my achilles heel is not being as aware of how much prices are/have increased until i'm faced with paying it. I only go out of the house maybe at most 3 or 4 times a month so I don't see those gas prices edging up or how the price of a coffee or what I used to consider the less expensive to-go food places have sharply risen. we have a month like July with dh and I both having a couple of medical appointments each and they entail no morning coffee consumption

so we drive through a coffee place and BAM a couple weeks later i'm looking at the bank statement and see how much those added up to. same with the VERY rare to-go food, it's complete (after the fact) sticker shock. gas prices depend on the day of the week and esp. if it's in proximity to a 'travel weekend'.
all of these expenses are bundled into one line item in my budget-'household expenses' and I up the amount budgeted yearly by 10% but 2025 is showing I need to increase it higher.
I have found that if I do one single very large trip for the entire month and then limit myself to produce/dairy for any other trips I do better (though if there's a significant sale on something I will make a trip to stock up).