The stress and anxiety expressed in this thread (and the ROFR thread) over the past two months is a perfect example of a self-fulfilling prophesy. As recently as last fall, expectations were that you'd need to wait a day or two to hear back from a seller (or longer if the offer was made on a Friday), then sit through ROFR for 14-21 days (or longer) before getting close to closing. Then, it would take up to 14 days to get all the docs back from the seller, then you'd wait a week or so to close, another 14-21 days for your contract to appear on your dashboard, then another week at minimum (unless you called to hound them) to see your points appear. 60, 75, even 90 days from offer to points in the dashboard was the absolute norm, and no one thought anything of a day or a week passing before a milestone was considered to be overdue.
These days, if something takes more than a day or so, or if someone else's process is moving even marginally faster than yours, all kinds of panic ensues. "Why haven't I heard back?" "What do you think is wrong?" "Should I call to see what the status is?" "I'm having a panic attack!" The stress and anxiety is entirely self-created, and lies solely in the expectations buyers are creating regarding how fast they think things should happen, then the disappointment and anxiety when they process doesn't meet that timeline.
I think everyone needs to take a deep breath and relax. The speed with which some of theses sales are progressing is far from the historical norm. We are in the exception, not the rule.