Should I do something about a defaced gravestone?

[MamaBelle4]

But, in thinking about it, if I was deeply grieving at the grave of my loved one, I wouldn't want it being recorded.

You know, to be perfectly frank, that didn't even cross my mind. But you're right.

 

[Momager]

I just want to say how awful that is, and how sorry I am that anyone would do this to a grave! Disgusting!!
Your bil is either mentally ill, or has family stories that no one else knows about.... Either way, not a healthy way to work them out!!