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[flyingdumbo127]

Enjoy every bite of your cinnamon rolls, Judique! I hope your daughter has a fantastic cruise!

Hug Lynn and prayers you are able to sleep well tonight. Please take care of yourself, my friend.

Warming up a little here, slowly but surely. No call yet from 99. I may call them on Thursday should I not hear anything before then.

I hope all of you are having a good afternoon

 

[Snowysmom]

Good afternoon. Lynn I hope you get some sleep tonight. And I hope you get the mower you want soon.

Cinnamon rolls sound delicious.

I got news today the the contractor is buying the house. I close on the condo on May 18. I close on my house either May 16 or May 23. He will give me a week or 10 days to get stuff out of the house. I hope to move on May 20. I am getting quotes now. I know I have to sell the house but I am finding it heart breaking. I know Chris would not want me to stay in the house and would want me in the one level condo with security and garage parking. But it still makes me sad to say good bye to the house. I have to think that everyone who came into the house with me including doggies have gone on to their next chapter. Now I have to go on to my next chapter. I sense that I will be taking a couple of steps backwards in the next couple of months. I have my trip planned to North Conway the week before all this takes place. I was thinking of canceling it but now I think I could use the time away to just chill out and wander around downtown North Conway with my friend. I would normally just be working anyway and I need to use up vacation time. I will take a day off to move and time for the condo closing too. I will probably stay with my older DS for a week or so after the move so I can take my time getting the condo set up. I will miss everyone but I know I need to get out on my own and try to see if I can do it. It will not be easy for sure. I have never lived alone in my life.

It is a nice day for walking. I have taken 2 walks so far today and maybe another one after supper.

Have a good evening.

 

[Judique]

Great news @Snowysmom !

I understand about the living alone. I didn't do well when I was first divorced and the kids would go with their Dad. I still don't live alone as youngest DD is here. If she moves to her own spot, that may be the event that means I put my home up for sale.

Hopefully not, because I'm happy here. DD doesn't make any indication that she might move, but she definitely has the means to do so and a job that will pay a mortgage if she so desired.

At least in the condo there will be others in the building.

My kids would all let me live with them. But that is another kettle of fish. I value my independence despite my dislike of being alone. It's not all about money - I can afford another place, and I'm older than you and don't want a senior living complex. I think that you are lucky to have found a place that pleases you and that will allow you to live comfortably, not too far from your family and friends.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Very happy to hear that news, @Snowysmom! It seems like timing-wise, that works out really well. I know it’s bittersweet, for sure. Take the time to work through that loss. I’m hoping by the time you get into your condo, you’ll be feeling better and really like you are moving on to the next chapter, rather than being in this sort of limbo that you’re in now. Chris will still be with you no matter where you go. And he will be happy to see you happy.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

We re-worked that dish I posted about last week. (Garlic pasta and vegetables.) This time we put mushrooms in it but no chicken. It was so good!

 

[easyas123]

I got news today

That's wonderful news for you! I'm so glad things are starting to fall into place, although it does mean some difficult days coming in the short term. I hope the next 4-6 weeks goes smoothly for you.

Enjoyed a rainy meander with the mutts after work, resulting in a muddy terrier, but luckily a only damp great dane which meant - bath time! Got everyone cleaned up and the girl mutt in a proper bath. My big guy is a bit prissy/precious at times and it payed off this evening as he decided to twinkle -toe thru the mud

Dinner ended up being a mish -mash of things. Grilled brussel sprouts (yuck), caesar salad & steamed shrimp w/ nann. I'm trying to be good but somewhere in this world there is a dish of peanut butter/chocolate ice cream with my name on it

 

[Snowysmom]

One thing I do like about the complex I am moving to is that it is an all age complex. 3 buildings around the complex are 55+ but that is it. The rest have people of all ages. I like having a community of all age groups. I did not want an all 55+ community. And I wanted pets to be allowed so even though I don't have a dog, I can see them every day. My older DS said I could live with them for 22 years like he did with Chris and I but I would not do that. They need their family time as the kids grow up. Maybe at some point older DS can build on an in law apt and any remaining in laws can move in.

 

[PollyannaMom]

Congrats @Snowysmom

I definitely understand the mixed feelings, but a very stressful part of the process is over now, and it sounds like a great complex!

 

[flyingdumbo127]

Snowysmom. ITA with all others have shared. We are here for and love you. Chris is proud of and happy for you, too, my friend. He really is. My grandparents married on May 18th way back in 1938! I pray you come to know that just because you will be moving on to a new chapter in life, will never mean you have left behind the love of those you have loved and who forever will love and watch over you--most of all, forever, of course God! He is with you, forever. Peace and hugs from across the country. P.S. Thank you, Pea for the heart that I was able to copy/paste. Not sure why it "grew" so big but that works since along with AuntieMe3, who, of course, I am sending love to always, I am across the country from the rest of you dear Quackers.

 

[Kirby]

Snowy, I'm so glad that the contractor is buying your house. One more item to mark off of your list. Now you can focus on yourself more and your new place.

I received a phone call from my cousin today. She lives in Oklahoma. It was so good to talk to her. We are what you call "bestest" cousins. Then my DS called today about the seating chart at his reception. He's got a good head on his shoulders and did a great job sorting out which table everyone would sit at.

Dinner tonight was a breakfast casserole.

 

[Snowysmom]

Good morning. Thread was a bit down the list. Early work today then to the house. One of the movers I contacted is doing a call with me as I tell him what I have to move. That way I get a more accurate quote. Moving day looks to be May 20. Closing on both properties is May 18. I am thinking of rescheduling m North Conway trip to June. That way I am moved and can rest and relax better. Still thinking.

It is 41 here now with rain expected and temps around 48.

Have a good day.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Good morning. Thread was a bit down the list. Early work today then to the house. One of the movers I contacted is doing a call with me as I tell him what I have to move. That way I get a more accurate quote. Moving day looks to be May 20. Closing on both properties is May 18. I am thinking of rescheduling m North Conway trip to June. That way I am moved and can rest and relax better. Still thinking.

It is 41 here now with rain expected and temps around 48.

Have a good day.

I think moving the trip is a good idea! Exciting!

 

[footballmouse]

Happy Wednesday everyone!

Snowysmom - Congratulations on the house sale!

Pea-N-Me - that pasta dish looks really good. I would like it with the mushrooms and without the chicken.

Ds1 has a soccer game tonight so I think I might go watch his game and record Survivor to watch when I get home.

Have a great day!

 

[lynxstch]

Good rainy morning--but at least it's 50 degrees out and going to mid 50's.

@Snowysmom--congrats on both getting the condo, and selling your house to the contractor. At least that way it's going to someone you know, who will take care of the house and love it the way you did. Chris will always be with you,,a house is just a bldg, people are your life and loves.

@Pea-n-Me I will take your pasta dish with chicken , but without mushrooms please, lol!

Off to the market and a couple of errands--I slept a little better last nite, so hopefully I won't be so tired today

Have a great Wednesday all~~

 

[tazdev3225]

Good morning everyone.

@Snowysmom - Glad the house sold and you can move on to the next chapter in your life. I am sure Chris is "holding" your hand through the whole process. I agree putting the trip off til June is a good idea. If you are anything like me you wouldn't relax thinking of everything that needs to be done leading up to it. After the move the trip can be more peaceful and a good way to start the next chapter of your life.

It is cold, wet and dreary here. The weather matches my mood perfectly. I need to pay off my cruise and my husband had me so upset I almost cancelled it again. I did get input from my kids to see if I could get a consensus that I was not acting irrationally, and they all agreed with me. My husband had his 1st stroke 5 years ago April 23rd. He has really bad balance issues because of them along with almost no vision. He sees shapes and colors, can make out large objects but he is essentially blind I want him to take the walker for safety concerns, he insists he is fine. He almost fell over taking out the trash to the curb the other day. He is constantly tilting backwards to the point that my son or grandson get him to my car when we visit at my son's house. He uses a cane but on a ship that does not seem like it will be as safe as a walker can be. He finally agreed to take the walker. Now the discussion on buying one with a seat or just the one he got in rehab begins.

Add to this I may need to make the decision that it is time to say goodbye to my oldest cat Jack. He is not eating or drinking. Last week we couldn't find him for a few days and now he is just lying on the shower floor. He was never a big cat to begin with, but he is REALLY skinny now. I may try and get him to the vet sometime today, if he cooperates. The fact that he let me pick him up is worrisome as he is my husband's cat, he tolerated me. I am hoping it is nothing but having had quite a few pets in my life I recognize the signs that the end is near. I have to get my husband to a drs. appointment and I also have an art show to go to for my granddaughter. She will take the news about Jack really hard since she is such a sensitive soul, so I need to be at her show first. Thankfully my vet doesn't work with appointments so I can go anytime I have a free minute today. My husband will not handle this well at all so the walker discussion will wait.

Hope you all have a better day than mine is shaping up. I'll update later with how things go. On the positive side the house is 97% finished. Trim work today and then a new mailbox and numbers sign when the weather dries out. At least something to look forward to after all this.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Good morning everyone.

@Snowysmom - Glad the house sold and you can move on to the next chapter in your life. I am sure Chris is "holding" your hand through the whole process. I agree putting the trip off til June is a good idea. If you are anything like me you wouldn't relax thinking of everything that needs to be done leading up to it. After the move the trip can be more peaceful and a good way to start the next chapter of your life.

It is cold, wet and dreary here. The weather matches my mood perfectly. I need to pay off my cruise and my husband had me so upset I almost cancelled it again. I did get input from my kids to see if I could get a consensus that I was not acting irrationally, and they all agreed with me. My husband had his 1st stroke 5 years ago April 23rd. He has really bad balance issues because of them along with almost no vision. He sees shapes and colors, can make out large objects but he is essentially blind I want him to take the walker for safety concerns, he insists he is fine. He almost fell over taking out the trash to the curb the other day. He is constantly tilting backwards to the point that my son or grandson get him to my car when we visit at my son's house. He uses a cane but on a ship that does not seem like it will be as safe as a walker can be. He finally agreed to take the walker. Now the discussion on buying one with a seat or just the one he got in rehab begins.

Add to this I may need to make the decision that it is time to say goodbye to my oldest cat Jack. He is not eating or drinking. Last week we couldn't find him for a few days and now he is just lying on the shower floor. He was never a big cat to begin with, but he is REALLY skinny now. I may try and get him to the vet sometime today, if he cooperates. The fact that he let me pick him up is worrisome as he is my husband's cat, he tolerated me. I am hoping it is nothing but having had quite a few pets in my life I recognize the signs that the end is near. I have to get my husband to a drs. appointment and I also have an art show to go to for my granddaughter. She will take the news about Jack really hard since she is such a sensitive soul, so I need to be at her show first. Thankfully my vet doesn't work with appointments so I can go anytime I have a free minute today. My husband will not handle this well at all so the walker discussion will wait.

Hope you all have a better day than mine is shaping up. I'll update later with how things go. On the positive side the house is 97% finished. Trim work today and then a new mailbox and numbers sign when the weather dries out. At least something to look forward to after all this.

Good luck with the cat. Always difficult. My brother is having issues with his beloved cat, too. I agree with the walker. One of those nice ones with the seat and storage will probably be good, if he’ll use it. We had trouble getting my mother to use one, too. Got her a nice fancy one as described, and she didn’t like it because it was too ‘masculine’ looking, lol. Instead wanted to old aluminum one with the tennis balls on the bottom. Go figure. In the hospital it is difficult at times, as well. I’m glad your house is almost done. It sounds really nice. Cold, rainy and foggy here, too. Nice day to sleep!

 

[Judique]

I know this is not politically correct as I am not disabled or don't consider myself to be. But I want a walker with a seat so I can go to Magic Kingdom and be able to sit a bit. They've taken most of the benches out unless you are dining.

I can walk perfectly fine but I have a back problem from birth that is a problem when I have to walk a lot. All I need is a short rest and prop up to get it back in place so I can continue. I now have a few discs with no padding in them anymore. According to doc it's pretty much bone on bone. Not looking for surgery. When they get in the wrong position I can have sharp excruciating pain that is short lived, then I go on.

Usually I keep my visits short and didn't have to stand in line when there was fastpass. Now I feel forced to pay extra to get a LL or genie thing to shorten the wait, and from reading you still might on occasion have a wait.

The other option would be a scooter. Another help/encumbrance. Probably in a few years I'll have to have the 'tag' but I really do well under normal circumstances when I have the ability to just sit for a bit.

I push myself to walk except in the cold weather as I hate it when it's cold and overcast.

I always think there are people out there much worse off than me and don't want to have special privileges until I need them. Maybe a few years from now though as I am starting to feel age.

 

[tazdev3225]

Saved from the bottom of the page.

My heart is broken. Sadly Jack was too I'll to try and save so we had to say our goodbyes. I know his spirit is free with his brother but it really is tough being a grown up. Hopefully the picture will load

He is the tan guy in the front. We named the boys Jack and Barbosa. Jack was my sweet goofy boy just like Jack Sparrow. Barbossa was a bully. I always swore Jack missed his brother so they are together again.

The big guy in the back is Also.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

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My heart is broken. Sadly Jack was too I'll to try and save so we had to say our goodbyes. I know his spirit is free with his brother but it really is tough being a grown up. Hopefully the picture will loadView attachment 660524

He is the tan guy in the front. We named the boys Jack and Barbosa. Jack was my sweet goofy boy just like Jack Sparrow. Barbossa was a bully. I always swore Jack missed his brother so they are together again.

The big guy in the back is Also.

Beautiful cats. So sorry for your loss.

 

[flyingdumbo127]

Big hug, Taz, I'm so sorry about your cat. He is at peace now. Pets absolutely are so hard to say goodbye, too :'( Extra hug on your DH.

Snowysmom, I truly hope you do take your trip and enjoy it. I do think that would be a positive change of scene.

Hug to you as well, Judique! You just take care of you and have a blast when you go to WDW!

Prayers for your brother's cat, Pea.

I am very thankful to read dear Lynn that you got more rest last night!

Your cousin sounds like a wonderful person and friend, Kirby--as are YOU

I hope your DS' soccer team does well, Footballmouse.

Hug also to PollyannaMom, Easyas, Carol, AuntieMe3 and all other Quackers, always, too! Thinking of B&B today and hope she is doing well.