The only thing I have to say, it may be too late. Its really sad, because many of us read there too - and trust is very important. For everyone, your life is important.
You are important. We all struggle with choices, and luckily we have the opportunity to change! I know I struggle daily with bad choices, its not easy to change. I hope from every mistake, I can learn lessons, the ever "we you know better, you do better" Its your choice Carolyn. I'm glad you chose to delete the link, do not take the temptation to go over there again, you arent doing yourself any good - you need to find what works for you - and move forward...
I think UtahWendythreadmama gave you excellent advice - she's ever so much better at it than I am!! I hope you dont misunderstand me... they are a rough crowd over there, but they do have a way to dig up dirt. I've always been amazed at h ow well some internet people are at uncovering horrible lies - my first internet message board was at ivillage.com - a SAHM board - and I was shocked that not only was one poster so good at weaving a tale, but when one of my friends uncovered it thru the IP address (the liar was actually married to military and lived on a base - so all her lies came back to bite her - she even posted she died, and her friends were so mad at us for accussing her of lies - well, of course my friend found out that was a lie!! )
so, in the end, you know we just have to be the best we can, and when we make bad choices, we have to know that when you know better, you do better!! No ONE is perfect - esp me!!