OP...we are a family of 5 with three teens. We have been lucky enough to have been able to come for many years....thanks in part to these boards. I NEVER thought we would be able to afford it, but now know how to search out the deals to make it doable for us.
We are here now and staying at Bonnet Creek Resort. We are in a 3 bedroom villa on property, just not Disney owned....and paying $125 a night including all taxes. We have a full kitchen, two bathrooms and laundry. the villa sleeps 10. Our total for 10 nights was $1249.
My point is that there are great hotel deals to be found in Orlando that can significantly slash your costs.
Ticket prices are outrageous and there is only so much you can do to save on them. I would suggest getting 4 day base tickets....allows you to visit all the parks. We like to be at rope drop and do a full day at each...but we build in pool days in between because kids can't all handle 14 hour park days on consecutive days.
If you have any extra in the budget, you could always do a water park or Disney Quest another day. But to be honest, you can spend a day or two doing free stuff that is just as much fun. Visit the resorts and get an ice cream....plus, there seems to always be something going on at the resorts to capture your interest. Visit Downtown Disney one day or night...also the Boardwalk area is fun at night. You are still immersed in Disney but not having to pay park tickets for those extra days.
A couple places to stay VERY affordably, but still feel like you are on vacation are...Regal Oaks, Regal Palms, Bonnet Creek (best deal around to me in gorgeous resort that kids and adults love). Renting through skyAuction is a great way to save...just watch fees...we have stayed at places that are beautiful for $249 a week.
Renting a house is another option....try homeaway and vrbo. Emerald Island is nice and usually less $$ than Windsor Hills...but not always. Owners are usually willing to negotiate.
We also hit up
Walmart for food and enjoy grilling something at the resort on our pool days. this year I used the Walmart Savings Catcher App and had enough reward $$ on it that food was free for the villa!
Signing up for restaurant coupons are great too. Sweet Tomatoes is great for families and is healthy and fills everyone up. Meals are usually $8 a person there with a coupon.
Another way we saved was to get free airfare. Both Dh and I got the Southwest visa Card. That was 100,000 free points. We charge everything we can on it and were able to fly five of us free over a school vacation week. And we still have a ton of points left.
We rented a car using codes from the Transportation board for a minivan for $257 for 10 days. Was cheaper than driving!
With some good planning, Disney is still doable. Just wish those ticket prices would level out!
Hope some of these things will be helpful to you in giving you ideas on how to save and make it affordable.
Best of luck!!!