Hi love!
Your shower looks awesome!! People are just ... ugh. I had one of my friends email me two days before my shower to ask if I minded if she didn't come because it was Palm Sunday................... she married an atheist and got married by a JOP. Now that she wanted out of my shower, she's holyer (sp?) than Jesus. LOL I am being extreme obvioulsy but come on. I wrote her back and told her that honestly I would be lying if I said it was fine and I wouldn't care. She ended up coming AND staying until the end! haha
You're definitely being a good sport by attending another shower with his family, I told my DF I wanted one shower and everyone needed to attend it. But, more shower also means more gifts!
The Champagne- ugh again. We ended up doing a BOC bar, but we arent even offering champagne. We aren't having any champagne at all. We're asking everyone to get a refresh of their drinks for a toast and toasting with existing drinks. I don't think anyone will complain about it. I'll report back in about a month!

Awesome on your BEO!
We have Laura for floral as well- she is amazing and great to work with, but she does take some time. If you have quick questions, pricing on something etc, email her assistant Jennifer. Jennifer responds quickly with things she can answer. If you have a lot of things you want answered or want immediate answers, email her to set up a phone meeting (usually at least a week away from when you ask to set it up). I always got more accomplished in a 30 minute phone call with her than weeks of emailing.

She definitely knows her stuff and is super sweet though! On your bouquet- if it's a bouquet you really want, keep it. I talked about mine with Laura too (mine is 325) and I wanted to make the girls' bouquets less (they are 145 each and I have 8 girls). However, the bouquets and mine especially, are in a lot of pictures. She made good sense and I left the bouquets alone. I did change all of our table arrangements which ended up being our real big money items previously. Our floral BEO was over 9k when we started, and now the final version is just under 5K.

I have posted my final one if you want to take a look in my PJ! It is very easy for the floral to add up unfortunately! I am using my $325 bouquet as the centerpiece for our sweetheart table, for instance! If I'm paying so much for it, lets put it out for display! hahaha Hopefully this will work well and look great! Clearly we'll know 3 weeks from today!
Everything seems to be coming along great!! Sorry I haven't been by regularly!