If I could ask or touch on the topic of the hours of homework being an ok thing. Do many people actually agree with this? At the start of our school year my 2nd grader had up to an hour of homework a night. I couldn't imagine spending 3.5 hours doing school type of work with her a night, fun or not. She needs time to be a kid, learn to read for enjoyment and not because she has to. She needs free time to not have to incorporate math or other basics into her play, and just play how she wants. The old rule of thumb and experience had shown that anything over 10 minutes of homework per grade level a night for a student really did not get them to learn more. So by that my 2nd grader should have no more than 20 minutes of homework a night. Of course some students do their work faster than others so the 20 minutes is an average. She comes home at 330 and if you take out an hour for dinner, if she did 3.5 hours of school type of work a night she would be up until 8pm. Where's her free time? Where's her time to be a child? Where's her time to try and be creative and not worry about math and reading? How many adults would want to work 8 hours a day, and then come home and do work related stuff for another 3.5 hours? Many do, but I wouldn't say they were happy about it.
A quarter into the school year and I had had enough of my 7 year old being in tears 30 minutes into her homework because she was simply just done with it. Sure I could find a fun game that related to the work, but it wouldn't change the fact she still had a paragraph to write about a 3 paragraph story she still had to read.

I totally agree education begins at home in the early years. Now she's in public school my role is to supplement and enhance what she's learned during the day. I have no issues doing this. It's my job as a parent and I enjoy helping her learn. I do not enjoy doing it for over an hour a night, when her brain is simply done with thinking. I do not enjoy having to explain the basic concepts she should have been taught at school before they moved onto more complex math problems. Her math problems look like this 13 + 5 + 5 = and there's nothing wrong with a 2nd grader having these sorts of problems. The problem is the week before they started with these problems was her math homework was only the 3 + 5 = and they moved right on without explaining or being able to make sure most of the students understood that 5 + 5 is always and forever going to equal 10. Instead they have been allowed to depend on the number line on their desk, and not memorize the basics. I have seen my child go from being a 1st grader who excelled at math and loved it, to a 2nd grader who has low confidence and feels like a failure. The main reasons are because so many basic concepts are being skipped over. So while her homework may only be what the teacher considers 30-45 minutes, I as a parent have to spend an additional 30 minutes teaching her basic concepts before she can even begin her homework. Yes most of it is me, because I refuse to allow her to use a number line at home. But because she is a visual learner I have found many ways to teach her the basics with other means vs. counting along a number line. She will never learn to memorize basic math answers if she has that number line is my personal thought.
Not to mention my child also has 2 days of gymnastics class a week. So 4 hours total. On those nights after gym and homework she's often not in bed until 10pm or later. That is way too late. There is no reason a 7 year old cannot have one activity in addition to school work, but the amount of homework she is bringing home makes it almost impossible. This further adds to her frustration to the point she also does not enjoy going to gymnastic class. From a parent standpoint with no degree in education I keep asking myself what are we doing to our kids? How is quantity over quality going to educate them better?
With that said I for one am thrilled to see word problems being used in younger grades. As others have posted in the real word most math you do is from a word type of problem. Teaching them how to properly read the word problems at an early age is a wonderful thing. As long as they are also taught the basic mathematical concepts to go along with them. In the middle of her homework last week she had an estimation problem. The end of the week before they had just started learning a new concept, and 2 days later they are working on estimation.

Blew her 7 year old mind and she totally shut down.
I did sit down with her teacher and in detail explained the issues she was having, the issues I was having and asked for guidance on how to best handle it. My main concerns is I saw an eager, average, student go from being very detailed in her answers and a desire to learn. To a student who if she didn't know an answer, or the problem looked foreign to her she'd just skip over it and not care. I saw a kid that in one month's time go from thriving in her gymnastic class, to being demoted to a lower level because she could not focus on what was being asked of her. Nothing in her home life had changed, she was still a very social kid, no behavior issues or anything else that may lead one to believe there may be something else going on. As a parent, in my gut, I knew it was the way the new concepts were being presented at school. She's a very active child and due to new demands on teaching her class they only had one 15 minute recess a day, snack time was gone, and free time in class was nonexistent. I found out they were being given 20 minutes to eat lunch and the lunch monitors were telling them to eat more of the "good" stuff and to hurry up and do it. Now is this prison or a 2nd grade classroom? Sure doesn't sound like a 2nd grade classroom to me.
Finally after talking with the 2nd grade teachers and principal as well as bringing up the issue to the PTA board, we came to this plan for my child. We set a timer for 30 minutes a night for homework. Whatever she gets done in that 30 minutes is what she does for homework. She will not be told what to eat and how much of what to eat during lunch anymore. They are looking into adding back the 2nd recess, at least a couple of days a week, but until then the one recess has been extended to 20 minutes. Each class will once again have 15 minutes of free time for the kids to socialize and explore what is in their classroom. And the amazing thing is she is now doing better in school, and doing better in gymnastic class. Her confidence is up and she has gained more focus on things. Basically my 7 year old is a happy, normal 7 year old again.
I also want to point out that last year she was sick for almost a month and missed a lot of reading concepts. We worked hard to make that up, but when she wasn't making the progress I wanted to see I did not hesitate to cut back on gym class. This year I knew it wasn't the activity that was the issue, because if it is I really have no problem cutting back on an activity. This year it's her academics, and they were getting in the way of everything and for no good reason that I could see.
So I'm sorry, and maybe I'm reading it wrong, but I cannot fathom how having a child do 3.5 hours of homework a night benefits anyone? I wouldn't want my high school aged child doing that much homework every night even. It's too much. I didn't even spend 3.5 hours of homework in a week's time when I took organic chem over the summer in college. Why should my 2nd grader need to have more homework now, than I did in college?