Poll: Japanese First Date

[sugahjunior]

No, she didn't tell us, she was caught in December when she accidently posted the same answer to under her reqular user names, and then again under one of her pseudonyms.

From the thread: "a question for people with more than one christmas tree"

http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=34233350&postcount=12



From the thread: "How many Christmas Trees do you put up?"

http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=50151174&postcount=53

And when she posted a dating thread under niceblueeyed girl and people figured out she was mmackeymouse, she straight up denied that it was her. That is a lie. Can't blame people who have been burned by a poster before from being skeptical, especially where there are lots of inconsistencies and implausibilities in a given story.

 

[Imhere]

That's not it at all.

You read some of these stories and the inconsistencies or nonsense just jumps out at you. What's wrong with calling someone out?

I don't understand what the satisfaction there is in 'calling someone out' on the internet that you don't even know.

 

[NHdisneylover]

I don't understand what the satisfaction there is in 'calling someone out' on the internet that you don't even know.

Whereas, I do not understand what satisfaction there is in lying to people you have asked to help you on the internet

 

[BlovesC]

I don't understand what the satisfaction there is in 'calling someone out' on the internet that you don't even know.

Maybe it's the same kind of satisfaction one gets from lying to a bunch of strangers on the internet?

Seriously, I don't know...this thread took a strange turn. Despite reading the CB regularly I often feel out of the loop. Maybe the DIS needs its own encyclopedia dramatica.

edit: NHDisneylover, jinx!

 

[goofyintoronto]

Whereas, I do not understand what satisfaction there is in lying to people you have asked to help you on the internet

Well you can ask the lady who duped us all on a thread titled "7 months pregnant and my husband had an affair" or something like that. She made us all believe her husband cheated and left her for a younger chick. This lady apparently moved to canada, yada yada yada. The great moderators put two and two together and figured her out. but man, we all fell for it. Now tell me, what satisfaction did SHE get from posting all that nonesense? clearly she had waaaaay too much time on her hands.

 

[nym4588]

I don't understand what the satisfaction there is in 'calling someone out' on the internet that you don't even know.

Because people don't like being lied to, especially after they spend their time and energy trying to help someone who isn't even being honest. I think it's pretty clear that the OP really had no plan to seriously consider anyone's advice. Especially now that I know she's made more than one identity to ask the same types of questions.

I don't think she even wanted to go on this date, and I honestly believe the only reason she went was because it's "what's expected." Based on her history, I really don't think she's interested in having a relationship, for whatever reason. And that's fine, it's not for everyone.

 

[Hrhpd]

I don't understand what the satisfaction there is in 'calling someone out' on the internet that you don't even know.

Aren't you guilty of doing exactly what you are complaining about?

You are calling out the posters that are calling out the OP.

 

[skatalite]

So wait a minute...

• mmackeymouse's date lives 45 minutes away
• we know this because she doesn't want to make the effort to drive the distance for a second date until it's convenient for her
• yet they went on a date in her town (if I remember reading correctly), which he made the 45-minute drive for
• and the date was at a restaurant the guy frequents enough to know the wait staff

Anyone else find it weird that her date frequents a eatery 45 minutes from where he lives?

I'm sorry, but considering mmackeymouse's posting history, including those with her secondary/secret accounts, and the inconsistencies in stories she's told, I can't help but consider her date story to be a complete fabrication.

I do enjoy these threads, though, because they provide days of entertainment. It's a very low form of entertainment, but nevertheless.

 

[Hrhpd]

Well you can ask the lady who duped us all on a thread titled "7 months pregnant and my husband had an affair" or something like that. She made us all believe her husband cheated and left her for a younger chick. This lady apparently moved to canada, yada yada yada. The great moderators put two and two together and figured her out. but man, we all fell for it. Now tell me, what satisfaction did SHE get from posting all that nonesense? clearly she had waaaaay too much time on her hands.

Don't forget the poster that faked the leukemia death of her daughter all over the internet, her subsequent breast cancer and then something about a twin's pregnancy.

It is no wonder people are skeptical when stories start going off on weird tangents.

 

[Imhere]

I think trying to parse every single detail of someone's date is never going to turn out well.

We know the OP is maybe a tad socially either awkward or inexperienced. I would probably guess that the date is the same.

Can't any of the details of this date be chalked up to 'saying the wrong thing', or, nervousness, or inexperience or anything other than underlying nefarious intent?

I'd hate to see a tape of some of the things my wife and I, (of 27 years), said on our first date.

God, I hope I didn't touch her neck.

 

[topolino]

OP, I forgot to mention, the correct usage of "you're" in the text is a plus.
I'd give the guy another chance. But, yes, 3 weeks away may have put him off a little, however, it may help him to realize he needs to slow down, too.

Yes, but the awkward, rambling run-on sentence does away with any goodwill established by the correct use of you're /your.

 

[iheartnmr's]

I think trying to parse every single detail of someone's date is never going to turn out well.

We know the OP is maybe a tad socially either awkward or inexperienced. I would probably guess that the date is the same.

Can't any of the details of this date be chalked up to 'saying the wrong thing', or, nervousness, or inexperience or anything other than underlying nefarious intent?

I'd hate to see a tape of some of the things my wife and I, (of 27 years), said on our first date.

God, I hope I didn't touch her neck.

Remember, she put the details out there. She was crushing on some guy at the gym, then the guy at church that was significantly older, now this guy. When you choose to share on the internet, then people will give their view, good, bad and ugly.

If you did touch her neck, it obviously was appropriate since you are going on 30 years.

 

[mmackeymouse]

So wait a minute...

• mmackeymouse's date lives 45 minutes away
• we know this because she doesn't want to make the effort to drive the distance for a second date until it's convenient for her
• yet they went on a date in her town (if I remember reading correctly), which he made the 45-minute drive for
• and the date was at a restaurant the guy frequents enough to know the wait staff

Anyone else find it weird that her date frequents a eatery 45 minutes from where he lives?

I'm sorry, but considering mmackeymouse's posting history, including those with her secondary/secret accounts, and the inconsistencies in stories she's told, I can't help but consider her date story to be a complete fabrication.

I do enjoy these threads, though, because they provide days of entertainment. It's a very low form of entertainment, but nevertheless.

No...this date was in HIS town, and I drove there. Which I didn't mind, because there is much more to do in his area than my small town. And, I didn't have to worry about running into anyone I knew (the aforementioned friends and acquaintances gossiping and making a big deal about something)

Like luvsJack said, it isn't necessarily that I am busy. It was just the first date that popped in my head. "Hey, I am going to be down there this day. We should do something then." I wasn't trying to be rude or offensive or make it seem like I wasn't interested. After it was pointed out to me, I can definitely see how it could come across wrong.

Okay, so clearly this thread has reached its shelf life. I really don't see what "holes" there are in "the story" or inconsistencies exist. I appreciate those who genuinely tried to help me. If nothing else, it helped me know that Hibachi Chicken was the way to go.

What would ya'll like me to do? Forward you our texts? And then you'll have his phone number and you can call and interrogate him. Or, I can forward emails. Or maybe I should send you screenshots of my browsing history from where I was hunting for that particular restaurant's menu? Or, better yet, I wonder if the restaurant has security video. Maybe I can call them and see if they can stream it online. And, I will see if I can get my friend Carolyn on Facetime or Skype, and you guys can question her to see if my story corroborates. I mean, I really don't know what I can do to prove anything to you.

But, why on God's green Earth, would I be taking pictures of outfits to wear? You think I am really that motivated to add to some kind of ruse? No, I'm really, really not that bored to come up with this whole messed up thing. And if I was...trust me, the guy would have been the hottest guy I've ever seen in my life and I was crazy about him, and he would have brought me flowers and instead of cliche dinner and a movie, we would have done pizza and paintball. And there would have been no neck rubbing and he would have kissed me on the cheek, not on the lips. Believe me, if I were going to fabricate some first date, I would have come up with something I lot better than this.

Some people just want to see the bad in other people. If you are never going to believe anything I ever say, I guess it is time for me to get off the DIS. Is that what you want from me?

 

[skatalite]

No...this date was in HIS town, and I drove there. Which I didn't mind, because there is much more to do in his area than my small town. And, I didn't have to worry about running into anyone I knew (the aforementioned friends and acquaintances gossiping and making a big deal about something)

Like luvsJack said, it isn't necessarily that I am busy. It was just the first date that popped in my head. "Hey, I am going to be down there this day. We should do something then." I wasn't trying to be rude or offensive or make it seem like I wasn't interested. After it was pointed out to me, I can definitely see how it could come across wrong.

Okay, so clearly this thread has reached its shelf life. I really don't see what "holes" there are in "the story" or inconsistencies exist. I appreciate those who genuinely tried to help me. If nothing else, it helped me know that Hibachi Chicken was the way to go.

What would ya'll like me to do? Forward you our texts? And then you'll have his phone number and you can call and interrogate him. Or, I can forward emails. Or maybe I should send you screenshots of my browsing history from where I was hunting for that particular restaurant's menu? Or, better yet, I wonder if the restaurant has security video. Maybe I can call them and see if they can stream it online. And, I will see if I can get my friend Carolyn on Facetime or Skype, and you guys can question her to see if my story corroborates. I mean, I really don't know what I can do to prove anything to you.

But, why on God's green Earth, would I be taking pictures of outfits to wear? You think I am really that motivated to add to some kind of ruse? No, I'm really, really not that bored to come up with this whole messed up thing. And if I was...trust me, the guy would have been the hottest guy I've ever seen in my life and I was crazy about him, and he would have brought me flowers and instead of cliche dinner and a movie, we would have done pizza and paintball. And there would have been no neck rubbing and he would have kissed me on the cheek, not on the lips. Believe me, if I were going to fabricate some first date, I would have come up with something I lot better than this.

Some people just want to see the bad in other people. If you are never going to believe anything I ever say, I guess it is time for me to get off the DIS. Is that what you want from me?

Thanks for clarifying the date situation.

I'm looking forward to your future threads!

 

[HannaBelle]

Thanks for clarifying the date situation. I'm looking forward to your future threads!

So Skatalite, it this really a quote of her post or have you been selectively editing again? While I appreciate your efforts to create a record of her lengthy post, you are not a trust worthy source.

 

[skatalite]

So Skatalite, it this really a quote of her post or have you been selectively editing again? While I appreciate your efforts to create a record of her lengthy post, you are not a trust worthy source.

You have eyes, right? And a brain, yeah?

OK, so here's what you do:

1. Read her post
2. Read what I quoted
3. Notice no changes between the two
4. Move on with your life
5. Eat ice cream
6. Maybe with hot fudge
7. Enjoy President's Day

 

[disneychrista]

5. Eat ice cream
6. Maybe with hot fudge

Now this is a date I would enjoy

 

[luvsJack]

I am soooo confused!!!!!!

Which is not hard to do, I must admit.


Anyway, OP, I hope you and this guy go on another date and find the chemistry that I am not sure was there this time. Dating is hard at any age. There is always that hope of finding this remarkable new person to have in your life and when it doesn't happen it sure is a let down.

And one thing I have learned around here is NEVER, EVER NEVER, come back and try to make anyone understand anything because suddenly you are accused of lying. Its like if you don't put every single solitary detail in a post then saying something extra later means you are lying. Oh, but if you do put in all those details, you are simply putting too much out there. And round and round it goes.

Skatalite, I have no idea what the issue is between you and the pp, but hot fudge sounds yummy!

 

[skatalite]

Skatalite, I have no idea what the issue is between you and the pp, but hot fudge sounds yummy!

Just some friendly jostling is all.

 

[BadgerGirl84]

Thanks for the update mmackymouse! I came on to see if you had any updates and found page after page of people trying to pick your dating story apart. Yikes. You just can't win with this crowd.

I don't think 3 weeks is too long of a time period...especially when you aren't dying to see him. Hope things work out for you to see him again and figure out if he's an okay match or not. I hope you keep us posted, but I would understand now why you wouldn't!

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