Hey folks! Check out my countdown! Woo hoo! Two more weeks and I can leave this cold weather behind for eleven days in WDW!!!!
Also, thought I'd jump in on the whole "partner" discussion. I hate using the word "lover", it sounds kinda tacky in my mind. Lends a bit of seediness to anotherwise loving relationship. Most I know use the word and I hate it. It just reminds me of some greasy looking guy and an over made up floozy. "He/She is my lover." Yick.
As for boyfriend, it's just kinda... diminishing of the relationship. Sure, if you're together for a couple of years and you don't live together, boyfriend or girlfriend is cool But otherwise, I don't like it.
As for using the word "husband," I just can't do it. It makes me snicker like a ten year who saw his first Playboy.
So we use the word "partner." Admittedly, it does sound clinical to me. Took me a while to get used to it because it always felt like I was referring to a business arrangement. But its the only word that seems most appropriate to me.
Oh, and Joe and I have been together for 15 years as of this coming 10/15!
On a side note, I was out with friends for brunch the other day, followed by cocktails at a local joint. I was sitting to the side with some friends and guys kept taking the seat next to me, chatting away. All in good harmless fun. When the conversation would go over to "So, do you have a boyfriend?" or "You must have a boyfriend, huh?" I always smiled and answered yep, and would tell them how long we'd been together and poof! They would vanish like a mosquito in a bug zapper. Or they'd give me a look, mouth open, eyes staring at me suspiciously, like I stole their wallet or something. Good times! And not one free drink. (shrug) Go figure!