Norah (who's 3 and a half) is still wetting at night (soaking) so we use Pull Ups. BUT I wish I new of some GOOD nighttime panties. Keep your eye out for me, Flea! Nikky has some but their super expensive. Bumkins (I think) has some that are way too thick. I'll have to do some googling. I want her to FEEL wet. Pull Ups are cute but using 2 a day (one for nap) can get spendy.
I'm not sure of panties but if using cloth that has a staydry built in then add a facecloth folded into the top of the diaper then they will feel wet

A friend of mine made some training diapers that had lycra wings so they could be pulled up and down with just a flannellette inner so could feel wetness. If you made it into a pocket you could just adjust your absorbancy at night. Or you could use a wool soaker over top. just to catch any extra "drips"
