Disney Doll said:
I'm not sure what Massachusetts med-surg floors are like
I can tell you, about Boston anyway.
They're just like yours - insane but wonderful. There is a very high expectation of what type of nursing care will be delivered. Slackers need not apply.

"Not getting to something" is really not an option. You
must get to it, regardless of what it is, and that includes anything from helping someone get comfortable, to speaking with family members, to troubleshooting equipment, to starting a nitro or other drip, to attending an inservice in the middle of the shift, to helping new docs understand procedures, to training a new nurse, to planning staffing for the next shift, to fielding phone calls when there's no secretary, to doing all of your own vitals, bed changes, foley emptying and countless other things when there's no aide, to figuring out how to perform a complicated procedure you've never done before, to thinking critically and taking action when you are asked to do something that you don't feel is correct, to, well, you name it... Staffing levels (in my hospital, anyway) are such that you should be able to, unless the unforseen happens, at which time your co-workers will back you up (and if this doesn't happen, that's a problem, but generally it does). Oh yes, and no matter how busy your shift has been, your documentation must be stellar.
Yes, how about that evening shift? Family are visiting and want to speak with you; patients are coming back from procedures having not eaten all day and are hungry and quite possibly irritated, need fingersticks, meals, want to phone home, etc, and you have to make that patient feel comfortable and cared about, while at the same time taking off post procedure orders correctly and completely, assessing the patient to make sure they're stable (because the report you got isn't quite making sense), possibly dealing with hypotension, a groin or dressing bleed, vagal episode, vomiting, rigoring, etc, but really all the patient wants is to eat - how do you deal with that?; the ER is on the phone wanting to give you report on your new admission
now, and someone mentions this is the third time they've called (which is news to you); another patient you have, ie the "stable/quite one", is reporting chest pain, has fallen on the floor, is becoming confused, has a BP or 210/108, has a fingerstick of 32, has a critical lab value back, a K of 6.3, just had a run of VT, you name it, something always goes wrong yet you have to deal with it in the midst of everything else, and just when you do, your ER admission rolls onto the unit and isn't happy about the 9 hour wait on a stretcher all day and would like to eat, use the bathroom (but needs help), and hasn't taken any of his pills all day but wants them now and you have to explain that the doc must write orders and pharmacy has to approve them before you can give anything, etc. My job, in additon to all this, throws in the task of supervising the care given, troubleshooting any problems that come along, teaching, handholding whoever needs it, staffing for the next shift (which in and of itself can be an overwhelming task), and a myriad of other things. Welcome to Evenings!
Seem overwhelming? You got it! Nurses who do it make it look easy, but I can assure you, it ain't.
If anyone wonders why Med-Surg nurses get defensive, especially when criticized by new nurses who've never done it in the real world, now you know. Nurses who do are highly skilled at managing many things at once. The best complement any nurse can get is when a patient is happy with the care they received. Most patients have no idea how many things that nurse juggled that shift, so if they had all their needs met, then that nurse did a nice job. Some nurses will even volunteer to take the most difficult patients, which makes it even more remarkable when they are able to do everything required of them and more.
I can assure you there is nothing less pleasant than working with a whiny or lazy nurse who does not want to pull his or her weight on any given shift. Other nurses do not take kindly to this. Nor do they take kindly to new grads coming in to a unit spouting off that they really wanted an ICU job but took this as the "consolation" position so they can learn and move on - do you really think, knowing this and feeling that kind of "dig" to the work they've chosen for whatever reason, that the majority of nurses are going to "take you under their wing", develop a relationship with you, spend countless hours helping you, knowing it's kind of "below" you to begin with? I've seen this type of nurse many times and they're often the ones who think it's below them to give basic care - don't fool yourself, patients, and even the aides pick up on this and will develop a dislike of you if you're always asking them to do your dirty work. I say this because I'm trying to explain why you're getting some of the reactions you did and hopefully you take it in the helpful spirit it is given. None of us know you personally, obviously, and you sound very bright and enthusiastic (like many of today's new nurses), but we're all picking up that your condascending tone may be the thing that's hindering you're getting a position. A little humility will probably go a long way here. There will come a time later when you can be the greatest NICU nurse the unit has ever seen. But for the next few years, you should concentrate on learning the basics, and I do mean basics, wherever you ultimately work. Remember, everything we do is driven by what's best for the patient.
Sorry so long... as you can tell, it's a passionate subject for many of us.