So my daughter and I had no idea what the fish extenders were when we saw them on the Wonder in December but did notice there seemed to be little packages dropped off in them. So do you drop off a different gift daily? Are there rules for the types of things to exchange? I won't have any kids with me so I'm not sure I meet the criteria for participation
Thanks for asking about our Fish Extender Exchange.

You can most certainly participate! It's open to everyone! We have lots of people signed up without kids. I don't set any rules to the FE Exchanges that I set up because I want it to be a fun, stress-free experience for everyone.

What and when to hand out your surprises is completely up to you. Most will deliver a surprise once during the cruise, while some might decide to do more than one delivery. (I will actually be doing two deliveries because I recently found a Frozen-themed goodie in addition to my main FE gifts.)
Here's my best overall explanation to what a FE is and how to participate:
Beside every cabin door is a large silver fish with an indentation in the back (mail slot) for cruise personnel to leave information, invitations, etc. DISboarders have taken the silver fish one step further... by creating hanging pockets (much like cloth letter holders) to hang/extend from the fish - thus the name, "Fish Extender". Fish Extenders (FEs) can be made of practically anything (cloth, plastic, paper gift bags, etc.), as long as they have at least one pocket that can hold surprises. My first FE was just a medium-sized canvas bag purchased from a local craft store. A Google Image search of “fish extenders” will show dozens of unique styles!
Each "Cruise Meets" thread organizes their own little gift exchange. Some exchanges are set up with a lot of requirements, but I like to make it as easy and fun as possible. I always leave it up to the giver to decide what to give and when to pass it out during the cruise. Some people decide to give one surprise per family, some people like to give a little gift to each person in the cabin, and some decide to do a different theme each day.
There are several DIS Boards threads that discuss ideas for FE gifts. Some gifts are from Dollar Stores, some are handmade, some are bought in bulk from websites that sell trinkets like the Oriental Trading Company, etc. Often, they are stickers, candy, glow sticks, lanyards, luggage tags, magnets, cups, mugs, frames, keychains, etc., with themes such as pirates, beach, cruise, tropical, hometown, holiday, Frozen, Avengers, characters, Disney, etc. The main idea is just to have fun finding little goodies in your FE throughout the cruise.
I want everyone to feel comfortable with the number of cabins you’ll be exchanging with. I’ve participated in exchanges that had only 4 cabins participating on a 3-night cruise, all the way up to over 80 participating cabins on the longer cruises! So, I break the groups down to a choice of 10 in your FE group, 20 in your FE group, or “Sky’s the Limit” for those of us who believe the more the merrier!
The deadline to join this Fish Extender Exchange will be Saturday, April 15, 2017 to give everyone time to get their FE gifts prepared and packed. I will send all participants a Private Message ("Conversation") through the DIS Boards on Sunday, April 16, with your FE group information (names, kids' ages, cabin number, allergies). You'll need to be sure to print that final list of participants and pack it with your gifts so you'll know where to deliver them once you're onboard the ship.
To join the FE Exchange, please send me (Deb T.) a “Conversation” with the following information:
*Your Cabin Number
*Names of everyone in your cabin
*Ages of children
*Any allergy considerations
*The size of the FE group you want to be in: “No more than 10,” “No more than 20,” or “Sky’s the Limit.”
To send a “Conversation”
Click on my name (Deb T.) in the little box on the top left
Click on “Start a Conversation”
Enter a “Conversation Title”
Under the row of icons, type your message
To send, Click “Start a Conversation” under your message
(FYI: If you are new to the DIS Boards, you will need to have made at least ten posts on DIS Forums before you can send a Private Message.)
People who are officially signed up:
charterchick
Deb T.
Giggles6311
hmhaase
ImNarek
Kerpe
Maple Det
Mommatothebear
mvlimmex
ndloewen (I need your cabin number)
Nutrigirl
Pawdoc Daisy
QueenEleanor (I need your cabin number)
Shawnadb
People who have shown interest but not officially signed up yet:
Dismama2
tmullen93
CowboyKell
sourmug
Poookie
cali cruiser
SwingDancingAnn
Lonnstar
Cbardwell
Joseph Bennett
I hope you'll decide to join!
