Is it okay to put family first? (Response to royal family stuff)

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Don't forget Princess Michael of Kent wore a "blackamoor" brooch to meet Meghan for the very first time. This wasn't Princess Michael of Kent first incident with racism either. She told a group of African American diners in NY restaurant to “go back to the colonies.” Granted this wasn't an immediate Royal Family Member, yet still someone within the ranks of The Royal Family. Hard to deny M&H racism claims as false when past behaviors of those within the ranks of The Royal Family reflect otherwise.
 
But who are you to dictate the terms on which an allegation like that is allowed? I don't find those terms anywhere near as offensive as the contents of the allegation itself (and the allegation was specifically about concerns). You can choose not to believe it, but I don't find it hard at all to believe that a centuries-old family -- especially given the history of the monarchy -- might have some racist undertones within. It's not about getting rid of the institution; it's about that institution learning, evolving, and growing to get with the times. This is Harry and Meghan's side of the story; the Royals have had their opportunity to share their side as well. There is good that can come out of all of this but people need to stop vilifying each other, getting overly-defensive, and actually look at how to solve the problem.

Who am I? Why I'm part of the unwashed masses they're seeking to influence to the benefit of their brand so they remain relevant, turn a profit and therefore support themselves, which incidentally they want to be sure they get credit for. They keep reaching out to me with Op Eds, talk show skits and now a nicely polished interview. That's who I am.

Doesn't mean I am required to fall into and accept their PR blitz without question. Up until the Op Ed we the great unwashed really didn't have the opportunity to hear the words from their own mouths. Finally things weren't being filtered through unnamed sources, for or against them. Yes, I will judge their credibility the same way I would anybody else.

It's not impossible they faced racism. The fact that the allegations are offensive isn't evidence they're true. But the fact they knowingly make such offensive allegations so publicly, effectively calling for members of their family to be canceled, yet only characterize instead of directly state exactly what was said, is very telling in my eyes. If something is that offensive, that repugnant, that disturbing, that devastating and you're courting public opinion, you tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. These are not people unaware of how hurtful and destructive the press and social media can be, yet they don't have any hesitation to make deliberately nebulous accusations against an unknown member(s) of the family they love so dearly? They know full well that everyone will be speculating who among the family should be the target of public outrage. If they're really so traumatized by their experience with a vicious press and intrusive public, why would they have hung that cloud over family members who expressed no "concerns" and shouldn't share that blame?

Nope, things don't add up and there are repeated incidents of talking from both sides of their mouths. I believe the royal family has problems aplenty. I don't think these two have a leg to stand on to be throwing stones.
 

Don't forget Princess Michael of Kent wore a "blackamoor" brooch to meet Meghan for the very first time. This wasn't Princess Michael of Kent first incident with racism either. She told a group of African American diners in NY restaurant to “go back to the colonies.” Granted this wasn't an immediate Royal Family Member, yet still someone within the ranks of The Royal Family. Hard to deny M&H racism claims as false when past behaviors of those within the ranks of The Royal Family reflect otherwise.

So if someone in your family is a racist buffoon, it's okay to assume you are too? Does Meghan want to be held accountable for the actions of her Markle family members, and should she be?
 
Hard to deny M&H racism claims as false when past behaviors of those within the ranks of The Royal Family reflect otherwise.
So if the wife of Queen Elizabeth's cousin acts in an arguably racist way, then any vague accusation of racism against any unnamed member of the royal family is totally believable? Never mind that we haven't a clue what was said to who supposedly said it.

I guess that means if my cousin's wife commits a crime, my entire family are labeled as likely criminals. If your cousin's spouse has some objectionable behavior, then the entire family is suspect as well. Alrighty.
 
So I happen to follow the Royals on twitter/Instagram. Today the Cambridge's posted a thing on Jasmine Harrison in reference to Intl. Women's Day.

the comments are horrible. Calling Kate a bully, a racist. Saying the Monarchy is going down. How could you treat your SIL like this etc.....saying what a horrible person she is, your drove your SIL to want to kill herself etc....

This is where Harry and Meghan need to take responsibility for their accusations and be specific and call out those who are at fault. What they have done is possible cause harm to those who do not deserve it.
This is where they were wrong in their interview. You could never tell really who they were faulting for all that went wrong, was it the press, the Royal press office, The Crown, the establishement ( who is the establishment, family or Palace staff), specific family members??
 
It's easier to persuade a foreign country, who don't know any details first-hand. You can tell people who don't have an initial understanding whatever you like, especially if you make it sound like escaping a racist prison.
I get what you're saying, but do people in the UK really believe that you do "know the details first-hand"?

Or, do you know what the Monarchy wants you to know?
 
I’m wondering if the infamous conversation where William told Harry to slow down and get to know Meghan better was one of these alleged conversations that raised “concerns” over what the children would look like and how that would reflect on the monarchy. Previously, Harry’s level of offense taken to the conversation seemed disproportionate to what seemed like rather reasonable advice. However, if there were racist undertones to it, it would explain why it upset him so much and why the relationship with his brother started to break down afterwards. It makes sense that he might be surprised to hear this stuff coming from his brother. I can’t imagine he’d be too surprised if the comments were coming from the Baroness of Blackamoor Brooch.
 
I get what you're saying, but do people in the UK really believe that you do "know the details first-hand"?

Or, do you know what the Monarchy wants you to know?
I think maybe she is impyling that many Americans simply dont know how the Monarchy works... ex. the Palace just doesnt really determine by whim who gets protection or not.. It's a goverment thing, funded by tax payers.. Titles are not just handed out based on skin color but be pre-determined order, where Archie is not in line at the moment. Or that as tradition, Buckingham Palace almost NEVER comments on bad press. The expectations perhaps by many US Meghan followers is how could Buckingham Palace NOT respond to all the horrible or false stories? Welll they simply never have.. there have been only a very few execptations
 
I’m wondering if the infamous conversation where William told Harry to slow down and get to know Meghan better was one of these alleged conversations that raised “concerns” over what the children would look like and how that would reflect on the monarchy. Previously, Harry’s level of offense taken to the conversation seemed disproportionate to what seemed like rather reasonable advice. However, if there were racist undertones to it, it would explain why it upset him so much and why the relationship with his brother started to break down afterwards. It makes sense that he might be surprised to hear this stuff coming from his brother. I can’t imagine he’d be too surprised if the comments were coming from the Baroness of Blackamoor Brooch.

According to their interview the racist "concerns" were expressed when Meghan was pregnant. William's alleged recommendation to take their time and give Meghan a chance to understand what marrying into the family would entail happened before they married.

Harry knows Baroness of Blackamoor Brooch is irrelevant.
 
It makes me sad to hear that the twitter people, etc., are beating up on Kate. There's a lady who has worked her tail off to never make a misstep. She clearly takes her job very seriously.

In some ways I'm glad the Sussexes threw out there all they've got. There has just been such a constant stream of stuff from "unnamed sources." Now they've vented their spleen, lanced the boil, so to speak, and hopefully they can back off of the royal family and get on with trying to be A-listers in the U.S.
They don't need to continue to torment the Brits. They can torment us here! 🤪
 
It is interesting that Prince Harry’s comment regarding the conversation about his future children’s skin tone was only "At the time it was awkward, I was a bit shocked." Not outrage, not angry, not upset. No suggestion that he confronted the person or challenged them. Slightly perplexing.
 
According to their interview the racist "concerns" were expressed when Meghan was pregnant. William's alleged recommendation to take their time and give Meghan a chance to understand what marrying into the family would entail happened before they married.

Harry knows Baroness of Blackamoor Brooch is irrelevant.
Meghan specified it happened while she was pregnant and Harry said “early on,” in the context of “What will the (as yet not conceived) children look like?” Meghan did make a point to say there were several conversations about it, so it’s possible both are correct about the timing.
 
Maybe its down to editing, but at one point Meghan said she wrote to members of the family offering her services, to fulfill her job role (I'm paraphrasing, but hope you get the gist). Was that before or after they started talking about Megxit I wonder.
 
So if someone in your family is a racist buffoon, it's okay to assume you are too? Does Meghan want to be held accountable for the actions of her Markle family members, and should she be?

Hence her exit from her family. Hence M&H exit from The Royal Family.

So if the wife of Queen Elizabeth's cousin acts in an arguably racist way, then any vague accusation of racism against any unnamed member of the royal family is totally believable? Never mind that we haven't a clue what was said to who supposedly said it.

I guess that means if my cousin's wife commits a crime, my entire family are labeled as likely criminals. If your cousin's spouse has some objectionable behavior, then the entire family is suspect as well. Alrighty.

A huge opportunity has been missed by The Royal Family by remaining silent on multiple occasions. Granted the press is beneath them and it doesn't warrant a response. Unfortunately by remaining silent they unintentionally have condoned it and enabled it. The Queen's speech with the unity emphasis came a bit too late. There should of been a zero tolerance right out the gate before M&H were engaged. Not after. M&H accusation of racism isn't all that far-reaching. So again, hard to deny M&H racism claims as false when past behaviors of those within the ranks of The Royal Family reflect otherwise.
 
There is a certain type of Hollywood atmosphere or mindset which seems to feed on a heightened form of itself.

At least Mrs. Simpson in late 1936 chose to go to a remote location, avoided the media and pleaded with Edward VIII not to abdicate, trying to avoid the oxygen of publicity.
 
There is a certain type of Hollywood atmosphere or mindset which seems to feed on a heightened form of itself.

At least Mrs. Simpson in late 1936 chose to go to a remote location, avoided the media and pleaded with Edward VIII not to abdicate, trying to avoid the oxygen of publicity.
 
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