Having a lapbar isn't always "the solution" though. Another ride with a lapbar that scares me safety-wise is Big Thunder Mountain Railroad. When I ride with DD8, she is so much small than me. So, when the safety bar is lowered it only goes back as far as my belly and she is not tightly secured. So, I am always putting my arm around her making sure she doesn't go whipping out the open side of the train car.
Does this freak anyone else out too?

Jennifer