OP here,
We didn't see any tour groups of teenagers this trip. These were all groups of families. There would be a leader with a flag- who seemed to be encouraging the mayhem by saving seats, gathering fast passes and holding places in line. Then 20-40 people, parents, grandparents, young kids etc. all wearing matching shirts would follow behind. They move through an area pushing people out of the way and running over your feet with their strollers.
It is easier for me to understand the behavior when it's teenagers. They are away from home, and having crazy fun with their friends. That's not to say that I like these groups- I just understand where this rudeness could come from.
But this trip it was all family groups. It was so upsetting for me to see that these people thought they had the right to get what they wanted regardless of other people. They seemed to have the idea that they should have the best parade spots, that they shouldn't have to wait in lines, that they should be allowed to save seats for shows, get seated right away at restaurants and pretty much have the best WDW can offer at the expense of others.
It was very difficult to ignore them. They were everywhere.
We did our best to have our own fun and avoid these groups. If I saw them at a counter service place, we'd pick a different one. We'd even avoid a ride when we saw them standing in line. It just made our trip more enjoyable to not have to deal with them.
That moment on the carousel was the breaking point for me. I almost feel like I don't want to go back to WDW if it means dealing with these rude people!!
Thanks for all of the supportive remarks... it's nice to see that others feel the same way! I was hoping this wasn't just me taking this too personally.
-Sarah