Victoriasmom98
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I am soooooo excited that you are finally booked and are staying at POP!!! This is so cool!!! Now the planning will begin in earnest, huh? Did you make ADR's??
Oh man, Big Brother's got nothing on Mickey, eh? That is pretty cool that they found your sister's address but I agree a little stalkerish.
Yeah, it was a little on the creepy side
Your first evening sounds great!We love 1900 PF, the food is okay but the character interaction is the BEST.
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You know how I feel about the Step-Sisters!!!
My little brother is always opting to go to spring break with his friends instead of going places with us too.
Can't wait to see the rest of your plans!![]()
Stay tuned! Im trying to get the first day of touring plans up tonight!I am soooooo excited that you are finally booked and are staying at POP!!! This is so cool!!! Now the planning will begin in earnest, huh? Did you make ADR's??
Im having so much fun! I think the ADRs are done. Im pretty sure I tweaked them enough, but you never know. As I do our touring plans, things may change. You know how that goes
WOOT!!!!!!!!! I'm so excited for you!
YES, 50s section is GREAT and they almost always honor adjoining rooms, that's what we had. I also requested a lake view and we were on the 4th floor in building 3. The lake view was great b/c it's quiet and relaxing but I'm sure pool view would be FUN, so it depends what you want. I would add those requests as well!
I cannot wait to read more! Sorry your brother won't make it!
I thought you had the 50s section! Whew! Well, Im going to have to call and make those other requests too. I think we would prefer the lake view because I think the pool might get a little noisy. Thanks for the tips! I really wish my brother was still coming too, but as I mentioned before, this just gives me an excuse to plan a Grand Gathering in the future!
Congratulations on booking a trip Erin!![]()
This trip is going to be great!
So, if you are my friend on FB, you know why I am going to be busy this weekend. If not, well, youll just have to wait for the Mini-TR! Also, if you are my friend on FB, you are probably wondering why I am still Single
Well, that is because I am single! Yeah, things didnt work out with me and the Old Man. Turns out that people dont change that much. Unfortunately, the same issues that broke us up 20 years ago broke us up a month or so ago. Well, it was really a combination of things. One thing was that he was set in his decision not to have any more kids. He has two and I have two, but I always imagined having more because I am from a big family. If I didnt get divorced, I probably would have had four kids. At least. Seriously! Since kids were totally off of the table for him, it became an issue with me because Im 39 now and my window is getting smaller every day!
I knew that if I couldnt have more kids then I would probably adopt. So, being that he didnt want to have any more at all, I knew it was going to become a problem if we got really serious. That wasnt the only thing that broke us up, though. That was just one of the straws on the camels back. The Old Man seemed to think I was the same girl that broke his heart 20 years ago and he had a lot of trust issues. I didnt realize that until he started acting strange a couple of months ago. Just as we were starting to get closer, he suddenly became distant. My theory is that he was scared of how close we were becoming but who knows? The point is that bad attitude that he had 20 years ago reared its ugly head again and he was pretty disrespectful to me the last two times that we went out. I wont put all of his business out there (or, at least, not any more of his business
) but I dont stand for disrespect and I ended it with him. It was too bad but I wasnt going to waste my time with a man who decided he wasnt going to treat me nicely any more. Im not sad or bitter about it, but I am disappointed that I may have lost him as a friend. When he was just a friend, things were simpler. But you never know. He could have pulled that disrespectful nonsense at any time, even if we were only friends. So oh well. You win some, you lose some
I have been out a few times and met some really nice people since then. I have even gone out on a really nice date with someone new! So well see what the future holds. I think it is better to start fresh than to go digging in the graveyard of past relationships!
I say good for you though for knowing what you want and how you expect to be treated. 
Hope it's a fabulous time!!
Well, you seem to have a great outlook about the relationship ending but I'm sorry it didn't work out.I say good for you though for knowing what you want and how you expect to be treated.
I know where you're going but mums the word! I hope you all, but especially Coy, have a great time- what a great opportunity!![]()
I also know what the secret is but my lips are zipped.Hope it's a fabulous time!!
Sorry you had to deal with disrespect. Not cool.![]()

100 DAYS UNTIL OUR VACATION!!!

I am very sorry to hear that you and the Old Man ended things. It's hard to find that special someone (well, unless you are Hope or Karen --- they've been married FOREVER!!). Trust seems to be the big issue for a lot of people. I think you have to be confident in who you are and what you have in order to be secure in a relationship. Don't get me wrong --- I love Peter with all my heart, but I am a strong enough person to be without him if that was ever necessary. Apparently he wasn't strong enough in his own self-worth to be able to trust you. Ok, there it is ---- my Dr. Phil moment.
I would have loved to have more kids myself. My health is not great, so pregnancy is out of the question and I am 44 afterall. Peter grew up with foster brothers/sisters and his father adopted children with his second wife, so he's not really open to either fostering or adopting. I guess I will just have to stick with loving other's babies. I really want one, though, but I think we have a good life now and shouldn't rock the boat. Oh, I do keep telling him to go to the baby store and pick me up one, but that's just silly.
*hugs*
Your Dr. Phil moment was absolutely right. People have to be secure in themselves to be able to trust and love others fully. Now, about this baby store. Where exactly is that located? I want to pick up a kid!
If only it could be that easy, right? Then maybe Coy and True would stop asking me for a little brother or sister!
Ashley actually read this whole PTR a few weeks ago, so if she reads now, she can see the plans I have in store for us! (Ashley, if you are reading this, create an account and comment! Join in with the fun! I need a planning buddy! Plus, we need to conspire on how to get Marissa to wear the matching shirts we want to wear!
) Yes, while we were talking last night, Marissa told us that she has no intention of wearing matching Disney shirts with us! (Marissa, if you are reading this, you need to create an account too and get Disney fever with the rest of us!
) Im sure Disney fever will hit her eventually, so Im not worried
Shes just as excited as the rest of us for the trip shes just not too excited about the matching shirts! Shes too cool for matching shirts, but Im too cool for them too and Im going to wear them!
This is good, though. This will challenge me to design a really cool set of shirts for us to wear
I said I didnt care if they took the shirts off after the picture I just must have my Castle picture!
So, showing them our plans is a must! Hopefully, my kids and I can visit them this coming weekend and show them some interesting stuff. In the mean time, I have been working really hard on some touring plans! The first thing I did was compile all of the information I could from touringplans.com. I got the park hours, Extra Magic Hours, parade times, show times and crowd levels. That website determines the best parks, the neutral parks and the parks to avoid based on a 10 point crowd scale. Unfortunately, some of the parks we plan on visiting are on the days that have the worst crowds!
but, I am pretty confident that using the touring plans will help us out a lot! Here is a picture of the calendar I created for the week:
The numbers in the lower left corners of the park days are the crowd levels on a scale from 1 10. The letter in the lower right corner symbolizes the park recommendation: B Best, N Neutral and A Avoid. These are some scary numbers for me, guys! Im used to 1 4 crowd levels! OK, OK, Ill quit my bellyaching! June really is the best time for us this year because Coy and True really cant miss any more school. It was bad enough that they missed half a day last Friday and all day Monday for our trip last weekend. Next year, hopefully the kids and I wont be so hard pressed about taking days off from school and work. I did tell my sisters last night that once they fall in love with Disney all over again, they will want to book a trip for next year! When we book that trip, it has to be for November 2013!
Hopefully theyll go along with that! Anyway, back to THIS trip, I know I am making a big deal about the crowds. Park of me is truly freaking out and park of me is making a big deal of it simply so that I can trick myself into thinking the crowds will indeed be horrible. If I am convinced that the crowds will be horrible, then I will be prepared if they are really bad and I will also be happy once I see that really isnt that big of a deal. Clearly, thousands of people have a good time in Disney World in the busy season hence the crowds! So sad that I have to play mind games with myself
Well, that is enough crazy for today. Lets get to the touring plans!
Considering that the crowd levels are anticipated to be 1.1 at EPCOT that day, we might be able to get a few attractions done that night. Whatever we do is good for me I dont want to scare my sisters off too much by planning EVERY aspect of our trip. So I think this is a good start. Well get a lot done in the Magic Kingdom and we can probably do the rest later in the week. I think well do at least half a day at MK on two days following this. My sisters told me last night that they might want to do the evening EMH at MK once or twice. If they can, well more power to them! I dont think that the kids and I will be able to keep touring until 1am! Actually, I know we wont! We have an ADR at Tusker House to wake up for on Monday! 

Your first day looks great.![]()
Looks great, Erin!!!![]()

What a great first day! Early park entry, two character meals and plenty of time in MK.![]()
I totally agree about letting the evening take you were it may. The great thing about Epcot is that it's just as much fun to meander around WS as it is to go commando in FW- the best of both worlds!![]()

) and start from there. Well have a second AK day later in the week. Im up for any suggestions because I know there is a little bit of crisscrossing in the plans and I couldnt figure out how to avoid it! So here goes:
Maybe we could stick it out until 10 or 10:30 just so we could go on Toy Story Mania or hit up ToT and RnR one more time but Im not going to push it. We dont have an early morning ADR the next day, and that will be our our second Hollywood Studios day, so well play it by ear. I dont think well need to use Evening EMH on Monday if were going back the next day. You better believe that on Tuesday, well be doing the TSM dash, though!
I stay away from EMH to avoid crowds but in the summer, I bet those extra hours are nice!Another great day! I don't think there is any way to avoid crisscrossing at AK- I've tried and tried to figure it out and the layout of the park is just terrible.
but it's one of my favorite parks
I'm sure we'll make the best of it, though! It's fun to pre-plan!I stay away from EMH to avoid crowds but in the summer, I bet those extra hours are nice!
I really hope morning EMH will be a little less crowded and at least a little cooler than the rest of the day. We'll see
Seriously though, we will have a long day of touring EPCOT the next day and I think we'll need a little break before that, so I think our best bet is to leave the park on Tuesday after Sci-Fi. Maybe we can go to the pool or do some shopping at DTD before we call it a day
