wow. This thread is making me embarrassed to be an American. But then, I've heard all too many times, that 'people in France, esp. Paris are rude.' 'People in New York are rude.' I've heard about rude Japanese tourists that take WAY too many photos (as in they just keep taking them and block access that way). And now SA tour groups.
Honestly the most rude behavior I've ever encountered was Americans outside of America.(and sometimes even inside America) Indeed, it was well known in college that 'you could go up to Canada and act like a boor,' or a deliquent and 'get away with it,' becasue you were in a foreign country and unlike America the drinking age was 18. The prevailing attitude was, "they want our money and they will put up with almost anything we do."
Oh, and don't get me started on the legendary conduct allowable in the Netherlands, especially Amsterdam. Ft. Lauderdale more or less outlawed spring breakers because they would trash the town every year. One year I even withnessed a bunch of guys peeing in the intercoastal in front of everyone at my resort pool - including kids, just because they could. Oh, that was classy. And, though it's technically not South America, what about the hordes of Spring Breakers that have been trashing Mexico every spring for many years. Do you really think spring breakers are models of exemplary conduct? Or are we forgetting about that because it's just 'what we do'?
Yes, Americans have FAR more of a bad reputation around the world than anything I've ever seen from a SA tour group.
If there is any group that goes around the world with an attitude of entitlement, it's Americans. All too often Americans just expect everyone around the world to speak English and get all upset when they honestly can't. And in spite of that...I've seen LOTS of people outside this country do their best to be helpful- even whenthey clearly only speak a few words of English. So maybe, just maybe....we should remember the old adage about treating guests the way they want to be treated. I'm not saying guests are never rude. Probaly op's example is good case in point...I'm just saying sometimes what we assume to be rude is about cultural differences. Sometimes the way to fix rudeness is with kindness. Taking the misconduct of one group, as posted on an internet forum as 'proof' that all tour groups are going to be rude is horrible.
If we are automatically rude to all travelers, just because they are foreign or from a certain region of the world how bad does that make us Americans?