Everybody Wants to be a WISH Cat (or dog, or goose, etc...) - October 2016 WISH Challenge

This is an excellent question... part of my problem with sustaining weight loss is that I go thru periods that are strictly regimented, which isn't sustainable so I have a blow out. This is why I am working on changing my focus to the small daily choices, a Kaizen approach if you will, that should result in big changes.

I had to look up what Kaizen is, but I love that idea! That's what I am trying to do as well.... to no avail yet this month but I still have time to tweak and learn my balance!

Lafayette! Our favorite fighting Frenchman! If you need me, I'll be off listening to Hamilton for the rest of the day...

YESSSS!!!! Glad to see I'm not the only one who's going to have Guns and Ships stuck in my head all day!!!

Happy Tuesday, friends! Just a quick check-in from me because I have a ton of orders to get out today. Sorry for being MIA over the last few days. Saturday I photographed a wedding for a friend of mine, and Sunday DH was off from work so we hit up the grocery store. We both just realized yesterday that our Disney trip is NEXT WEEK so I'm panicking a little, haha. So much to get done! I am so ready to be there, though, it's not even funny.

So so so excited for you!!!! Can't wait to see the costumes - I know I said that before, but I'm a freak about costumes and Halloween and you are so darn creative!!!!

It's too hard to just have a little - so I have more success with not having any than just having a little.

This soundss like a smart plan.... maybe one I should implement myself!

However, I know that being overly strict with myself will make me unhappy and lead to even worse once I give up... So, I do what fits to my character, admire those who can be strict with themselves for their inner strength, but don't beat myself up about it. While I believe in striving to become a better person, not only a healthier person, I also know that at 45 years I am not going to change my character around and overall I am pretty happy with who I am.

I agree it's a balancing act for some of us and you know exactly what works to keep you happy as well as healthy! :)
 
QOTD: I am strict about some things and loose about others. For example, I've been pretty strict about not having lattes or chocolate recently, but I've been a little lax with the junk food. When we were waiting out the hurricane at my in laws, MIL had chickfila and cookies. I did have plenty of chicken (protein right?!) and then tried to allow myself one half of a cookie, but over the course of the night, I had three..... But I didn't have any alcohol LOL Then I was at Food and Wine this weekend, so I had things I shouldn't have. But I also had more meats and veg than desserts and alcohol so that's a win. I don't know. I am still trying very hard to find a balance of not being too strict, but also not letting myself fall to pieces either! I like @Dr Gunnie 's idea-- not even start. That's how I was able to not have alcohol-- I didn't start. Should've taken that same approach to the cookies hahaha!
 
This chest infection is new challenge for me isn't it! I am not very good in resting, and I am used to earning 400 calories most days. Now I won't be going near either of the gyms for the week before holiday. Meaning I will also need to eat less to stay in balance

:(
 
Would you say your approach to your goal style is more strict or more laid back? Do you respond to pressure from yourself or do you have to be careful not to crush your own spirit?

So NOT strict. I do think I need to put a little more pressure on myself but I know I won't follow a super strict diet so it won't be sustainable in the long term.

This Friday I'll be celebrating my birthday with my BFF and there will be lots of drinks and not great food choices. The Saturday will be Nurse the Hangover day so I'm sure I'll have little motivation to be a human ;). Then next weekend is another birthday celebration with my family and then the weekend after that is happy hour with coworkers for, you guessed it, a joint birthday celebration. Oh and then that Saturday I'll be going to a wedding (solo, scary)

This month is a rough one for me, not gonna lie. Not only is it birthday time but October 6th was my anniversary which was a weird day and then the 27th I have my first court appearance. So really my goal for the month is to stay afloat. And I'd like to at least not gain any weight but that I won't know for a couple more weeks :)

Enjoy all those celebrations :-) I hear you about the solo being scary on the wedding front - I don't know how things happen at weddings in the US but here after the Bride/Groom have waltzed, then the bridal party, parents - they ask all couples to join them on the floor for a slow dance - I hate the couples joining in part - nothing highlights being along more than that for me - so if they do - do that maybe go to the restroom, outside or the bar while that is going on to distract you - or if you have another solo friend or family member grab them for a dance.

I completely understand about those significant relationship dates feeling weird - it does get easier over time - trust me. Going to court sounds scary - but remember you made this decision for a reason - trust that - and surround yourself with as much support as you can :hug:
 

I hope you enjoy it!! Did I post a link to my Biergarten reviews on my trip reports? Especially the first one was quite in depth. If you are interested, I can dig up the link... Our second visit there was during Christmas and it is really neat that they play some German Christmas songs during the show. Make sure to stick around long enough to take in the show. I think they are on every hour or so...

Our reservation is at 4:15, so even if we have to wait around a bit I'm okay with that. The Candlelight Processional won't be until 6:45 so we can get in line at 5:30 and listen to the music.

I think I saw it but I can't remember. Pass along a link if you can find it - no rush!
 
This month is a rough one for me, not gonna lie. Not only is it birthday time but October 6th was my anniversary which was a weird day and then the 27th I have my first court appearance. So really my goal for the month is to stay afloat. And I'd like to at least not gain any weight but that I won't know for a couple more weeks :)
hope it all goes well for you, don't be too hard on yourself
 
Good morning all and HAPPY Wednesday! My MIA status is totally unintentionally. I gave myself a bit of a computer break over the long weekend, but of course, that rolled right into yesterday's double-job day. I'm behind on the QOTD and probably won't get to them today..... but I know today will be the "woohoo Wednesday" QOTD so I'll start thinking about my response now.

Any good advise out there on how to deal with a long-term plateau? I have a friend who has been experiencing a plateau since June! I know she is beyond frustrated and we have done a bit of brain-storming on the why's and how's, but long story short, something needs to give!! I know her well enough to know that when she says she is weighing/measuring portions and tracking she is TRULY doing this hard core.... not just "kinda, sorta". Any ideas on why this is happening or how to get things moving again? She likes to hit the gym well enough, but is busy enough where that isn't happening regularly (although she is fairly active in her day-to-day life). Anyhow, thanks in advance for any suggestions!

Off to work in a bit... just need to finish packing my lunch and be sure that dinner is defrosting in the fridge! TTYL..............P
 
@pjlla

By Tom Venuto

There are four primary reasons you lose your calorie deficit and hit a plateau:


The first reason you hit a plateau is because your metabolism decreases while dieting and losing weight. While this does not completely stop fat loss, it does slow down fat loss. If you’ve been cutting calories, especially if you cut them severely, your body adapts by decreasing the metabolic rate. That’s sometimes known as the “starvation response” or “adaptive thermogenesis.”

The second reason is that you need fewer calories after you lose weight. Calorie needs are directly tied into your body weight. One problem is that after people lose a lot of weight, they tend to keep eating the same way they did when they were heavier. But when you’re a smaller person, you don’t need as many calories as before, even at rest (your basal metabolic rate is lower).

The third reason is that when you move that smaller body, you’re not burning as many calories. If you strap on a weighted vest or heavy backpack and go out and hike up a hill, you can tell, obviously, that if you’re lugging around extra weight, it’s a lot more work, and you’re burning more calories.

The fourth reason is that most people don’t stick closely enough to their nutrition plan and they forget to record part of their food intake. This one requires a lot of self-honesty. Even if you don’t do it intentionally and you don’t “cheat” per se, (a lot of eating behavior is directed unconsciously), we’re not very good at estimating how much food we eat when we simply try to guess. Some studies have exposed under-reporting calorie intake as much as 50%. You say, “I’m only eating 1,200 calories a day, but I’m stuck at a fat loss plateau!” But you’re really eating 1,800 calories a day which doesn’t give you much of a deficit.

ll of these reasons for plateaus get amplified in the later stages of a diet, because biologically speaking, your body is doing everything it possibly can to get you to go off your diet and to get weight to stabilize.

After a long period of dieting and after a large weight loss, your body cranks up the appetite, stimulates cravings and tries to trick you into moving less and eating more.

The leaner you get, the longer you’ve been dieting and the more aggressively you cut calories, the more your body tends to defend its weight, and hold on to remaining body fat.

So it’s really common to hit a plateau when you’re dieted down and leaner. Usually it’s nowhere near as difficult for the overweight person to start losing weight as it is for the lean person to get even leaner. The last 10 pounds is usually a lot harder than the first 10.

If you think about it, it’s pretty unnatural from a biological perspective to walk around with really low single-digit body fat. It’s not beneficial from a survival-of-the-species point of view to have low body fat. So this metabolic adaptation becomes more pronounced the leaner you get and you have to be prepared for some hard work and strict discipline to achieve it.

When you’re dieted down, you’re also at a higher risk of losing muscle, because extra muscle is not economical when there’s a calorie shortage. Carrying extra muscle is like having an engine that’s bigger than you need – it’s a gas guzzler.

The ultimate answer to why you plateau, why that last 10 pounds is so hard to lose and why it’s hard to break into those single digits is that you were in a calorie deficit before, but for all the reasons mentioned above, you’re no longer in a deficit.

The way to break the plateau then is to:

1. Re-stimulate metabolism and re-set fat-burning and starvation hormones (if necessary)
2. Re-establish the deficit.
3. Keep after it! (persistence, persistence, persistence)

Before you think about what strategies you’ll use to re-establish the calorie deficit, there’s one thing you might want to do first. If you’ve been dieting a long time, give your body a short break from all the calorie restriction. Raise your calories to maintenance level for at least one week and up as long as two weeks if you were seriously depleted.

During this diet break, you’re obviously not going to lose fat, and you might even gain a little scale weight from water and glycogen. You have to be okay with that and think of it as one step back for two steps forward.

A week or two at maintenance calories has mental and physical benefits. It gives your body a physiological break from the stress of dieting, which makes it easier to stick with your nutrition plan when you go back to it. The diet break also resets the “starvation hormones” and stimulates your metabolism.

Then, when you go back to the calorie deficit, your body starts responding again like it’s supposed to and you can make that final push to a six-pack abs level of leanness.

Another strategy you could use is carb cycling, where you take one or two higher calorie “reseed” days every week. The refeeds only last one day, but they can make dieting more tolerable, help improve muscle retention and help reduce the odds of hitting another plateau.

Because so many people underestimate how much they eat, if you hit a plateau, you should start tracking your food intake. Work off a meal plan on paper, with the calories and macronutrients subtotaled for each meal and totaled for the day. Then weigh or measure your food portions to be sure you are hitting your daily calorie and macro goals.

You may have been told many times by a lot of different experts that you don’t have to count calories to lose weight and you may even know people who lost weight simply by estimating portion sizes. That’s fine if you’re successfully losing fat, but if you’re stuck at a plateau, I consider it mandatory to stop guessing and start getting serious about doing your nutrition by the numbers.

The Best Ways To Re-establish Your Calorie Deficit

Once you’re tracking everything you’re eating, so you’re sure about your compliance to the correct calorie intake, then if you’re still stuck or you hit a plateau again later on, what you need to do is re-establish you calorie deficit. In other words, you need to eat less, burn more or a little bit of both.

You can work on the nutrition side (calories in) by reducing your food portion sizes and choosing less calorie-dense food types. Or you can use the exercise side (calories out) by increasing training volume. You have many choices on the training side.

You can increase your cardio duration (burn more calories by working out longer) or increase your cardio frequency (burn more calories by working out more often). You can also increase the intensity of your cardio so you burn more calories in the same time you’re already spending (a good strategy for busy people). That’s three different strategies for cardio alone (duration, frequency and intensity).

If your weight training has been low in volume or frequency, you can do more weight training as well. A three day a week program can be expanded to four or five, sets and exercises can be added, more metabolically-demanding exercises can be used and intensification techniques can be added.

The whole idea is simply to expend more calories (and stimulate your metabolism) or pull back your calorie intake, which re-establishes or increases your calorie deficit.

You could make one change at a time like adding an extra day of cardio, or make multiple changes all at once, like increasing both cardio frequency and intensity, plus reducing portion sizes at the same time.

Which strategies you choose depends on what makes the most sense given your current situation. And always remember that there are two sides to the energy balance equation, not one. There’s more than one way to break a fat loss plateau.
 
I am going to give my woohoo's now since I am not sure when I will be back on today.

1. I am going to lunch with an old friend. I haven't seen her in a long time. We now work in the same building so I see this happening more often.
2. I went to my nephews Varsity soccer game last night. The needed to win or tie to be conference champions. The team they played last night they have beat in at least the last 4 years if not longer. They tied so they are the champs. It will most likely be the last game I will be able to see him play in since this is his senior year. I am glad I got to go to the game.
3. I really wanted to go to the concession stand last night but I was good and did not go. I ate really good yesterday. I also had 15 oz of water. Not the 20 that I want to get everyday but it is a start and more then I normally have. Oh and no pop yesterday!
 
I have to say if the bmi is under 20, it may be also a case where the goals are too drastic and adjustment in goals may be appropriate
 
October 12 - Woohoo Wednesday!!!

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Share something wonderful or something that has made you smile this week so we can all celebrate along with you!
 
they ask all couples to join them on the floor for a slow dance - I hate the couples joining in part - nothing highlights being along more than that for me - so if they do - do that maybe go to the restroom, outside or the bar while that is going on to distract you - or if you have another solo friend or family member grab them for a dance.

I feel like I've been to weddings before where they've done this as well. I am not afraid to go hide in the bathroom. I have social anxiety to boot so hiding in the bathroom is somewhat of an area of expertise for me :rolleyes:

hope it all goes well for you, don't be too hard on yourself

Thank you! :goodvibes I really appreciate that. Being hard on myself definitely half of my battle.
 
October 12 - Woohoo Wednesday!!!

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Share something wonderful or something that has made you smile this week so we can all celebrate along with you!

Well, I wouldn't go as far as wonderful but after reading again that quote that I keep posting I figured I am walking too much, and pretending that I am not sick and going to the gym and doing everything that needs to be done and I am not feeling well. So after my lunch time walk I had an AHA moment.

I need to go back to happy and the way to do it is take it easy and stop! I feel little silly that I didn't earlier but I don't want to be too sick to go to WDW on 22nd!

It's not at all wonderful is it? I reached my goal, and instead of feeling fantastic I am on antibiotics. But at least I talked myself out of continuing to ignore the situation. I feel guilty? I have kept and my step count over 15000 daily and my at least 2 workouts a week. I shouldn't feel guilty as it leads to overdoing it and starting to hate exercise in the end.

Anyway, I know better than what I have done in the past so I will chill and do the minimum necessary until I feel ok, which means back to the gym after Orlando.
 
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Share something wonderful or something that has made you smile this week so we can all celebrate along with you!

Woohoo Wednesday! Let's see....

1. I have lunch with my mama scheduled today and I can't wait to see her!
2. It's not going to get above 56 degrees here today so it's nice and chilly which means I got to break out scarves and boots this morning.
3. My gym bag is in my car so I'll be hitting up the gym tonight.
4. I spent a better part of the day yesterday trying to figure out how I could possibly afford a solo trip to Disney next December. I think I can make it work. I really hope so. I'm spoiled because the first year we went was 2001. We've been going every other year for the past 15 years with the exception of the last 3 years where I went every year. And there was one year we went twice. Needless to say that the thought of having NO future Disney plans is giving me some serious Disney depression. I budget out a certain amount of spending money for myself each month and if I just take that and turn it into Disney savings instead it's totally doable.
 
Woohoo Wednesday!

This time next week I'll be somewhere in WDW... I didn't make any FP+ or ADR's for Weds, so not sure where. I do want to try FEA and will need to do it at rope drop, so maybe a morning at EPCOT and the afternoon at DHS. I do need to do some clothing shopping, and book airport transportation and get a pedicure. It's nice timing to not be leaving until Monday evening as it gives me the entire weekend and Monday day, so no rush.

There's another storm coming in this weekend... love a good storm.

And there's the fact that after this week I have the rest of October off! That sounds even better than having two weeks off :).
 
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My woohoo is that they were able to reschedule the half marathon I was suppose to do last Saturday and got cancelled due to the hurricane. It will be my first one not at Disney so I am nervous about going from middle of the pack to the back. DH and my 2 oldest DSs will be doing the 5k. Which is even more exciting because it is being put on by the Marine Corp. and they love all things military. I'm a little sad I won't get to see them finish under the big guns but happy they will be there when I cross the finishline!
 
Yesterdays QOTD: I'm fairly relaxed. I do track my calories and exercise, and I do try to preplan most meals. But overall I go with the flow and just try to make good choices when its time to make a choice.

My woohoo is that DD is going to do the Star Wars 10k with me now! This is her first year not doing the kids races as she's too old now. Originally she didn't want to do the 10K cause she didn't want to wake up early like I have to. But then runDisney released the BB-8 medal and opened up more 10k spots. I showed her the medal on Monday night and she jumped at it! Its going to be so much fun for me to watch her run through the parks the first time.
 
October 12 - Woohoo Wednesday!!!

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Share something wonderful or something that has made you smile this week so we can all celebrate along with you!

Hubs and I redid all of our Disney dining reservations this morning and have managed to move everything around. We're being adventurous and trying new restaurants at Epcot and finally crossing all of the countries off our "to-do list".

Still finding ways to cut back a bit, as we get closer we're recognizing that maaaaaaybe we've put on too many ADRs. No character dining this time, but maybe we can eat breakfast in the room and then head out to the parks.
 
October 12 - Woohoo Wednesday!!!

Share something wonderful or something that has made you smile this week so we can all celebrate along with you!

I had a GREAT WW meeting last night..... I asked a really thought-provoking opening question and it really got things going with my super-quiet group..... lots of sharing and participation and I THINK everyone went away with a smile on their face! I love week's like that because I remember feeling so inspired and motivated when I was a member myself! Going to try the SAME question with tomorrow night's group! ..............P
 












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