i am sorry. i have not had a miscarriage so i offer no help there, i do offer my prayers and thoughts to you both though as you go through these emotional times, however they turn out.
it is nice (ykwim) to see those who have gone through it though, share their advice. i am sorry for all of you who have gone through this. it is so sad.
i love the dis family, it is always there for whoever needs them.
sending hugs to you both!!!