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[MonicaInFlorida]

What are you people, 12?

You: My relationaship is more special because I have a ring!
Her: Yeah, well mine is more special because I have 7 years and kids!
You: Nuh-uh, mine is more special!
Her: No, mine is more special!
You: Yeah, well I'm going to post a poll on a Disney forum!
Her: Yeah, well I already asked on another forum, so nyah-nyah!

Who on Earth gives an airborne rodent's posterior what the heck someone else does in their relationship, especially if it doesn't affect them in the slightest?

I couldn't care less if my BFF's partner wanted to call her Eleanor of Aquitaine... it's none of my business.

 

[tinksfury]

All I can say is: Have fun and enjoy yourselves.

This is crazy. I cannot believe I am believe I am being accused of being the OP. Blows my mind. I didn't even fully agree because I said I think that her friend can call her bf whatever she wants. I just stated that they would not be considered married which I understand was the actual question. I apologize that I have no need to attack a person for no reason and instead just answer the question asked rather then taking digs at every part of what they post. That would make me just as bad for making unnecessary arguments.

 

[Nancyg56]

What a silly fight. Go give her a sincere apology and put this nonsense behind you. That is my opinion.

What does it really matter? If she feels like he is her husband, then what's the harm in her calling him her husband? I don't really get it.

Also, you didn't ask (and I realize I don't know the history between you two), but I think you were being rude to her.

Who on Earth gives an airborne rodent's posterior what the heck someone else does in their relationship, especially if it doesn't affect them in the slightest?

I couldn't care less if my BFF's partner wanted to call her Eleanor of Aquitaine... it's none of my business.

I agree with all of the above. Of all the silly things to have an argument about, this one ranks one of the silliest.

 

[declansdad]

I know how to type sentences. And I do not skip words. I work for a company where I have to type professional letters all the time so I know proper grammer. I have seen a lot of posts from Canadians on here so am I also them? How my grammar and intelligence has became a factor in this is beyond me.

Sorry but I would have to agree that many of your other post have been very confusing and hard to follow.

 

[Loverly]

To the OP.....

What the heck is a "Husband Card?"

 

[declansdad]

This is crazy. I cannot believe I am believe I am being accused of being the OP. Blows my mind. I didn't even fully agree because I said I think that her friend can call her bf whatever she wants. I just stated that they would not be considered married which I understand was the actual question. I apologize that I have no need to attack a person for no reason and instead just answer the question asked rather then taking digs at every part of what they post. That would make me just as bad for making unnecessary arguments.

One thing that you need to understand is when a new poster shows up on the Community Board and their first posts are in a heated thread, people will ask questions. The Community Board is usually not a place where new people planning a Disney vacation end up.

 

[wendyt_ca]

delete

 

[Magic Mom]

Is there anything more important than being right?

Bingo!

 

[Magic Mom]

Someone agrees with me and suddenly that person is me. I also would like to say I know how to punctuate and do not ramble I find that highly insulting and didn't think this was a place to criticize a person's grammar.

I think it is easier to read posts that have punctuation and don't ramble. Maybe it was less a criticism, and more of a request for clarity's sake.

As far as being attacked, maybe this is how your friend felt when you insisted you were right and she was wrong regarding how SHE received her relationship with her significant other. Its something to think about.

 

[wendyt_ca]

I think it is easier to read posts that have punctuation and don't ramble. Maybe it was less a criticism, and more of a request for clarity's sake.

As far as being attacked, maybe this is how your friend felt when you insisted you were right and she was wrong regarding how SHE received her relationship with her significant other. Its something to think about.

I doubt that is how she felt considering the conversation was over within 3 emails back and forth, she apologized and said she looked into it and found out she was wrong. And She was quite aware I didn't mean her relationship with her bf, she actually understood what I meant. I know her very well and the only reason she even said it was to compete because I have a husband. She has never considered him this before and she has even insulted others who have said anything close to this about their relationships. She also told me that they are more husband/wife than my husband and I because we don't have children together (this was in the email prior to what was posted here). So I am supposed to just say ok, when initially all I was trying to do was make sure she was looking at the right card.

 

[Mouse House Mama]

I hope my local Hallmark doesn't have Card Police posted at the checkout!

You are way too invested in someone else's relationship.
I think tonight I will call my dh Honey Bunny.
He is not made of honey and he definetly is not a bunny but I think he is sweet and cute.
Will I have to defend my right to call him that?

 

[Loverly]

I call myself mom to my cats but I am not actually their mother and I would never say I am. It's the same thing.

Completely Off Topic..............but did anyone see The Office last week..........with Angela's new cat and her really acting like kitty's new Mom?

 

[Magic Mom]

Completely Off Topic..............but did anyone see The Office last week..........with Angela's new cat and her really acting like kitty's new Mom?

Grooming it!!!!

 

[Magic Mom]

I doubt that is how she felt considering the conversation was over within 3 emails back and forth, she apologized and said she looked into it and found out she was wrong. And She was quite aware I didn't mean her relationship with her bf, she actually understood what I meant. I know her very well and the only reason she even said it was to compete because I have a husband. She has never considered him this before and she has even insulted others who have said anything close to this about their relationships. She also told me that they are more husband/wife than my husband and I because we don't have children together (this was in the email prior to what was posted here). So I am supposed to just say ok, when initially all I was trying to do was make sure she was looking at the right card.

Well, then you were RIGHT, so all is well with the world. Its good to be right isn't it? Good thing she mentioned the card or you wouldn't have had the opportunity to point out that she wasn't right.
I'm glad you got the apology you deserved, because you were right.

 

[declansdad]

I doubt that is how she felt considering the conversation was over within 3 emails back and forth, she apologized and said she looked into it and found out she was wrong. And She was quite aware I didn't mean her relationship with her bf, she actually understood what I meant. I know her very well and the only reason she even said it was to compete because I have a husband. She has never considered him this before and she has even insulted others who have said anything close to this about their relationships. She also told me that they are more husband/wife than my husband and I because we don't have children together (this was in the email prior to what was posted here). So I am supposed to just say ok, when initially all I was trying to do was make sure she was looking at the right card.

I'm starting to wonder why the two of you are friends?

 

[wendyt_ca]

I hope my local Hallmark doesn't have Card Police posted at the checkout!

You are way too invested in someone else's relationship.
I think tonight I will call my dh Honey Bunny.
He is not made of honey and he definetly is not a bunny but I think he is sweet and cute.
Will I have to defend my right to call him that?

OMG again it isn't about the card she can buy whatever card she wants and she can call him whatever she wants. But they are not actually husband and wife...if they want to call each other it (even though they don't) they can but the question was are they really husband and wife. If I ask you if your DH is a bunny made of honey are you going to say he is? No, and that is the same situation.

 

[declansdad]

Where did TinksFury go?

 

[Magic Mom]

OMG again it isn't about the card she can buy whatever card she wants and she can call him whatever she wants. But they are not actually husband and wife...if they want to call each other it (even though they don't) they can but the question was are they really husband and wife. If I ask you if your DH is a bunny made of honey are you going to say he is? No, and that is the same situation.

Oh it was about he card.
This was all about the card.

me telling her about a husband card I saw that was funny that I had considered buying for my husband and she saw the same one but didn't get it either. She isn't married yet (she is engaged and getting married next year) so I said that it was a husband card though so she couldn't really get it

and then this...

Me
Yeah we never did until we were married. Cause it's still not husband/wife and it's really special now that we can finally buy those since we are officially. We lived together from the moment we dated but we weren't actually husband and wife. I don't look at the common law thing as husband and wife it takes the sacredness out of marriage.

there's more....

Me
It doesn`t matter how long I was with Pat that doesn`t make you and Paul any more husband and wife then we would have been since it is after a year and we have been living together for 4. I don`t think that the card thing is to do with sacredness that`s a personal thing but to say you are husband and wife is cause you aren`t, you will be next year but you aren`t yet. Marriage is about love I don`t see a wedding as a big party it`s about becoming married to the person you love which is the most sacred thing in the world when it comes to love.

This isn't about her legal marital status. This was about you insisting SHE can't consider the man in her life her husband, because YOU said so.

 

[Mouse House Mama]

I got a card and it says husband on it. You can't buy it because you don't have a husband. You only have a boyfriend. I have a husband so you cannot but it. He is not your husband so you can't buy a card that says husband. He is not your husband. I don't care if you consider him your husband because of your commitment to each other because he's not. My relationship is the better one because I have a husband. Don't even think of buying that card because he is not your husband! I know you are but what am I?

Oh- and yeah- my dh IS a bunny made of honey. At least to me he is. He is sweet and cute.

ETA- Oh- and having a child together is very sacred.

 

[Magic Mom]

I got a card and it says husband on it. You can't buy it because you don't have a husband. You only have a boyfriend. I have a husband so you cannot but it. He is not your husband so you can't buy a card that says husband. He is not your husband. I don't care if you consider him your husband because of your commitment to each other because he's not. My relationship is the better one because I have a husband. Don't even think of buying that card because he is not your husband! I know you are but what am I?

Oh- and yeah- my dh IS a bunny made of honey. At least to me he is. He is sweet and cute.

ETA- Oh- and having a child together is very sacred.

and NO, your husband isn't honey. He isn't, even if you say he is he is not or a bunny not a bunny I've seen bunnys and he isn't, a bunny that is.