MAGICFOR2
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Hi everybody. I need help/advice on explaining Christmas to my DS(3). My wife and I are not sure about how to handle the Santa Clause issue. My wife and I never grew up believing in Santa Clause. In both our families, Santa Clause was just part of the Christmas decoration, kind of like ghosts and witches on Halloween. But sometimes I think that maybe I missed out on some of the Christmas fun by not believing in Santa Clause.
TIA...
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We both grew up with Santa, although I had a neighbor tell me the truth when I was 5 years old - when I asked, my mom was honest - then we pretended until I left home

When we had our boys, we started with Santa Claus, because it is fun! Well, when our oldest, Ryan was 5, he came to me and said, "Mom, I want to ask you something, and I want you to tell me the truth. I don't want you to lie to me, and I don't want you to ask me what I think. Now, is there really a Santa Claus, or not?"

I told him the truth, and that we would have fun pretending - and so we have! My sister doesn't do Santa, because she felt her kids would feel bad that they had been lied to. I think it depends on how you explain it.
