MAGICFOR2
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Hi everybody. I need help/advice on explaining Christmas to my DS(3). My wife and I are not sure about how to handle the Santa Clause issue. My wife and I never grew up believing in Santa Clause. In both our families, Santa Clause was just part of the Christmas decoration, kind of like ghosts and witches on Halloween. But sometimes I think that maybe I missed out on some of the Christmas fun by not believing in Santa Clause.
TIA...
Michael![]()
We both grew up with Santa, although I had a neighbor tell me the truth when I was 5 years old - when I asked, my mom was honest - then we pretended until I left home
It was fun, and the true meaning of Christmas was always first in our home.When we had our boys, we started with Santa Claus, because it is fun! Well, when our oldest, Ryan was 5, he came to me and said, "Mom, I want to ask you something, and I want you to tell me the truth. I don't want you to lie to me, and I don't want you to ask me what I think. Now, is there really a Santa Claus, or not?"
What do you say to that?I told him the truth, and that we would have fun pretending - and so we have! My sister doesn't do Santa, because she felt her kids would feel bad that they had been lied to. I think it depends on how you explain it.

Here is Rio's letter to Santa:
I DID manage to find a stationary shop in Portsmouth which still carries sealing wax and seals. Luckily Santa knows these kids will love a karaoke machine (they adore karaoke on




