Make a Wish (and other organizations!) - Wish Trippers...UNITE!! Volume 2!

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It sounds like a hard week for so many of our families. Prayers being said for all of the angels (on both heaven and earth) whose stories have braced this thread.
 
Adding a prayer request. . . My dad fell tonight and is on the way to the hospital. He has Parkinsons and was recovering from a broken hip. I am so very sad tonight. I wish I could be near my parents to somehow encourage and help. My dad sounded so happy and like himself again when I talked to him last night. I hate picturing him hurting again! My mom has been having a very hard time dealing with his worsening Parkinsons - and now this. My heart is very heavy. Please lift my family in prayer tonight.
 
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Adding a prayer request. . . My dad fell tonight and is on the way to the hospital. He has Parkinsons and was recovering from a broken hip. I am so very sad tonight. I wish I could be near my parents to somehow encourage and help. My dad sounded so happy and like himself again when I talked to him last night. I hate picturing him hurting again! My mom has been having a very hard time dealing with his worsening Parkinsons - and now this. My heart is very heavy. Please lift my family in prayer tonight.



Please kn ow that you are in my thoughts and prayers tonight!!!!

Here is an hug for you :grouphug:
 
Adding a prayer request. . . My dad fell tonight and is on the way to the hospital. He has Parkinsons and was recovering from a broken hip. I am so very sad tonight. I wish I could be near my parents to somehow encourage and help. My dad sounded so happy and like himself again when I talked to him last night. I hate picturing him hurting again! My mom has been having a very hard time dealing with his worsening Parkinsons - and now this. My heart is very heavy. Please lift my family in prayer tonight.

Your family is in my family's prayers. I hope your Dad gets better real soon.:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:
 

My heart aches tonight for Nichole and Brad...I just felt like being on here tonight with you guys even though it has been awhile for me...Like most of us I never met Nichole or Noah but felt like I "know" them from her blog. That's what happens... I love ya'll and all your precious precious children. Like Linda said words do seem so useless...but I keep thinking of the Steven Curtis Chapman song "With Hope"...

This is not at all how
We thought it was supposed to be
We had so many plans for you
We had so many dreams
And now you've gone away
And left us with the memories of your smile
And nothing we can say
And nothing we can do
Can take away the pain
The pain of losing you, but ...

We can cry with hope
We can say goodbye with hope
'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end, oh no
And we can grieve with hope
'Cause we believe with hope
(There's a place by God's grace)
There's a place where we'll see your face again
We'll see your face again

And never have I known
Anything so hard to understand
And never have I questioned more
The wisdom of God's plan
But through the cloud of tears
I see the Father's smile and say well done
And I imagine you
Where you wanted most to be
Seeing all your dreams come true
'Cause now you're home
And now you're free, and ...

We have this hope as an anchor
'Cause we believe that everything
God promised us is true, so ...

So we can cry with hope
And say goodbye with hope

We wait with hope
And we ache with hope
We hold on with hope
We let go with hope
 
Amber, what a beautiful song and message! I was drawn back here too, after being gone for so long. I feel like I know several of you too, though we've never met. My heart breaks for Nichole and Brad... Praying for them in their grief.
 
Well I guess I'm not alone with coming back to the place it all began! We got to spend a little time with this wonderfull family. I was able to get us some pins for trading and specifically got a few for Noah. His smile was toxic as well as his brother and sister. I know those kids will be like Mya when she thinks of her older brother, that already plays with Jesus. I pray they know he looks down on them healed of all his illnesses and praising our King as a healthy young boy waiting for the day his family will once again hold him in their arms! Must stop typing can't see throught he tears.
 
Adding a prayer request. . . My dad fell tonight and is on the way to the hospital. He has Parkinsons and was recovering from a broken hip. I am so very sad tonight. I wish I could be near my parents to somehow encourage and help. My dad sounded so happy and like himself again when I talked to him last night. I hate picturing him hurting again! My mom has been having a very hard time dealing with his worsening Parkinsons - and now this. My heart is very heavy. Please lift my family in prayer tonight.

I am sorry to hear about your dad. It is hard to take care of our wish kids and our aging parents, isn't it. I have been absent from the Dis for a while because my mom's dementia has gotten much worse and I was arranging for in home care and hospice. My heart has been heavy too; heavy for everyone here. I am so grateful that we have each other to chat with. We will remember your dad in prayer.

Elisa
 
Adding a prayer request. . . My dad fell tonight and is on the way to the hospital. He has Parkinsons and was recovering from a broken hip. I am so very sad tonight. I wish I could be near my parents to somehow encourage and help. My dad sounded so happy and like himself again when I talked to him last night. I hate picturing him hurting again! My mom has been having a very hard time dealing with his worsening Parkinsons - and now this. My heart is very heavy. Please lift my family in prayer tonight.

I am so sorry, definitely praying.

My heart aches tonight for Nichole and Brad...I just felt like being on here tonight with you guys even though it has been awhile for me...Like most of us I never met Nichole or Noah but felt like I "know" them from her blog. That's what happens... I love ya'll and all your precious precious children. Like Linda said words do seem so useless...but I keep thinking of the Steven Curtis Chapman song "With Hope"...

This is not at all how
We thought it was supposed to be
We had so many plans for you
We had so many dreams
And now you've gone away
And left us with the memories of your smile
And nothing we can say
And nothing we can do
Can take away the pain
The pain of losing you, but ...

We can cry with hope
We can say goodbye with hope
'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end, oh no
And we can grieve with hope
'Cause we believe with hope
(There's a place by God's grace)
There's a place where we'll see your face again
We'll see your face again

And never have I known
Anything so hard to understand
And never have I questioned more
The wisdom of God's plan
But through the cloud of tears
I see the Father's smile and say well done
And I imagine you
Where you wanted most to be
Seeing all your dreams come true
'Cause now you're home
And now you're free, and ...

We have this hope as an anchor
'Cause we believe that everything
God promised us is true, so ...

So we can cry with hope
And say goodbye with hope

We wait with hope
And we ache with hope
We hold on with hope
We let go with hope

Ok...this has me squalling. Thank you for posting it, Amber!

Amber, what a beautiful song and message! I was drawn back here too, after being gone for so long. I feel like I know several of you too, though we've never met. My heart breaks for Nichole and Brad... Praying for them in their grief.

I agree 100%.

Well I guess I'm not alone with coming back to the place it all began! We got to spend a little time with this wonderfull family. I was able to get us some pins for trading and specifically got a few for Noah. His smile was toxic as well as his brother and sister. I know those kids will be like Mya when she thinks of her older brother, that already plays with Jesus. I pray they know he looks down on them healed of all his illnesses and praising our King as a healthy young boy waiting for the day his family will once again hold him in their arms! Must stop typing can't see throught he tears.

:sad1: :hug: Thanks for checking in!
 
I am sitting the ICU waiting room.

One of my best friends, Rachel, is here. For the full story, you can check the green link...I just can't type it all here.

But she is not getting any better and has gone down so very fast.

My personal thoughts are that she may not make it through the weekend.

Please pray for her Mom, Joyce.

I feel bad that I am not on here as much...things are just a little crazy right now.
 
I am sitting the ICU waiting room.

One of my best friends, Rachel, is here. For the full story, you can check the green link...I just can't type it all here.

But she is not getting any better and has gone down so very fast.

My personal thoughts are that she may not make it through the weekend.

Please pray for her Mom, Joyce.

I feel bad that I am not on here as much...things are just a little crazy right now.

Pleasae don't feel bad about not being here as much. You are where you need to be right now.

I will be going over to your other post for all the details, but know I am still praying often for you, Rachel, and Joyce.

My dad is home!! :woohoo: I have details on Deyki's PTR linked in my signature. No breaks, hip replacement in tact.

This has been a hard week for a lot of Wish families. Thanks for the support offered on these boards.
 
Over the past few days I have read a lot of these trip reports and am in awe at how amazing and strong these families are. I just recently started to sign up for the "Big Gives" and am so excited to be spreading a little happiness to these amazing families. I look forward to talking to you all on here!
 
As earlier stated it seems to have been a tough week for several of the families. We are praying for those that had such difficulty this week. It is never easy to deal with these situations. Praying that God's grace will cover all who are in need. On our end Collin is doing pretty good right now. A few things here and there but if he is up and moving around that makes it a good week.

Posted a little update on our trip planning on Collins PTR. Thanks to everyone for stopping by. Again our thoughts with all those having a tough time.
 
Last night, Ms Barbie and I had a Disney planning session to figure out which parks on which days and where we'd like to eat. I wanted to get this out of the way so that I could see about getting us some dining reservations before places got filled up. Here's what we've come up with so far -- of course subject to change! :) Most days, we plan to eat breakfast and dinner at the Village.

Saturday -- Arrival in Orlando. Depending on the time we arrive, we'll hang out at GKTW and possibly head over to Downtown Disney.

Sunday -- Hollywood Studios. Our first park day, we thought it would be best to keep it 'light' and ease into the bigger parks. I've made a late breakfast reservation at Hollywood and Vine. You can't beat a good breakfast buffet, right?

Monday -- Sea World. I really want to Dine With Shamu. I'm going to talk to our Wish Volunteer to see if she can get it arranged. If she can't then I'll go ahead and make the reservations and just pay out of my pocket. I LOVE Sea World and I think Mikaela really will also. I've taken her to the Newport Aquarium(near Cincinnati) and she loved watching the fish and stuff.

Tuesday -- Epcot. There are a few things at Epcot I think Mik will like -- especially the Nemo stuff. I've made a lunch reservation at Biergarten The food here sounds really good and the atmosphere seems really fun. Mik will love the polka band! :)

Wednesday -- Magic Kingdom. This will be our longest day! I think Mikaela will love all of the attractions, people for watching, characters and fireworks. We made reserevations at Crystal Palace for lunch. Mik will freak out when she sees Pooh, Eeyore, Tigger and Piglet. We'll be having dinner at Liberty Tree Tavern.

Thursday -- Universal Studios/Islands of Adventure. Our last full day in Florida will be spent at US/IOA. I haven't read a whole lot about these parks so not sure what they have.

Again, this is all greatly tentative. And as I read more about the parks/dining options I may just decide to change my mind -- 'cause I can!
 
Hello all. I am what you would probably refer to as a lurker. My name is Terry. I have been reading about all the sadness of late and feel almost like I am intruding on your board at a bad time. But since I have been having a difficult time pulling myself away from this board, I figured I should just dive in and introduce myself while also offering my thoughts and prayers to those who are living thru such dark times.

As I said before, my name is Terry, and my nine year old son Richard has been granted his wish to go to Disney from Make-A-Wish. Richard has cystic fibrosis which was previously very manageable. However, the last year has been incredibly difficult for him with frequent hospitalizations and various medical procedures. Richard also has had many surgeries to correct abdominal abnormalities which were unrelated to the CF. Well, like I said, its been a tough year. He missed most of the school year due to illness and has struggled to keep his spirits up. One of his home-care nurses nominated him for a wish and before we knew it, we were booked to depart on September 26th.

My husband and I are incredibly humbled by the generosity of strangers and are frankly overwhelmed. We are also having a difficult time trying to reconcile the needs of our son with that of our four year old daughter Katie. You see, Katie has autism. She is only beginning to speak words and has many sensory and transition issues. Fortunately, my parents and sisters have agreed to meet up with us and help with Katie so as not to ruin Richard's wish trip. My family is staying at GKTW and my parents/sisters are going to stay at the Contemporary. I have my fingers crossed that this will work for us. My greatest fear is Katie needs will overshadow Richard's wants. He is such a great kid, a sweet and wonderfully doting brother and I just want this to be perfect for him. Despite his disease, he has had to sacrafice so much for his sister and he does it without hesitation.

I know there are so many more deserving people than our family, but if you could keep good thoughts for us, I would genuinely appreciate it.

I also wanted to thank you all on behalf of all the lurkers out there. The information, guidance and support you provide is simply priceless. And forgive me if I posted this in the wrong place, as a newbie who is not very computer savy, I did the best I could.:)



 
Welcome Terry! Please do not feel like an intruder. We exist to help people plan their trips and look forward to having you. If you have not, you may want to look at some of the Pre Trip Reports (links can be found on the first page) and then start your own!
 
Saturday -- Arrival in Orlando. Depending on the time we arrive, we'll hang out at GKTW and possibly head over to Downtown Disney.

Thursday -- Universal Studios/Islands of Adventure. Our last full day in Florida will be spent at US/IOA. I haven't read a whole lot about these parks so not sure what they have.

Again, this is all greatly tentative. And as I read more about the parks/dining options I may just decide to change my mind -- 'cause I can!

Don't forget when you get to GKTW that you will have an orientation session you have to go to. This is where you get your ticket packets, etc., and it is vital.

Universal has been a mixed bag for wish families. Some have loved it more than Disney; others have been less than enthusiastic. If you are not a thrill ride family, you could probably do both parks in one day. You will be amazed at how fast the week at GKTW flies by. It is not possible to squeeze everything in. Wendygrace, the original founder of the thread has some info on Universal, and I do too. I believe that macntosh has a lot of info on it as well, but I can't remember right now (a little early here). Both parks do have some gems for young children though, so it would be worth at least a day to go check out ET, Dr. Seuss, Shrek, Curious George and Barney.
 
Hello all. I am what you would probably refer to as a lurker. My name is Terry. I have been reading about all the sadness of late and feel almost like I am intruding on your board at a bad time. But since I have been having a difficult time pulling myself away from this board, I figured I should just dive in and introduce myself while also offering my thoughts and prayers to those who are living thru such dark times.

As I said before, my name is Terry, and my nine year old son Richard has been granted his wish to go to Disney from Make-A-Wish. Richard has cystic fibrosis which was previously very manageable. However, the last year has been incredibly difficult for him with frequent hospitalizations and various medical procedures. Richard also has had many surgeries to correct abdominal abnormalities which were unrelated to the CF. Well, like I said, its been a tough year. He missed most of the school year due to illness and has struggled to keep his spirits up. One of his home-care nurses nominated him for a wish and before we knew it, we were booked to depart on September 26th.

My husband and I are incredibly humbled by the generosity of strangers and are frankly overwhelmed. We are also having a difficult time trying to reconcile the needs of our son with that of our four year old daughter Katie. You see, Katie has autism. She is only beginning to speak words and has many sensory and transition issues. Fortunately, my parents and sisters have agreed to meet up with us and help with Katie so as not to ruin Richard's wish trip. My family is staying at GKTW and my parents/sisters are going to stay at the Contemporary. I have my fingers crossed that this will work for us. My greatest fear is Katie needs will overshadow Richard's wants. He is such a great kid, a sweet and wonderfully doting brother and I just want this to be perfect for him. Despite his disease, he has had to sacrafice so much for his sister and he does it without hesitation.

I know there are so many more deserving people than our family, but if you could keep good thoughts for us, I would genuinely appreciate it.

I also wanted to thank you all on behalf of all the lurkers out there. The information, guidance and support you provide is simply priceless. And forgive me if I posted this in the wrong place, as a newbie who is not very computer savy, I did the best I could.:)





Terry:

Welcome to the Dis. You are in the right place. There is a TR from a mom who has two children with CF that you might be interested in.

http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?p=21543422#post21543422

There is also a lot of info managing Disney with a child who has autism. My son's diagnosis has bounced around a couple of times, and he is no longer diagnosed as autistic, but rather has some brain damage and has autistic characteristics. You can read my TR for some of the challenges we faced. I have also really promoted one TR from a non wish family. She came up with a social story guide book for her son and they go over it repeatedly before disney and he uses it in the park to keep everything familiar and prevent or lessen melt downs. I have to go to a City PTA training meeting, so I am getting ready to scoot out the door to help set up. School starts here in a week :dance3:. When I get back I'll post some links that will be helpful to you on for your daughter. You will also have access to wish lounges and VIP lounges while you are there, so if you need to get to a quiet place for Katie to wind down, there will be more available to you as a wish family than any other visitor to the parks. Additionally, you probably already know if you have been lurking for a while, you will receive a GAC (Guest Assistance Card). This will get you extra assistance when it comes to all the attractions. It is a complicated thing; kind of like a fast pass, but not a front of the line pass. It gets your family the assistance they need at each attraction, so that you won't necessarily have to deal with the crowds, and other obstacles. The other thing that helped us tremendously is the double stroller we had every day. Disney and Sea World will give you a free stroller rental when they see your GKTW button. GKTW will give you a voucher for a stroller at Universal. I have three younger boys and Disney was gracious enough to give us two. The stroller became a sort of sanctuary for my boys. It is large, more like a rickshaw than a stroller...not necessarily best suited for little babies. I think Wendygrace and her husband called it their magic chariot. It gives the kids their own personal space and gets them out of the throngs. Your date is good...September shouldn't be as bad weather wise or crowd wise, as July or August. Ask any questions that you have. Even though there is a definite air of sadness and worry here right now, nothing will help everyone here more than helping someone else. Glad you signed up.

Elisa
 
Hi Terry,

I am glad you decided to post. Welcome! I have only been on these boards about 5 weeks myself, but it is a welcoming community. There is so much to be learned here and people who care.

It's not easy balncing the needs of more than one child, especially when they each have their own issues. My wish child has all his medical needs and the baby in my home is profoundly deaf and uses cochlear implants. Then I have two healthy children who also need their needs met. You do the best you can.

Add into all of it a Wish Trip that you want to be special and things get even trickier! I don't have children with autism, but my middle daughter had some severe sensory issues as a infant, toddler, and preschooler. Thankfully, she has overcome most of it, but part of me is nervous still about her having a meltdown while we are there. Do you think it would help to turn one of those bigger Disney strollers into a refuge for her? You cold make it like a sensory tent of sorts. Put a blanket over it that she can pull down to block out sights that are too much. Maybe put in things she can chew on, different textures, toys with light or music - whatever calms her. I have not seen the strollers, so I don't know if it would be easy to attach these things. I am sure someone on here would have advice if you think it might be helpful.

I am glad your family is coming to help out. Your son sounds like such a special, compassionate child.

Let us know if you start a pre-trip report so we can follow it!
 
Don't forget when you get to GKTW that you will have an orientation session you have to go to. This is where you get your ticket packets, etc., and it is vital.

Oh I know I have the orientation. That's why I said that it really just depends on what time we arrive on if we'll just hang out at GKTW or try to venture out some. I'm hoping we get an early early flight out. :) But if we just hang at the village, that's A OK with me!
 
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