Lil' Grumpy
<font color=purple>Lil' Grumpy is really a Big Swe
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first things, first...
,dibs on backiestage g.'s cake!
35 years..that's an accomplishment..where was i?..i was like
a baby?..ok, if you believe that one...
, i got some old
walt disney's scrolls....[pay no attention, where i scratched my
name out]
w. t. , singing ? to the baby..wow, what a great dad! wowsers,
yor right, i almost forgotten how to spell yor name..almost..
..however, i am getting back...to where i want to be. almost
!
..i do hope, iam not boring you all with the "stuff" i find
amazing...the experiences at work ...sometimes...effects me...
...especially..when the desired outcome is reached...because "it"
works like a verfication process. ..like i said before..i like things that
produces the desire results..especially simple things. that's my
pattern. like...
..now if i could just find a "real nut cracker"..hey did someone
mentioned w.t. back?
*sometimes mankind~ fails to realize what is in plain sight. there are
consequences for our behaviors..good and bad. it's a really neat system,
that works to protects..our future. if there were no consequences, then
there would be no need to do things right and/or take corrective measures.
without this "check and balancing" process...i doubt ,mankind would be
surviving today...or past biblical times. however, i think one of the major
reason that there are meanings to any behavior..comes from this
understanding...the "2 feelings' making up our value system...is recognizing
the differnces between what we desire..and what we don't. wow! this is
so misunderstood...that this is where i begin..helping others to start
thinking for themselves..in ways that will resolve problems and produce
their desire results...happiness instead of misery.
"bad things happening to good people"?
...like "sweet" revenge
versus trust versus...karman? maybe we should "pay more attention to
our feelings"- if we desire the ways of improving ourselves? [ ok-i'm being
clinical..showing "when"..i chose to do "redirecting". well, if i have to be
@ work..i might as well be useful
]
...good/bad things are the reaction/s (incuding reaction formation/s -
you know---the things reminding of past experiences, effecting our
current feelings) ,to our behavioral patterns...* and those doing things
to us..for good and bad feelings. the people that are driving us
bonkers...* something my lil'miss swears...i excels at
..its true, our worst arguments thru the years have been
over silly stuff..that had no special meanings...so a few weeks ago..we
were debating, when on a hunch...i verfied what she thought i was
meaning...yep, we were on 2 different subjects...
any moo,
...
"kinda"
emphsizes how important we chose to live life...
in the now & present. see...how I sneak kindness in there? * it never
amazes me,
how many have "diffculties" understanding this simple but effective
concept...acts of kindness...are the best way to impress those who
you desire ..a return of...
.
so the question becomes, what are the differnces between good & bad.
at first, one would think this would not be necessary...oh, contra--its
almost amusing~ how tangle up , many are skewing this basic "exchange"
...into many of their problems...hollywood takes this & the articles for
revenge...to make up most of their movies. * i just got to comment...
have you noticed? ..they have over themed these 2 things so much,
that now..they are trying to reach for mors realistic presentations...like
spiderman 3, and the new harry p. moivues...
, cos the majority
"goers" are having mixed views.."they want good versus evil..pure and
simple. "..not what they are skewing up in real life....i know there's humor
in that..but it also
... @ the same time.
and then there are the things we do not get to redo...life is not without its
rules and regulations by nature....connected to the "ways" we decide
what is ~~ right & wrong? ..however, the reality matrix..are the things that
motivate us to improve our choices for reaching our desires....* i can't
stress enough..most mental illness...is all about repeating the same
ineffective behaviors while expecting a different outcomes....ha!, you
should "see" all the things my lil'miss been teaching me all these years.

why?...it caught me off guard ...my co-workers
responses..i had
to re-think...what they were expressing..giving me credit over somthing
"i" did not create.....this abc system...was already put into place when
mankind was given "life". it is the ways we used it..or not, that makes our
times on earth..happy , sad, and all the rest of our "feelings" that are
at our disposal. it is self evident of those using this as a guide and those
that are not...just base on their life history..& their struggles in relationships.
ok?--you have me...where i begun my current work....& let me tell you..
i was shock..at how little help..professional ..were offering those
misunderstanding..the abc's of improving their lifestyles..so i started listening
to what they were missing...and from that...i developed my pt. education
programs...."you should see it work"..& what works best...? are the same
things..we all must do..to find happiness..in our daily routines!! ha!, what
is so exciting...is this basic unsderstanding our needs..can/should be
taught...very similar to the many good things...that were pass on...
from our extended family..."dick & jane era"...that has been replaced by
technical knowledge..skipping our basic but human needs.
fact..,those abusing/using chemicals substances [legal/illegal]...are doing
so to alter their feelings...artifically upgrading....the reason they are
addictive, they "do" produced an auroa , but....damaging the body normal
chemicals balance...resulting in cravings..and producing depressing "lows".
when their effects are over...look what the person must live with.."times"
in their life, a history of having nothing accomplished/nothing gain, to
remember in memories. including sharing their feeligs with significant
others....drug dependancy=loniness & a world of losses. no wonder as soon
as they come "off"....they crave to go back...under the influence,where
they are not aware what they are losing.
what cool about that? nothing. the person is wasting their times on earth.
* something they-me or you- do not get back. before we "see" them ,
they have wasted so much , that it like ,there is no will to change.
it dosn't take a genuis to predict ....where their lives are going.
as for me?..the only credit i deserve..is for using what is already in
place & 'learning" to be happy...
. what /why i expressing? thru
my work..i am learning how valuable these abc's are..for restoring
mental functioning..and helping others..wow, these things can/should
be taught...
, something,i believe should be pass on...
to our children sakes!!! psst, the ways we live life is where our
meanings for it comes..plain & simple! its all about finding happiness
..alot like the disney experience, being happy makes me excited...
* just like my lil'miss cutie pie,

35 years..that's an accomplishment..where was i?..i was like
a baby?..ok, if you believe that one...

walt disney's scrolls....[pay no attention, where i scratched my
name out]
w. t. , singing ? to the baby..wow, what a great dad! wowsers,
yor right, i almost forgotten how to spell yor name..almost..

..however, i am getting back...to where i want to be. almost


amazing...the experiences at work ...sometimes...effects me...
...especially..when the desired outcome is reached...because "it"
works like a verfication process. ..like i said before..i like things that
produces the desire results..especially simple things. that's my
pattern. like...


mentioned w.t. back?
*sometimes mankind~ fails to realize what is in plain sight. there are
consequences for our behaviors..good and bad. it's a really neat system,
that works to protects..our future. if there were no consequences, then
there would be no need to do things right and/or take corrective measures.
without this "check and balancing" process...i doubt ,mankind would be
surviving today...or past biblical times. however, i think one of the major
reason that there are meanings to any behavior..comes from this
understanding...the "2 feelings' making up our value system...is recognizing
the differnces between what we desire..and what we don't. wow! this is
so misunderstood...that this is where i begin..helping others to start
thinking for themselves..in ways that will resolve problems and produce
their desire results...happiness instead of misery.
"bad things happening to good people"?

versus trust versus...karman? maybe we should "pay more attention to
our feelings"- if we desire the ways of improving ourselves? [ ok-i'm being
clinical..showing "when"..i chose to do "redirecting". well, if i have to be
@ work..i might as well be useful

...good/bad things are the reaction/s (incuding reaction formation/s -
you know---the things reminding of past experiences, effecting our
current feelings) ,to our behavioral patterns...* and those doing things
to us..for good and bad feelings. the people that are driving us

bonkers...* something my lil'miss swears...i excels at


over silly stuff..that had no special meanings...so a few weeks ago..we
were debating, when on a hunch...i verfied what she thought i was
meaning...yep, we were on 2 different subjects...

any moo,

"kinda"

in the now & present. see...how I sneak kindness in there? * it never
amazes me,
how many have "diffculties" understanding this simple but effective
concept...acts of kindness...are the best way to impress those who
you desire ..a return of...

so the question becomes, what are the differnces between good & bad.
at first, one would think this would not be necessary...oh, contra--its
almost amusing~ how tangle up , many are skewing this basic "exchange"
...into many of their problems...hollywood takes this & the articles for
revenge...to make up most of their movies. * i just got to comment...
have you noticed? ..they have over themed these 2 things so much,
that now..they are trying to reach for mors realistic presentations...like
spiderman 3, and the new harry p. moivues...

"goers" are having mixed views.."they want good versus evil..pure and
simple. "..not what they are skewing up in real life....i know there's humor
in that..but it also

and then there are the things we do not get to redo...life is not without its
rules and regulations by nature....connected to the "ways" we decide
what is ~~ right & wrong? ..however, the reality matrix..are the things that
motivate us to improve our choices for reaching our desires....* i can't
stress enough..most mental illness...is all about repeating the same
ineffective behaviors while expecting a different outcomes....ha!, you
should "see" all the things my lil'miss been teaching me all these years.

why?...it caught me off guard ...my co-workers

to re-think...what they were expressing..giving me credit over somthing
"i" did not create.....this abc system...was already put into place when
mankind was given "life". it is the ways we used it..or not, that makes our
times on earth..happy , sad, and all the rest of our "feelings" that are
at our disposal. it is self evident of those using this as a guide and those
that are not...just base on their life history..& their struggles in relationships.
ok?--you have me...where i begun my current work....& let me tell you..
i was shock..at how little help..professional ..were offering those
misunderstanding..the abc's of improving their lifestyles..so i started listening
to what they were missing...and from that...i developed my pt. education
programs...."you should see it work"..& what works best...? are the same
things..we all must do..to find happiness..in our daily routines!! ha!, what
is so exciting...is this basic unsderstanding our needs..can/should be
taught...very similar to the many good things...that were pass on...
from our extended family..."dick & jane era"...that has been replaced by
technical knowledge..skipping our basic but human needs.
fact..,those abusing/using chemicals substances [legal/illegal]...are doing
so to alter their feelings...artifically upgrading....the reason they are
addictive, they "do" produced an auroa , but....damaging the body normal
chemicals balance...resulting in cravings..and producing depressing "lows".
when their effects are over...look what the person must live with.."times"
in their life, a history of having nothing accomplished/nothing gain, to
remember in memories. including sharing their feeligs with significant
others....drug dependancy=loniness & a world of losses. no wonder as soon
as they come "off"....they crave to go back...under the influence,where
they are not aware what they are losing.

what cool about that? nothing. the person is wasting their times on earth.
* something they-me or you- do not get back. before we "see" them ,
they have wasted so much , that it like ,there is no will to change.
it dosn't take a genuis to predict ....where their lives are going.
as for me?..the only credit i deserve..is for using what is already in
place & 'learning" to be happy...

my work..i am learning how valuable these abc's are..for restoring
mental functioning..and helping others..wow, these things can/should
be taught...

to our children sakes!!! psst, the ways we live life is where our
meanings for it comes..plain & simple! its all about finding happiness
..alot like the disney experience, being happy makes me excited...

* just like my lil'miss cutie pie,
