wendow
We create happiness.
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I turn 25 this year and Dh just recently turned 25 so I’m okay waiting a year or two. I like that we have the time for ourselves right now and can travel or play in a band while we still can. I don’t imagine a pregnant drummer would be a good scene lol. My parents had to adopt and they didn’t get my brother until they were 31 or 32. That actually was better for my family because my dad was further along in his job and my mom got to stay home with us which I loved.
My dh's parents were in a band from high school until my dh was about 12yo. The toured with some other singers in the very early years and then performed on their own in the later years. My MIL got pregnant, unexpectedly, at 20yo and while on the road. A baby definitely changed their career path but they did keep performing and my dh is not only named after a bar they were performing in when he was born but his first babysitters were the bartender and waitresses
He still turned out ok!
. Very much an accident but I still think the people I married and made are pretty likeable so it's all good in the end. We are very spoiled in having lots of grandparents available to us to keep the kids for us for a date night or even a few days /week. I think it would have been much harder without that since we didn't get much (any) time on our own before kids.
) I skimmed but most of it seems right, I think the author is still updating so should get cleaned up.
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didn't have any more kiddos until I was 31 and 33. I had one starting college and another starting kindergarten a few years ago! I will say I can definitely appreciate it more having the two little ones, realizing how fast they grow up. Kids somehow make you feel old but keep you young at the same time!