I agree with you and I think Disney is very smart to "punish" resale members because it does result in direct sales. Most people that own dvc and resale have at least 150 points direct so they can get these membership benefits.
You are treated differently as resale only and if you're a huge Disney fan like I am it does make you feel some type of way when people post about MM and reading about dvc parade viewings and meetups with Disney historians for DVC members when you are a DVC member, will be at the location, but you can't go.
Being blocked out of hotels you love sucks. Asking for swag and them looking you up and seeing that you are "resale only" and giving you something not as good sucks.
Not being able to access a lounge for DVC members when you are once again a DVC member sucks.
Cast members asking if you are dvc for a discount and you saying yes because you are and then them asking to see your membership and hoping they dont scan the card sucks. Usually they dont scan it, but the one time they do you feel like you're doing something wrong which of course you are because you know you're not entitled even though you are a dvc member and they asked that.
You cant be excited like everyone else for any new hotels they are building because you know you're out. And then there's the gray areas such as the Halloween party tickets where they let us purchase it through the app and it doesn't SAY you need DVC Y to purchase anywhere on the app so you truly are confused if youre eligible, but on some Google searches it says you do need to be DVC Y so now you have to weigh if you should risk it because its letting you or else what will happen, SUCKS. I can go on with more stuff (2042, prices going up later when u need direct etc)
My point is DVC has made it very clear how they feel about resale. I've seen guides face change when they find out im all resale, almost like they're wasting their time or you did Disney wrong

I would never buy direct if it wasnt for all these little leaving you out of things, gray areas to worry about and different treatment. Resale is still paying thousands of dollars. An extra $9000 to have 1 direct contract on sale with incentives is worth it imo after my short experience as resale only. As much as I've tried to convince myself it doesn't bother me, it does period.
With all these little slights there is no way they are going to reward resale with anything imo. Quite the opposite.
Having just gone to a villa tour with a guide yesterday their sales tactics are more than good enough to pull people in with direct.
They did all the old tricks with us, telling us we will get extra points if we buy direct with our December UY, telling us we will be able to trade points for cruises and world travel, showing us how cheap it is with a 15 year loan we would only have to pay $200 something to stay in this gorgeous room. Hell, I know all the bs and I was still tempted to sign on the dotted line


I fully expect the current trends to continue.
I have absolutely no regrets doing things the way we have and if I could do it over again I wouldnt change a thing. But we will be buying direct within the next two years because of how Disney has structured things unfortunately.