Chris & Megan's Wishes Wedding: Updated 8/2:Photobomb of the last month!

Hi Everyone! I’m going to try this again since I had a VERY long typed out last night…and disboards deleted it. Yikes…

Anyway, the first thing up today on my mind is Saturday [11/5]; we were 600 DAYS out! I was beyond excited. Not that that makes a major difference but here was my thinking on Saturday:

600 Days till we get married
235 Days till we sign our LOA!!
114 Days till we can “pencil” our date in but it’s not official, more like a “HEY! I want that spot”
36 Days until I see my castle and the Christmas decorations [Work!]​

On to more exciting topics! :lmao:
We hit bit of a plateau with planning this weekend. We’ve been talking about random aspects of the wedding for a while now whenever I feel like it and photography is probably one of my top items that is important to me.
My mom, however, does not understand how important photography is to me. I want to do a first look at CBR the morning of the wedding. Chris and I are very emotional people. Originally, Chris was going to know what my dress looked like and everything but now he is not. If he is not, I don’t want him to start crying in the middle of the church when I walk in. I want to have a moment where he can cry and I can laugh prior to being in front of people. I want to be able for him to look at me and tell me how I look, talk to me. My mother feels that I need to stick to tradition and not see each other until I walk into the door at the WP. No offense, if I do that I will be a nervous wreck the entire morning. As she put it, “nothing else we are doing is traditional”. Any Advice on how to convince her that a First Look is better?

Engagement Pictures:
We helped out a friend of mine yesterday with his business! He’s starting a photography business after he graduates college in May. He asked me if we would be willing to be “models” for him and we were like …. Okay! So here are my favorites from the shoot. They were taken by Shane Miller Images, He’ll be based out of New Jersey once he graduates.

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These images made me so much more excited for our “real” engagement pictures! :lmao:

Our “real” engagement pictures are going to be either in January or Februarys with a friend of mine. Allison worked as a Photopass Photographer during our college program and is studying photography. She’s amazing. And plus, she’s my best friend! :goodvibes Perfect. We’re going to do some normal pictures and we’re also going to do a few ICE pictures…..Renting the ice out and getting out on it sounds perfect to me.

I chose to give up getting engagement photos taken in Disney as well as Dessert Party photos because Ice Hockey is a passion for both of us. This is something we’ll cherish.

And as a side note….
I drove the family mini-van into the ditch on the side of our driveway Friday night. On the way to the dealership, none the less! It’s all fine though, no damage to the car or me. Just a HYSTERICAL story now. I’ve been telling my mom for 2.5 years that “I’m gonna go in the ditch one of these days”…. :lmao:

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600 Days till we get married
235 Days till we sign our LOA!!
114 Days till we can “pencil” our date in but it’s not official, more like a “HEY! I want that spot”
36 Days until I see my castle and the Christmas decorations [Work!]

LOL! I'm glad I'm not the only one who has countdowns going! :rotfl2:

Those pictures are cute. And, I happy to hear you and the van are ok. :goodvibes
 
Helloooo again.

I wanted to post my first inspiration for my engagement pictures with my friend. Allison worked as Photopass as I've mentioned and she will be taking our photos in January/Feb. She's an amazing photographer and one of my best friends. She is also going to Disney with me in less than 5 weeks to work! :)

She's not charging me for the photos but I am going to pay for her amtrack to come down. It's like 80 dollars but worth it to me.

Here is the inspirational for the on-ice photos. Both Chris and I play Ice Hockey, so these are going to be SO much fun. We have to rent the ice out up here to get these photos as no public skates allow for sticks to be on the ice.

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These photos came from Birchtree Photography. She is based in Washington, DC and I loved her photos. Just wanted to give her credit! :goodvibes

We're hopefully waiting untill I get my jersey for my ice hockey team, if not....We'll be wearing Rangers/Islanders Jerseys! :)
 

hahahha I took the idea to type it out like that from you! :)

Good to know I'm having a positive influence on someone . . . :rolleyes1

I love the ideas for your engagement photos. They are going to be fantastic! :goodvibes
 
I told you on facebook, but once again your pictures are great! I also love the inspiration pics for your other engagement shots, those are going to be really cool looking.

I totally agree with you about the first look - given what you've said, it sounds like it's right for you. I don't really know how to convince your mom though... you could try telling her that not everything has to be done according to tradition, and if it will make you feel better about your special day then shouldn't she want that for you? Frankly, when it comes down to it the only people who matter in "the first look vs. seeing down the aisle for the first time" debate are the two of you. It doesn't affect anyone else and hopefully if it means that much to you your mom will see that and come around!
 
Good to know I'm having a positive influence on someone . . . :rolleyes1

I love the ideas for your engagement photos. They are going to be fantastic! :goodvibes

I can't wait for them! :) Of course it's positive! We have to stay sane, right?? :lmao:


Love the pictures, they look awesome!

Thanks :goodvibes

I told you on facebook, but once again your pictures are great! I also love the inspiration pics for your other engagement shots, those are going to be really cool looking.

I totally agree with you about the first look - given what you've said, it sounds like it's right for you. I don't really know how to convince your mom though... you could try telling her that not everything has to be done according to tradition, and if it will make you feel better about your special day then shouldn't she want that for you? Frankly, when it comes down to it the only people who matter in "the first look vs. seeing down the aisle for the first time" debate are the two of you. It doesn't affect anyone else and hopefully if it means that much to you your mom will see that and come around!

Thanks! :) I had another site bookmarked of insperation but I can't find the link! :lmao:

I agree.... Now just to get my mom to agree!
 
Woohoo for 600 days! It seems like a long time but time will fly!

We are doing a first look and I am SO excited about it. We are mainly doing a first look for photography reasons-- it will be DARK by the time my wedding rolls around and lighting will be bad. For these reasons we are taking all our formal pictures before the wedding and doing a first look. I've heard that a first look is some bride's favorite part of the whole day! I can easily see how it could be mine. To be honest, I'd just tell your mom, we want to do a first look.. or, I'd pull the photography card, :laughing:.

Your photos are so cute! I can't wait to see your "real" pictures-- your inspiration pictures are great! I love engagement pictures!

OMG! So glad you and the car are okay!!

:hug:
 
Woohoo for 600 days! It seems like a long time but time will fly!

We are doing a first look and I am SO excited about it. We are mainly doing a first look for photography reasons-- it will be DARK by the time my wedding rolls around and lighting will be bad. For these reasons we are taking all our formal pictures before the wedding and doing a first look. I've heard that a first look is some bride's favorite part of the whole day! I can easily see how it could be mine. To be honest, I'd just tell your mom, we want to do a first look.. or, I'd pull the photography card, :laughing:.

Your photos are so cute! I can't wait to see your "real" pictures-- your inspiration pictures are great! I love engagement pictures!

OMG! So glad you and the car are okay!!

:hug:

Thanks! :) I'm sure it will fly particullarly the longer that Chris is on night shift, the more it will fly by!

I agree. I want a first look, I don't want all the pictures of Chris during the ceremony to be all-weepy! :)

:goodvibes

That stupid ditch! :lmao:
 
First of all, I :love: you for how often you post and update! Always so exciting to have something from you on my feed!

As far as the "first look" goes, I used to be "anti first look" like your mom but what convinced me was seeing the photos of "first looks" that The Roots have done and some of the videos some people have that include a first look. It just looks SO special and like a patch of serenity in a crazy day. Show your mom a bunch of the photos you can get doing a first look, if she doesn't fall in love give me her number and I'll call her and give her a talkin to :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
 
First of all, I :love: you for how often you post and update! Always so exciting to have something from you on my feed!

As far as the "first look" goes, I used to be "anti first look" like your mom but what convinced me was seeing the photos of "first looks" that The Roots have done and some of the videos some people have that include a first look. It just looks SO special and like a patch of serenity in a crazy day. Show your mom a bunch of the photos you can get doing a first look, if she doesn't fall in love give me her number and I'll call her and give her a talkin to :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Awww! :goodvibes Yes, I try to post something every couple days. I'm one of those obsessive people who likes to spend *most* of their time on disboards....either that or I'm just bored in college. :lmao:

I'm going to do some looking about photos that were done during first look and show them to her in a while! :)

Thanks :goodvibes
 
I’ve always wanted to have an aisle runner with rose petals on each side. I found an aisle runner that I wanted but it is rather expensive. The reason it’s so expensive is that it is 5 feet wide so that there is about 6 inches on each side of the runner.

I decided that once I considered the cost for Disney to lay the petals or our outside florist with the sheer amount that I want, Silk might be a better bet! So I started researching companies with Silk Petals. I have decided that I will ask my aunt to lay the petals for me as she has offered to help do anything and everything she can to help.

The winner was Petal Garden! Go visit them here. They offered free shipping and free samples for any petals you would like to see. So I requested four different colors…
  • 405: Peach
  • 407: Pale Yellow
  • 408: Ivory with Yellow
  • 412: Yellow
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I’m waiting for another sample to come in with Ivory and Cream so I can see those against these petals. My question will be…..do I use Yellow [which is the color of my bouquet] and Ivory [which is the color of the girls bouquet] or what??
 
Well, since it's been over a month since we've gotten back from Disney....My memory is foggy about little details and since college has taken over my free time...The rest of the trip report will become a pictures TR! :)

Saturday, October 1st
This was Chris's Birthday and MK's birthday as well! We of course went to MK but we don't do crowds. We were there for like 3 hours and then left! We had lunch at Kona and then went to EPCOT to enjoy some food and wine before Ohana's for dinner. We saw Wishes and called it a night! :)

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Sunday, October 2nd
We went to the Halloween Party on this day! It was a lazy studios morning and then off to the halloween party!

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Monday, October 3rd​
Today was our last day at Disney World!

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All in all, it was a fabulous trip. It was our first vacation as "adults" without any of our parents and it was nice!

Oh! And our towel animals!:
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I did a first look and was so glad I did. I did it coming down the stairs at GF. I thought it would be a private thing with just me and DH and the photographers but everyone from the wedding party was there. I guess I shouldn't have assumed anything and asked Regina to ask everyone to leave. But the pictures were amazing and it was such a special moment.

One way to sell it to your mom is that then you won't spend as much time after the wedding taking pics and will be able to get to your cocktail hour/reception sooner!
 
Your trip looks like it was fun! And I love your Halloween costumes, they are great!! You both look fantastic.

I definitely agree about the petals and getting silk - the costs are so high from Disney! As for colors... are you going to do 1 color, or 2? And do you know yet what color your aisle runner is going to be? Personally, I like the yellow because it adds some pop and if you have a white runner I think the yellow would stand out a bit more beside it.
 
I did a first look and was so glad I did. I did it coming down the stairs at GF. I thought it would be a private thing with just me and DH and the photographers but everyone from the wedding party was there. I guess I shouldn't have assumed anything and asked Regina to ask everyone to leave. But the pictures were amazing and it was such a special moment.

One way to sell it to your mom is that then you won't spend as much time after the wedding taking pics and will be able to get to your cocktail hour/reception sooner!

Thanks! I would want it to be just us, his brothers would rag him if they saw him crying [two of the three are military so they think emotion is over-rated. :rotfl2:]

That's one think that I plan on telling her! =]
 
Your trip looks like it was fun! And I love your Halloween costumes, they are great!! You both look fantastic.

I definitely agree about the petals and getting silk - the costs are so high from Disney! As for colors... are you going to do 1 color, or 2? And do you know yet what color your aisle runner is going to be? Personally, I like the yellow because it adds some pop and if you have a white runner I think the yellow would stand out a bit more beside it.

Thanks! That Halloween party was AMAZING. It's the second year Chris has been a pirate, he wanted me to be "his wench" this year....ummm about that. I have far too much self-respect to be a "wench".... :lmao:

We're going with 2 colors :) The runner is white, I believe. It's going to have our monogram on it [Debating painting it myself or having it done...It's 75 dollars to have it done but my family has such little faith in me.....]
 
I think tying in the yellow and the ivory would be gorgeous for your aisle petals! I have faith in you with painting your aisle runner-- you can do it and it will look great!!

Love your Halloween costumes!! So cute!

How fun that this was your first "adult" vacation! I still like going with my parents sometimes but it is so nice to just be alone with DFi.

Looks like you two had a great time!! Your towel animals are fantastic!! :laughing:
 
Just catching up! You look like you had a great time on your site visit trip! I had Michelle for mine too--- she's pretty great. :)

And your costumes are adorable!!!!

Faith is right, by the way--- your 600 days will fly by. Although, I must say, these last 57 days seem to be dragging....
 














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