Shonnel, to be accepted here on the DIS you just need an email address and voila you're in with over 77,000 others
Just to add as a member of the Disneymooners I did not "depend" on them just as I did not "depend" on the DIS but any help I could get from anywhere to plan my wedding was sure appreciated and I'll be truthful it wouldn't have been the wedding it was if it weren't for members both there and here.
As stated elsewhere here on the DIS if anybody is wishing to become a member of Disneymooners then firstly you have to be planning a Wedding or Vow Renewal at Walt Disney World,
DisneyLand or
Disney Cruise Line. There are a number of questions that have to be answered fully in order to have your application processed let alone passed. If your membership has not been approved then there is an email address that you can write to on the application to discuss this further.
In answer to your concern Shonnel, Disneymooners is a private board and as such membership can be denied at the Owners discretion so only they can say why an application has been refused.