Wowzer, so much going on!! I've already said but I'll say again, a trip without a financial cloud hanging over your head will be MUCH better for you AND the kids!

And the week after Thanksgiving sounds great- Disney will be all decked out for the holidays.
I'm glad you saw CA's true self before you were in any deeper. It can be so hard to believe that people actually still think this way.

Yay for meeting someone new though. I hope the only surprises he springs on you are good ones.
And I know you do so much with and for your kids, and not just WDW. They've traveled and will again soon so a trip without them is nothing to feel guilty about.
I'll be back with pics of UO next month so if you're not excited by then maybe I can help.