Hello everyone! As promised (a million years ago) I am finally posting the pictures of the tasting we had March 2nd. I can barely remember anything at this point but I will try my best to give an accurate depiction. Also, we have bridal shower updates and some BEO info.
Be warned, this is a heavy post, with lots of things to say and
lost of venting...and pictures!!!!!
This past Saturday I had my first bridal shower and it was really wonderful. My Aunt and Cousin hosted it (some say that is against the rules but I think it was sweet of them), and I had a great time. I cannot believe just how sweet and kind everyone was. I am SOOOO lucky to have these ladies in my life.
I was disappointed in a number of people who didn't show up- especially certain "friends" who live less than 15 miles away. But that happens and I guess we just have to accept it. I had girls flying in from Florida (I am in Georgia) and driving from cities/towns hours away just to be there and that is amazing and thoughtful. But for those who couldn't drive down the street (and had NO plans), well let's just say that I can narrow my guest list a little. I know I sound SO evil and mean, and really I am not, but I am opinionated and can be harsh sometimes...sorry girls, bare with me. I understand people have extenuating circumstances and sometimes you just can't make it, even if you're across the street, and I am totally okay with that, I really do understand...but these "friends" are those that really only hang around when they need you for something...like to show up to all their showers (which I did)... and give them gifts (which I did) and support them (which I did). But when you need them or want them around, they always seem to be busy and it's upsetting. And since this is the DISboards and we come here to talk and vent I just have to say all of this and say that these people are being cut from my life. I don't need or want "filler friends". Funny thing is, one of these people is the girl whose wedding I met Brian at. She was my roommate and she married Brian's roommate. So thank you for helping me meet the love of my life and now you are being cut, along with your sister and pretty much eveyone who lived in that apartment lol. This girl has caused me nothing but headaches and I have tried and tried to be a good friend but I can't handle her anymore.
To boot, only ONE person from Brian's family showed up and only two even RSVP'd (out of like 10)...that was his mom (and she is amazing, she is always there, what a sweetie- she may have a lot of opinions but she is a good woman). Not another person even called my Aunt to say "yes" or "no"...kinda weird. But his Aunt did say she wanted to throw another shower for us. I am indifferent to that idea....I am not going to ask my family and friends to travel again and I am not into the multiple shower idea but I know Brian wants to have it b/c none of his family showed up to the last one. This would be a couple's shower, so I will of course be gracious and be there. I just keep thinking why would I drive to his Aunt's house, an hour away (not really that far) b/c all but one person in his family who were invited to the last shower wouldn't come or were too busy or whatever and didn't even respond? It stresses me out. This wedding has made me hold some grudges. I am becoming a bridezilla. Let's be honest. And I always feel like it's a popularity contest and worry about who will be there and who won't (I'm crazy). Anyone else ever feel like that?
Ok enough complaining...I sound ungrateful and that's so not the case. People should just practice proper etiquette, that's all. The shower was amazing, we had a toilet paper bride contest where my mom and my future MIL got dressed by the bridesmaids...they both won! It was so funny. Food was amazing, I think I ate my weight in chicken salad cups, family and friends were beyond wonderful, and it was just an all around good time. My girlfriends from Florida who flew in were there too and that was very special. We have known each other for about 15 years and being able to spend time with them like old times was priceless. We went out after the shower and it was one of the best times I have had in my life. I love these girls so much.

They are my best friends.
And without further ado, I give you pictures of the shower and the food from the tasting.
Let's start with the tasting:
Our billboard/sign at the Boardwalk Convention Center:
Appetizer of Crab Cakes and Spanikopita:
The best soup ever!!!! Lobster bisque with pancetta....sorry it's half gone I forgot to take a pic and it was just so yummy!:
Chicken Francaise with risotto (I think) and carrots...so good:
This was the mustard rubbed sirloin with roasted potatoes...ahhhmazing:
Mahi Mahi with creamed spinach...holy cannoli good- my parent's favorite dish:
Man was this dessert good. Cheescake and chocolate torte. I will eat many of these on my wedding night lol:
Bridal shower pics to follow in next post...