and create a spreadsheet of any monthly costs, bills, spending money, etc. that I have coming up. I then create a set of boxes, one grouping for each pay period and the costs I need to have covered for that time. This way, each time I get paid, I know what bills have to be paid, or what else may be coming up for that pay period (mothly parking, misc stuff for the kids, etc) I then also allot a line for "extras" and another line for things like "
disney vacations". I give myself a set "allowance" each pay period and I try to stick to it. If I don't use my extra, then that goes into my vacation fund. (see my example below)
Pay Date: XX/XX
Bi-Monthly Check Total = $XX
monthly Bill #1: $XX
Monthly Bill #2: $XX
Monthly Bill #3: $XX
Extra to Bank: $XX (this is sort of like the Uh-Oh fund or in case something is needed fund that we didn't predict, or it can be used on paying for vacations as well)
Extra Spending ME: $XX (this is my monthly allowance)
Vacation Fund: $XX
Misc Fund: $XX (birhtdays, school items, etc. goes here or I break those out into different line items to)
I can continue to add line items and then move the $$ around so everything is covered. Once all the Bill $$ are covered, then the rest gets put into the extra fund until I hit the total of what my paycheck is.
Once you get this set up with what you know you have to pay and when each month, then you can figure for the extra's, and anything else that might come along. This way I know what I have and what I don't have to spend every time I get paid. Then in looking forward to the following month, I also know what else may be coming up that I need to budget for in case I didn't allow enough for that.
It's sometimes harder than it seems as those "unknowns" come along that nobody plans for. But when you figure everything out per pay period, you really start to get a sense of what you can build up over time.
~D