High School class of 2011

WE'RE BAAAAAACK! Oh, man, this is long...Move-in went great! And very few tears were shed. One of DDs best friends went down there with us, which really helped Dd make the transition.

We left yesterday with DH driving our SUV and DD driving her little Jeep Wrangler. We were somehow able to fit EVERYTHING into my Expedition. Well, it *is* a big tank of a car.:goodvibes Still, she had 16 items including her 4 large suitcases and 7 cardboard boxes filled to the brim. The weather was terrible on the drive down. We got about 50 miles south of Atlanta when the sky went black and it POURED rain and lightning. So bad that DD had to pull over--she couldn't see a thing! :scared1: We were about 10 miles ahead of her, so I was able to text the friend and give them a heads up as we went along. We went in and out of storms all the way to Valdosta. That's about 270 miles from my house. The girls were utterly exhausted by the time they got to our hotel.

Upon arrival DD and her BFF decided to put on their bikinis on and hop into the hot tub for awhile. They didn't even want to get anything to eat! DH and i walked over to Texas Roadhouse to get a steak. We got our steaks and i was going to put Steak Sauce on mine. Some maroon had unscrewed the top just enough that when i shook it up steak sauce went all over me and the booth i was sitting in. :headache: they had to get me a wet cloth from the kitchen. I even had steak sauce in my cleavage! 'Course, that only makes me a little more desireable to DH.:rolleyes1 We all turned in around 11 because she had the 8-12 move in time.

This morning we managed to get to school around 9:30. She had to park in the lower 40, so we picked up and took her to the dorm. It wasn't too awfully hot, in the high 70s and we were able to unload on the shady side of her dorm. DH was exhausted just helping to get all her stuff to the curb so he sat down with a bottle of water while DD checked in. She called us to say she got to her room and was setting up her computer. :confused3 Um, you've got about 500-lbs of crap out her in the yard, dear. :confused3 thankfully, there was a church campus youth group there and they happily picked up a bunch of the stuff. Good thing, because her dorm has NO ELEVATORS. All handicapped students room on the 1st floor. Everyone else schleps their stuff up 9 flights of stairs.

DDs roommate was not there, but she moved in Monday. Apparently, she is part of a leadership program so she was doing that. But she had her part of the room all cute and tidy. She brought an electric broom, so maybe that;s a good sign. The roommate left her the sweetest note welcoming her to VSU. :lovestruc The room is pretty small, especially with all DDs stuff in the middle of the floor and 4 adults in the room. She threw us out and DD & her BFF set everything up. Then she invited us up. Her room is so cute! She and the roommate didn't even try to coordinate their stuff, but everything matched~! And the roommate has her guitar, keyboard and clarinet with her, so obviously she is very musical. DD is too(her instrument is voice). I'm hoping they will be a good match.

By that time it was getting really hot and we were hungry and thirsty. Valdosta is only about 16 mles from the Florida line. Dd led the way to the cafeteria and she proudly produced her student ID so she could get her meal(we had to pay, of course.) They ate there during orientation, so she knew her way around the pizza, sandwich, and salad stations. It's a lot different from my little college. Back then, there were no choices--you ate what they were served or you went starving! There were a LOT of choices, even a cereal bar--for lunch!

After lunch, DD headed to the bookstore to pick up her books. We did the pre-packaged thing, mainly because I didn't want to be any more stressed out that we already were. She lost her phone at some point and had to back track around. It was lost for about 30 min and she was ready to panic--no phone! at college! the horror~! :laughing: But she found it. Then the BFF lost her sunglasses and the search started all over again. DD lugged her $437 worth of books all the way across campus in that heat and up the 9 fllights of stairs to her room. DH & I wisely stayed down in the nice cool lobby.:cool2: After that, it was time to drive her over to pick up her car and get her parking sticker.

By then DD was hot, tired and cranky. Fortunately, her BFF understood and didn't take it personally. The parking deck is about 4 blocks from campus, so we put her back into the car and went for a Target run. The water down there is nasty--the BFF pronounced it "booty water". You know how bad Florida water can be, all sulpher-y. so we got her a flat of water and a laptop lock, plus some Crunch-n-Munch.:hippie:

And by 3pm it was time to go. You all would have been proud. i didn't cry at all. DD teared up a little and her BFF was crying. It was a 4 hour drive home, but at least it was pretty weather. Hot, about 99 degrees. On the way home DD texted us 19 times :rotfl: She let us know that the boys had stripped off their shirts and were playing football under her window. and that she went over to the dinng hall and got a huge salad for supper. And they have a STarbucks in the Student Union building. And that they were holding Game Night at her dorm, so she was going to join that. :woohoo:

I think Dd is going to be okay. She's pretty easy-going, get along with everybody. And it looks like she's going to throw herself into it. I was afraid she might want to be too connected to her friends. And they have been texting. Her other BFF moved into UGA this morning, so they were exchanging pics of their rooms. :cutie: They're all going home for Labor Day. The first football game is in two weeks and they're playing *my* alma mater for homecoming in October, so I know we'll be back for that. All it all, this has been a very successful day. I don't expect to hear from her quite so much in the coming days.
 
minkydog: Thank you so much for sharing and I'm so glad it all went well! We move DS in a week from tomorrow. We have to stay for orientation and matriculation. He moves in at 10 am next Thurs. morning and goodbye is Sat. at 1:30 pm. So DH and I will be staying in a hotel for 2 nights. I don't know if it will make the transition easier or harder that the goodbye will be delayed.

I'm so happy for all of our kids and the exciting new chapter in their lives. And I can't wait to hear all about everyone's move-in experiences. But I can't help but be sad for us moms with our broken hearts as our babies leave the nest.
 
Minky... :lovestruc loved, loved, loved :lovestruc hearing your recounting of the move in...

Best wishes to your DD for a fabulous freshman year! :hug:
 

I did laundry all day yesterday (Yes, for those wondering, DD can do her own laundry) and using a hint from here, put the hangables on hangers right away - rather than DD packing, then unpacking, then hanging the clothes at her dorm. Setting some aside for DD to wear between now and D-Day (departure day) we put most of the jeans, shorts, etc. in some spacesaver bags and those were packed into a rolling duffle.

DD was actually getting teary, she's mostly been avoiding the subject.

Oh, and Shhhhhhh, but I've ordered a few things for care packages including a DVD of the Catherine Tate Christmas Special which she's never seen in its entirety (has only seen YouTube clips).

agnes!
 
I even had steak sauce in my cleavage! 'Course, that only makes me a little more desirable to DH.

Oh boy…that is new one…I might try it! lol

Well, DS has finished his paper, he is 99% packed and having dinner with a group of friends. He wanted to stay out all night and was calling it a “sleep over” at his friend’s house. This same friend had a co-ed sleepover last weekend while his parents were not home. His Dad said no since we are leaving in the AM. I hope he makes it home on time for his 2am curfew… He is horribly grumpy when he is tired and he is driving his car to campus, we don’t want him to be tired. He falls asleep in the car after 15 minutes of riding…even now at 18. I am anxious to see how he does tomorrow.

My Aunt Flo has just arrived! I just love her and her perfect timing… :rolleyes:

AND…my wonderful, level headed, responsible DS just texted me and asked me how much trouble he would be in if he got an earring. /sigh I would really like him to wait just a few more days before jumping off the deep end so that I am at home and blissfully unaware.

I am sure he will have a tattoo before the years end as well… :rolleyes1

Well, I talked to DH…and texted DS…he would not be in trouble over an ear, just make sure he keeps it clean and healthy…and that when he gets his tattoo to make sure it is a clean place with a good reputation…

I am headed upstairs to pack my bag for the weekend. DS has a whole week of orientation for the freshmen, but DH and I have a weekend of orientation to attend…lol….

We leave home tomorrow AM. He has everything jammed into 5 suitcases except for his fridge, carpet and trash can. I am impressed!

I will let you all know how it goes!!!
 

We leave home tomorrow AM. He has everything jammed into 5 suitcases except for his fridge, carpet and trash can. I am impressed!

I will let you all know how it goes!!!
Well, looks like you are #2 as far as dorm move in. Be safe and come home with a full detailed report for us! Hope all goes smoothly!
 
I found out yesterday neither of DS roommates are freshman. 1 is a year ahead and the other is like 22! They are both on a team together. I am not very happy about any of this.

Tell me what you would do in this situation.
1. Say nothing and hope for the best?
2. Ask for DS to be moved?
 
I found out yesterday neither of DS roommates are freshman. 1 is a year ahead and the other is like 22! They are both on a team together. I am not very happy about any of this.

Tell me what you would do in this situation.
1. Say nothing and hope for the best?
2. Ask for DS to be moved?

I would say nothing and hope for the best. This COULD be a good thing depending on the kids. FIrst, they know the "ropes" so to speak so they could be a good resource for your son. They may include DS in all the team "stuff" so he gets to know a lot of people right away. Maybe DS could get an on campus job as team manager that way too.

OR

It could be a total disaster and then DS can asked to be moved later on once he finds someone he WANTS to room with.
 
I would say nothing and hope for the best. This COULD be a good thing depending on the kids. FIrst, they know the "ropes" so to speak so they could be a good resource for your son. They may include DS in all the team "stuff" so he gets to know a lot of people right away. Maybe DS could get an on campus job as team manager that way too.

OR

It could be a total disaster and then DS can asked to be moved later on once he finds someone he WANTS to room with.
:thumbsup2
 
We are finally back and had a great weekend…crazy, but great! :lovestruc

My plan was to leave at noon on Friday, have a lunch, make the 3 hour drive, check in to the hotel and then head over to campus for DS to be ready for the 5:00pm move in. Easy peasy right? Not so much!

I took DD13 to an optometrist appointment at 8:30am on Friday morning while DH and DS18 were supposed to be taking the dogs to the kennel and then load the van. Well, we got home at 10, the DH was gone, the dogs were not and DS was chillaxing on the couch. :rolleyes:

DS and I load the dogs into his car (I did not want dog hair all over mine!) and head to the kennel. On the way, I notice his tire light is on and he has no gas. Apparently the light had been on for a couple of weeks and he was going to get to that! Nice… You know we are about to leave on a car trip in your car right? :faint:

Meanwhile, DH gets back from his impromptu hair cut and loads the van. DS packed everything into 5 rolling suitcases, plus his rug, fridge and trash can. All very compact and very impressive! He did not have all of his stuff though; he never made his final “Wal-Mart” run for consumables like toothpaste, detergent and snacks.

When DS and I get back from the kennel, I look at his tires and he needs a couple of new ones before leaving. DH & DS take his car over to our local Discount Tire and it is going to be a 2 hour wait! It is now 11:30am… DD and I drive over, get the guys, we go home and lock it down, have lunch, get DS car, get him some gas and finally get on the road at 3pm.

We get to town right at 6pm and head straight to campus. DH & I get a decent parking spot, but DS keeps circling. I get in DS car while he goes with DH & DD to check in. They check checked in and wheel in all of the suitcases, I find a decent parking spot and carry in the rug and the trash can. DH heads out for the fridge.

DS room is great, it has tons of storage and floor space. He has a built in desk with shelves above it, about a 6 foot wide closet with a shelf above the rod with a cabinet all the way to the ceiling above the closet. They have a shared built in dresser and each guy has 2 large drawers and 2 small drawers. The beds are against the walls in an L shape and they each have more shelves above their heads. I thought they had 2 drawers under their beds, but it was just open space.

His roommate had already chosen a bed and desk, and he clears out when we get there. DS makes his bed and we empty all of the suitcases except for DS personal one and he makes us clear out! We go load the empty cases in the van and head to the campus center to check ourselves in for parent orientation. DS comes over, joins us for dinner at the cafeteria. It is not too bad. His school only has about 1,500 students and there is only one cafeteria. They offer 2 main dishes with meat and 1 vegetarian main dish for each meal.

Dinner is finished, DS heads back to his dorm room for a hall meeting with his RA and we head about 45 minutes over to Burnett, TX to drop off DD at my SIL’s. DD is spending the weekend with her cousin and we won’t meet up with her again until Sunday afternoon, or so we thought…

DH and I drive back to Georgetown, check in to the Holiday Inn and crash! So far I have been too hurried to be sad.

We get up and head back to campus on Saturday AM and have multiple conferences to choose from all day ranging from academics to athletics to student life to safety on campus. It is a pretty impressive line up! We had brunch with DS in the cafeteria, but he declines our dinner invite and we head to Austin to soak up some night life. We get about 20 minutes down the road and DS dinner date has fallen through, so DH and I U-turn to take him out to dinner.

We decide we don’t have time to eat off campus and meet him at the cafeteria for a quick bite before his Saturday night activities. Well, while eating dinner DS and DH both get a text from DD telling them to tell me to call my SIL ASAP.

Apparently SIL had texted me and called me a couple of times and I had not responded. SIL, DN and DD had gone horseback riding and DD fell off her horse and hit her head…they were headed to the emergency room! :eek:

We toss our dinners, kiss DS goodbye and take off for the emergency room in Burnett… DD gets checked out, x-rayed and inspected. She does not have any serious damage, just scrapes, bruises, a big headache, muscle soreness and just needs to be watched for a concussion. It is about 10pm at this point, we take her to Sonic for dinner and then back over to SIL. I was not excited about leaving her but SIL assured me she would take care good of her, DD begged to stay and DH did not want to have to move hotel rooms. I acquiesce and we head back to Georgetown.

We get back to the hotel around midnight and crash again! We did not make the 9am conference focused on internships and studying abroad, which is unfortunately the one I wanted to hear the most! We meet DS for brunch, head to Target for a few more supplies for DS, get back to his dorm to unload and his hall was having another meeting. We dropped his stuff on his bed, he went to the meeting and DH and I went looking for a parking space for the 2pm matriculation convocation.

We get parked, get seats, text SIL the directions, meet up with SIL, DD & DN, sit through the ceremony, watch them take a class picture inside as opposed to outside…it was blazing hot at 103 degrees…

We walk over to his dorm, finish unloading the stuff from Target, meet the roommates parents and then head out for a late lunch.

We go have Thai, our waiter is a “super senior” at SU. This means it is his 5th year. He has great things to say about the school, tells DS to not fall behind on his work b/c it is hard to catch-up on! (That waiter got a good tip from this momma! Lol) We head back to campus for a final time to drop off DS. DD hugs him for a good 2 minutes and I was beginning to wonder if she is going to let go! She is really taking this pretty hard.

He give hugs all around, I give him big kisses and make him promise to be safe! He made me promise not to call everyday. :hug: His Aunt pointed out that if he emailed/called/texted me a couple of times a week that I would not have to call!

No tears, it was actually easier than I thought… I texted him as we left town and asked if he missed me yet and he said he was in his room crying…lol… As if…:rolleyes1

He sent a few pictures of his room after getting to spend some time organizing and it is looking good. He did not pack any pictures of anything and I think he is regretting that. I already have plans for a care package for this week and I am honestly feeling good!

We are thinking about going down over Labor Day to visit him and watch our DN march in the Oatmeal Festival in Bertram, Texas! Who wants to miss the Oatmeal Festival? Lol

He has the rest of this week devoted to orientation and getting settled in before the upper classmen arrive next weekend and classes officially start on the 22nd. He won’t even finalize his schedule until Wednesday when he meets with his advisor.

I may have to avoid his room for a while. It is rather empty without all of his personal stuff in there, but I know he will be back to visit! He did not take his flat screen TV and he is already talking about coming home to get it… :cloud9:

Edited to add that DD is fine, just sore, no concussion and I have no clue why my phone did not work on Sat night while DH & DS did... We all have the same model phone w/the same carrier...go figure!
 
I have been quiet on this board, but have been reading for years. I used to have more $ to finance my WDW addiction. I just dropped my first born off to college, and was thinking about writing a "trip report" tomorrow.

Hugs to all of the families that are going through this transition!
 
I have been quiet on this board, but have been reading for years. I used to have more $ to finance my WDW addiction. I just dropped my first born off to college, and was thinking about writing a "trip report" tomorrow.

Hugs to all of the families that are going through this transition!
Please do! I'm loving the early reports from the 2 that have dropped off already. I drop DD on Thurs.
 
HannaBelle--I'm so glad your daughter is okay! My daughter used to ride and it's scary when they get thrown. I loved reading your report.

We got back last night. The last stretch of 95 North was stop and go thanks to weekend beach traffic returning home, so that really added time on to the trip.

Thursday I met my in-laws at my son's doctor's office to hand my daughter (she's 15) over to them for the weekend. He said quick goodbyes to all three of them, I think he was nervous about the appointment. I filled out the paperwork for insurance and medical history, etc., but he went in by himself and I never even met him (I know he's a great doctor, recommended by friends and his pump trainer, but it still felt weird). They got everything set up for my son to work with him by email while he's away and my son remembered exactly how I wanted the prescriptions written and amounts (I have it done a certain way for insurance). It was such a relief having that over and done, but strange, too, because I have been his pancreas for so many years. The last few he's really done everything on his own, but I would still review the numbers every few days and suggest changes. Now it's up to him.

That evening we met friends for a birthday/going away dinner and finished up the packing. Friday morning we took the dog to the kennel and were on our way. I did see my son wipe his eyes after saying goodbye to the dog, which surprised me, but that was the only time he seemed sad.

We take 95 all but the last hour of the trip. I dozed off and woke up as my husband was pulling off for lunch--I could see that none of the cars had license plates on the front, so I guessed we were in North Carolina. Sure enough, Roanoke Rapids. We grabbed some lunch at Wendy's and were on our way again.

We arrived in Columbia, SC about 5pm, checked into the hotel and decided just to eat there. Got up at 6am Saturday, breakfast, then headed over to the dorm. That part went so much better than I anticipated. There's a large parking lot right in front of the dorm and we found a spot close to the door. My husband had borrowed a hand truck from work, so we were able to stack all the bins on it and pull two rolling suitcases and I had a large Ikea bag for the extra crap that got thrown in at the last minute--everything in one trip. We got in line about 7:45am and my son got in another line to check in and get his key.

They opened the doors promptly at 8am and would assign you an elevator as you made your way to the front. You could take the elevators up, but had to walk down, and had someone on each elevator controlling them, so the line was going very quickly. We were up to the room about 8:20 and his roommate and family were already there.

I was kind of worried about unpacking his stuff and making his bed and all that--I didn't want to embarrass him in front of his roommate--but the roommate's mom was doing the same thing so we laughed about it and did our thing while the boys set up their technology. His roommate is from South Carolina, about 2.5 hours away. He's their only and I thought his mom did great, no crying, asked him several times if he was ready for them to leave.

The room is really small! You walk in and there's a closet on either side, a window on the wall straight ahead with a desk on either side, and their beds on the left and right walls. We could raise the beds as high as 3 feet, though, so there was a ton of storage space underneath and I was able to slide all the bins under the bed with extra things that didn't need to be unpacked. We were done by 10am.

After that we took a trip to Target (I was shocked by how not crowded it was) and then had lunch at Sonic (us, too, HannaBelle) and then we dropped him off in front of the dorm and said goodbye. We had thought about meeting him Sunday morning to say goodbye, but his roommate's parents were headed home Saturday so we thought this way was best. No tears, but I did have a few later back in the hotel when we were getting ready to go to dinner.

Later that afternoon he texted me and asked me where the creamer was. I had packed a non-dairy creamer but my husband told me he didn't think my son would like that so I took it out. I texted back that I'd left it at home and asked if he wanted us to stop by in the morning with extra groceries. He said no, that was okay. I asked him if everything was okay and he wrote, "Yes, I miss you". For some reason, this just really threw me. He's very...stoic I guess? I didn't know if he was sad or just throwing me a bone. I decided he was probably throwing me a bone otherwise he'd have wanted us to stop by in the morning. But my husband is making fun of me because I keep going back and looking at that text.

That evening we drove around Columbia, ate dinner at this incredible Asian restaurant (kung pao scallops--so good!) and watched all the move-in festivities on the news that night. And I looked at my "I miss you" text a few more times. :)

Sunday my husband I walked around campus a little and then headed home, stopping to pick up our daughter. I had planned to take pictures of the dorm room to share, but my camera battery had died. That's probably the neatest that room will ever be. They hadn't coordinated colors or anything, but it looked good--they both had black comforters and we bought them a garnet rug (school colors are black and garnet). They seemed to get along fine and the roommate knows a ton of people there who were already stopping by the room to say hi.

So, we're done, I'm glad it's over, and I'll be looking forward to the rest of the stories this week.
 
My son doesn't go until the 23rd of September. Hopefully I'll be all cried out from reading your reports by then!
 
I found out yesterday neither of DS roommates are freshman. 1 is a year ahead and the other is like 22! They are both on a team together. I am not very happy about any of this.

Tell me what you would do in this situation.
1. Say nothing and hope for the best?
2. Ask for DS to be moved?

I would let him move in and see how it goes. My sophomore year, the freshman next to us had a senior for a roommate. They weren't best friends, but they got along fine. You tend to hang out with everyone in your area, not just your roommate. If he's the third in the triple, he may be moved out soon anyway. When we were on the elevator, two of the Resident Advisors were talking about a student who had moved in that morning and was already moving out.
 
Hannabelle, I feel your pain. I was ready to crown my DD before we left. She was still throwing stuff in boxes 15 minutes before we left! Glad your trip went well(once you got on the road.) Hope your DD is doing better tonight.

Kbeverina, hat's off to you for being able to let go. My DDs best friend has diabetes too and her mother is really struggling with letting her go off 1-1/2 hours from home. Her DD is pretty savvy about her illness. Still...:hug:

DD18 texted me today. They passed out the welcome boxes we parents paid for and she pronounced it "very good." Popcorn, crackers, candy, and rice krispy treats. DD has already gone through a whole box of Earl Grey tea(in a week :laughing:). I sent her a new box and threw in a Starbucks gift card today. And some sunscreen. i know she didn't bring any and it's about 100 degrees down there in south Georgia. DD also applied for a work study. Hope she gets something good, like working in the media dept or fine arts (her major is mass media.)
 
Kbeverina, your hubby is a meanie! Lol..
I asked him if everything was okay and he wrote, "Yes, I miss you". For some reason, this just really threw me. I decided he was probably throwing me a bone otherwise he'd have wanted us to stop by in the morning. But my husband is making fun of me because I keep going back and looking at that text.
I keep a little note pad in my van for, well, notes…and a couple of years ago DS wrote “I love you. Jordan” I still have the pad with the note!!! :hug: I am glad things went well for you guys too!

NCPirate, I would love to read your TR too! This is kind of like group therapy and since I don't have any friends with kids leaving for college this year, it is nice to relate with everyone here.

Minkydog, DD is doing great, just a bit sore. She is missing her brother a lot so we are watching “Heartland” on YouTube together tonight! It is a great show for pre-teens/teens and we love it.
 















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