This will be our first time at the party. We are trying to decide between the 17th and the 20th. So my first question is which date should we pick? Also, we need a plan (yes, I'm one of those crazy planners!). We did not make a PS and will probably just eat a big lunch and grab some counter service at the MK. I know we should get our pictures first but then what? I want to make sure we do all of the stuff that you can only do at the party. Since we'll have other days at MK, I'm not as concerned about the rides. If we get to them that's great but it's not a priority. We plan to get there at 4 and stay till closing. So I'm wondering which parade we should go to, where's a good place to sit for the parade and the headless horseman, is there a costume contest and/or parade, and any other opinions on what has worked well for you. Our kids are almost 6 and 8 and will be up for anything (especially trick or treating). I've read a lot of the official MNSSHP thread but if you have any other tips about which order to do things is the least crowded I'd appreciate it. Thanks!