Ending a marriage because of no attraction - Update pg 6

[Wishing on a star]

I agree DD and P&W

Ohhhh, what a web of lies we weave....

The truth usually does come out.... If not in one way, then another.

 

[Disney Doll]

I'm glad for his sake that the marriage has ended. Once he is over it, with time, he will be able to find someone who appreciates him.

 

[OhMari]

Hi,
It sounds so sad, but hopefully they will both be okay.

Your little girl is growing up so fast, she doesn't have that infant/baby look, she looks like a rumbling, tumbling toddler.

 

[Liberty Belle]

She confided in me because I have been there. I married my high school sweetheart who was a great guy, but I was never attracted to him. I should have never committed to him but I was too immature to speak up. I finally left after 5 years of marriage. It was the best decision I EVER made for myself.

I am now married to an equally amazing guy but DH is really attractive to me. It keeps the spark alive and that is important to a marriage.

Mickeyistheman, do not settle down with this guy. Years into the marriage you will find yourself attracted to someone else. We are sexual creatures and it's not something you can talk yourself out of. There are so many guys out there who are great men & fatheres and attractive. Wait it out. I did and it's worth it.

MELSMICE, her DH is attractive, just not my type.

So does she tell him the real reason? I'm thinking she needs to talk to a therapist (not her pastor, no offense) and really get her feelings out in the open. Like y'all said, it's probably deeper than we think.

I just don't understand how someone can marry, sleep with, love (romantically) a person and not be attracted to them.

I've been married to dh for 15 years. He's changed physically, but I'm still attracted to him because I love him.

 

[kandb]

Is he a good husband and a good father? She should appreciate his good qualities unless he is not a good person. If he has a lot of good qualities, she should focus on that. Grass is always greener on the other side.

 

[Missy1961]

This was started in 2008. I guess it's kind of relevant.

 

[DisneyFan32WI]

ZOMBIE THREAD (sigh...again)

 

[minnie mum]

I don't know why kandb chose to resurrect an 8 year old thread, but I'd like to know why the title said there was an update on page 6 but we're only on page 5. Maybe there were a mess of deleted posts. Whatever. Pretty sure the Ops friends have resolved their issues long ago.

 

[kandb]

I don't know why kandb chose to resurrect an 8 year old thread, but I'd like to know why the title said there was an update on page 6 but we're only on page 5. Maybe there were a mess of deleted posts. Whatever. Pretty sure the Ops friends have resolved their issues long ago.

Because kandb didn't notice the date. Do you look at the dates of every thread you open?
It was at the bottom of the page, I clicked on it, read it and responded. It's not like I went looking for an 8 year old thread. Sheeeesh!

 

[low-key]

This was started in 2008. I guess it's kind of relevant.

I thinks its still quiet interesting, did she stay married to ugly guy and be unhappy or did she find new sexy guy ? did ex find ugly new partner is he happy ? is she?

 

[DisneyFan32WI]

On these zombie threads, I think we should write the endings because the OP never comes back with closure!!

 

[Squirlz]

Because kandb didn't notice the date. Do you look at the dates of every thread you open?
It was at the bottom of the page, I clicked on it, read it and responded. It's not like I went looking for an 8 year old thread. Sheeeesh!

Yes. Yes I do.

 

[minnie mum]

Because kandb didn't notice the date. Do you look at the dates of every thread you open?
It was at the bottom of the page, I clicked on it, read it and responded. It's not like I went looking for an 8 year old thread. Sheeeesh!

Yes, I do. Ever since they started posting the threads at the bottom of the page; specifically because so many if them are zombie threads.

 

[low-key]

doesnt Velveeta Chick still post , someone p/m her and ask her to tell us how this ended

 

[dashofsunshine]

doesnt Velveeta Chick still post , someone p/m her and ask her to tell us how this ended

"Velveeta chick" I can't stop laughing. I think her name is vettechick, although I like Velveeta chick quite a bit more. CHEESE

 

[low-key]

"Velveeta chick" I can't stop laughing. I think her name is vettechick, although I like Velvetta chick quite a bit more. CHEESE

I wondered why I always got hungry when she posted, it was just bad reading

 

[DisneyFan32WI]

Looks like she hasn't posted in almost two months.

 

[sonnyjane]

Yes, I do. Ever since they started posting the threads at the bottom of the page; specifically because so many if them are zombie threads.

Especially if you see a thread with multiple pages of replies and a provocative subject heading.

 

[mjkacmom]

Especially if you see a thread with multiple pages of replies and a provocative subject heading.

Yep - a clear sign of a zombie. I avoid opening threads at the bottom of the page.

 

[kandb]

I don't know why kandb chose to resurrect an 8 year old thread, but I'd like to know why the title said there was an update on page 6 but we're only on page 5. Maybe there were a mess of deleted posts. Whatever. Pretty sure the Ops friends have resolved their issues long ago.

Yes. Yes I do.

You both get a BIG GOLD disboard star!