Goofy_Disney_Dad
Can go Grumpy on occasion too...
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Wonder if there was an uptick in umbrella sales at Disney over the last few days? Never know when you might need to "use" one.
I think what declansdad and I are saying is that the laws of nature, common sense, and decency supersede corporate bylaws.
We are debating in circles. Laws of nature, common sense and decency have no bearing on corporate policy. Whether people like it or not, the CM being fired would be legal in this situation.
We are debating in circles. Laws of nature, common sense and decency have no bearing on corporate policy. Whether people like it or not, the CM being fired would be legal in this situation.
The Duggars. Oh, wait...Agreed. The popular media celebrates lowlife behavior and mocks Christianity and responsible behavior. Don't believe it? Jerry Springer. Honey Boo Boo. Jersey Shore. Kardashians. Real Housewives. Anything with Paris Hilton. Etc., etc., etc.
Bystanders have reported, the argument was verbal only, until Goofy put her hands on the guest in front of her. It escalated from there and Poppins pulled out her parasol . Ugly. Really.Do we know yet, who threw the first shot?![]()
I couldn't agree more with this.
This is why we can't have nice things.Bystanders have reported, the argument was verbal only, until Goofy put her hands on the guest in front of her. It escalated from there and Poppins pulled out her parasol . Ugly. Really, even
Or anything else for that matterWe are debating in circles. Laws of nature, common sense and decency have no bearing on corporate policy.

I agree with this 100%. Unfortunately, I had a situation my self a few years ago. I had to take my kids to a local health dept. to get a shot that their doctor was out of. A lady sitting behind us in the waiting area kept calling my kids names (they were 9 and 2 at the time and i was pregnant with my third) and talking about them loudly on her phone (called them ugly white boys several times, among other things). My oldest asked why she kept yelling at them and I told him to just ignore her. My husband called me about this time and could hear the lady. I decided at this point to just get up and go stand by a wall, near the office staff. The lady, as I'm walking away is threatening to hurt me if I "say a word about" her to anyone. Then, her daughter comes out from seeing the doctor and I figured they were leaving. Instead, the daughter screams at me "what did you say to my mom?!" I told her I didn't say a word to her mom and that her mom had been talking about my kids (I hate confrontation to begin with, but I'm also a very small person and I was pregnant and holding a 2 year old) and before I could finish a sentence the girl was pulling my hair and punching me in the head. The rest was a blurr, I know someone pulled her off of me and I went running to the back of the office area with my kids. She took off in her car at that point and police were called by the clinic.Some of the time ignoring trash talk works. At other times, ignoring it builds rage. In an enclosed space at an amusement park, especially when you have an out of control adult who should be trying to calm the situation instead of causing more havoc, it's harder to control than in a classroom.
From watching the video (too many times, really) I think this is right. Goofy hat appears to put her hands on the woman as she walks away. It is hard to see but it looks like she put her hands up and pulled the woman's hair or at least touched her head. And using the umbrella introduced a weapon and whole new level of ugly responsibility.Bystanders have reported, the argument was verbal only, until Goofy put her hands on the guest in front of her. It escalated from there and Poppins pulled out her parasol . Ugly. Really.
...but let's not blow it out of proportion with talk of lifetime bans.
I don't disagree with you, but we shouldn't just make believe that's what happened and report it as such. I didn't read all 400 posts, but on the first page someone informed everyone else that they got a lifetime ban ... That's just not true.A fight is a fight. The person who threw the first punch should be given a ban of some sort, let's say 5 years, as a warning shot. We really need to start sending the message that nobody NOBODY can raise their fist ever.
I don't think anyone should be banned (nor do I know how that could be enforced)--but I do think all those who were fighting (not walking away, or only defending themselves by blocking, etc--so in this case both goofy and Mary Poppins) should have been removed from the park and had their tickets blocked so they could not return same day (yeah, I suppose they could buy new ones, but . . . ). (and, no, I do not feel that anyone removed from the park due to their behavior should get a refund on the ticket, or on any non refundable dining reservations, etc)
There is a lot of middle ground between lifetime ban and do basically nothing.
What if someone who has never started a fight at the parks before comes in, gets in a fight and gets hurt?What if you just kick them out of the park for a day, they come back the next day and get in a fight with someone else, only this time someone gets hurt?
...from a fight that involved both sides being aggressive (not an attack on someone totally innocent)...
I don't think one strike and you'Re out is a very good policy for anything other than the worst offenses out there.