Your land/sea trip sounds great! Has your son been to Disney before?
I will tell you a few of my son's favorite things there if you need any
tips.
As for dinner, from what I understand shorts are not allowed in the
restaurants. I think maybe for toddler boys they would make an
exception. He could wear jeans, cargo type pants or zip-off pants
but no shorts. My son is also a very picky eater. I have seen on
these boards some of the rest. menus but I don't have time to
look for them right now (I'm at work)... Search here and see if you
can locate. If not, I will try to find them again. We are going to
try the restaurants the first night and if son does not like, he can
eat in the kids club after that. The last night, my husb & I are going
to Palo's by ourself anyway. I think what my son really will not like
is how long it may take to eat at the restaurants- he will not like to
sit still that long