I could use a hug today

[Rajah]

I've been fighting with my friends a *lot* lately and have no idea why, but it's tearing me up. I've been best friends with this couple for years, but now I swear I can't say a damn thing right. Everything I say is being taken wrong or turned against me. It really started with the husband of the pair with his insensitivity to my asthma (telling me to get over it and just take my inhaler and go to Las Vegas with them when that's beyond my comfortable risk level). Then it expanded with a misunderstanding on the game we play. I don't understand why they're attacking me left, right, and sideways, but I'm through. They know they're hurting my feelings, and they're continuing to do it. I used to love getting together with them, seeing their emails, spending time with them on the game, now I dread it. And it makes me feel so alone.

 

[bananiem]

 

[MUFFYCAT]

I'm sorry your feeling down. Sending you hugs and pixie dust. hope you feel better.

 

[mtblujeans]

I've been fighting with my friends a *lot* lately and have no idea why, but it's tearing me up. I've been best friends with this couple for years, but now I swear I can't say a damn thing right. Everything I say is being taken wrong or turned against me. It really started with the husband of the pair with his insensitivity to my asthma (telling me to get over it and just take my inhaler and go to Las Vegas with them when that's beyond my comfortable risk level). Then it expanded with a misunderstanding on the game we play. I don't understand why they're attacking me left, right, and sideways, but I'm through. They know they're hurting my feelings, and they're continuing to do it. I used to love getting together with them, seeing their emails, spending time with them on the game, now I dread it. And it makes me feel so alone.

Ask them if you can all start over and leave the past comments behind!

 

[mickeyboat]

I suspect relationships with close friends go through the same ups and downs that a marriage does. You are on a down, but I bet things get back to normal soon.

Denae

 

[L107ANGEL]

I'm sorry! I hope you start to feel better!

 

[mommytotwo]

Maybe spending some time alone from them will help. Hope your friendship can be resolved with a fresh start.

 

[Tinkerbell_Girl]

I'm sorry.

 

[piglet too]

Tammi I am so sorry that this is happening. Sometimes freinds just out grow each other.

 

[agotta]

 

[Dan Murphy]

Tammi, so sorry to hear that. Not sure what advice to give. I have experienced similar, only online, one place, and just choose to ignore and go on. However, tougher to do in RL. A for you.

I must say it is nice to see you again, have not seen you in ages.

 

[Pooh_Friend#1]

 

[Aidensmom]

I'm sorry.

Maybe a little time apart will help.

 

[laura001]

If they know that they are hurting you and yet continue to do it, perhaps it is time to evaluate your friendship with them. I realize that that doesn't help you when you are feeling down though, so sending your way, hope it all works out.

 

[Christine]

I'm sorry you're going through this. It seems like they are nitpicking at you. They probably have hard feelings about the Las Vegas trip.

 

[Pooh67_68]

 

[Nevergrow'nup]

to you. Hope things get better soon!!

 

[Martha7]

Are they the kind of people who always have to call the shots? Sometimes when we assert ourselves, insecure people can't take it! Give it a little space, and see what happens.

 

[Rajah]

I don't know. But I do know that right now it doesn't look good for us making up.

 

[Mimi Q]