Cripey
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So just a little OT story here I had to share~
DS17 and I are doing the EEC together. He's grown up with a love of all things climbing/Mt. Everest since he was young. He knows every factoid there is about Mt. Everest and has done lots of high adventure kind of stuff~ his dream is to go to Base Camp there some day. (The real one)
We also love watching Amazing Race together and always talk about what we would do if we were running the race together.
So doing this challenge together is really special since it's a more realistic version of our dreams.
We are so excited planning our weekend.
Then, 2 days ago, he finds his car covered with window paint reading "PROM?"
When is Prom? You guessed it... May 5th.
I was surprised at how last minute the invite is but it seems like that is not uncommon, for a lot of kids are just asking each other now.
It is not for his school, it's for Prom at the girl's school.
He has a chance to ask her to his (he goes to an all boy's school), but he really likes this girl and I feel bad that he'll have to give it up. He says he's fine with it and our weekend is special and he wouldn't miss it for the world. I still want to give him an out if he wants it. I know he's torn in his mind but says he still wants to do the EEC. He's so sweet, but as a mom I have guilt he's doing something with me when he should be experiencing those HS milestones.![]()
Oh, what a tough spot to be in!
I'm not a mom, so I can't say I know exactly how torn you must be, but the first thing that came to mind when reading your story was that I'm guessing he has a pretty good head on his shoulders and has been taught well to make good decisions for himself...by YOU! I hope that by him recognizing that this race and time spent with you will be special to him, that you are filled with a great sense of accomplishment! I mean, come on! A teenager choosing to hang with his mom over a girl he likes!?! Does that EVER happen!?!
Personally, I think he's right...this will be a special memory for the both of you, and he won't really be missing a huge milestone...he'll still get to go to his own prom, and hopefully with the same girl he really likes. Oh and the bonus here...it's a little test for the girl...if your son doesn't go with her, and explains why, her reaction either way just might tell him alot about her 



Today's a rest day and I can't decide what to do tomorrow - it should be a long run and no way will I go long yet. But I may try 3 miles and throw a few run intervals in if it feels okay. We'll see...
I have no idea what they will be, but I keep reminding myself that it can't be too hard or scary...they let kids as young as 9 register. I don't think they are meant to be super challenging for the majority of participants...just fun! Now, I can't remember where I read this, but I know I read somewhere at some point that if you feel like you just can't do whatever obstacle is in front of you...just walk around it and move on. It will disqualify you from winning any overall, age group or team awards, but if you're not a contender for any of those, then I would assume there's no harm
I wouldn't worry though...I'm really expecting to see pretty basic "obstacles" that some have mentioned...tires on the ground, cargo net to crawl under, balance beam to walk across not too high off of the ground...stuff like that. I'm sure it's going to be a blast! 
