister just had ger first baby, and she already is making sure she has a completely different parenting style and never makes the same mistakes my parents did!!

On this thread, I was very saddened to read Cindy B's story (being forced to leave at 18) - my parents didn't go that far, fortunately.


A lot of your story resonates with me. My mom stopped cooking when me and my sister were 15-16. We would eat whatever was around and sometimes -depending on if my dad was in a mood-- would have to pay for our own groceries.

It really wasn't all bad, I learned to survive quite nicely. I am not afraid of a ny type of situation. I worked in the one of mose dangerous cities in America for a a teaching assignment and it didn't scare me at all. I learned the value of money. I learned how to budget.

I also paid for my own utilities from 16 on. I paid for my own phone line, portion of electric, my own car insurance-- so when I left my house to the apt., it really wasn't much of a difference. I was working 2-3 part time jobs in high school so I went to one full time paid all my bills and had left over money.
 


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