Madi100 said:
I think that the only places you see nativities and anything religious are at churches and at people's homes. Most community decorations are exactly what you are asking for - cute Santas, Snowman, etc. Where we live there just aren't a lot of people who are Jewish. I live in Iowa. I think it's mostly Christian. I'm not saying it's ALL Christian, but I think the majority is. I live in a big college town too that has a lot of diversity. I just haven't been exposed to anything other than Christianity or secular. Last year my daughter had a little girl in her class who was Jewish. They did Christmas activities. The school sang Christmas songs. But, my daughter also came home with some Jewish stuff. I think they made dreidels (sp?) I wasn't offended at all. I think it's important for my daughter to realize that people are diverse.
Ahh I see. That's why every Christmas there is a live public nativity in my city for two weeks before Christmas every night and also a reenactiment of Jesus' suffering on the cross every easter. Yes these are displayed on public gvt property. The nativity is downtown in a local park thats right across from the main mall of the city and very obvious when you walk out the doors. The reenactment is performed through the streets of the city for a week before easter.
Believe me it isn't just in peoples homes or in churches. It's out in the open in the public.
And yet I KNOW without a doubt that if I tried to get the local Wiccans together on Dec 21 for a public Yule celebration and ritual in a park, it would be denied by the city and if we tried to do it anyway, we would probably be arrested for public disruption.
At this time of year I have seen Christian righteousness rear its ugly head and its frightening. They actually get angry if non-christians protest and say that we are all against them. That isn't the case, we just want equal exposure and equal rights. You don't have to agree with us just like we don't have to agree with you.
Lisa loves Pooh said:
Then you can do your part to educate the public. If you have something to offer--offer it, inform people.
The problem is that the Atheists mentioned in the news story are NOT offering anything in place of or in addition to the tree that would be more ecumenical. They want complete removal. They want the building to look like it does anytime of year. That infringes upon people because it says that their beliefs are more important. They do not believe in any Christian holiday--so anything that relates to that holiday even if it is secular, should not be allowed. I wonder when they'll start suing the federal government for not having their mail delivered on a federal holiday? Oops, hope I didn't just given anyone an idea.
I'm not offended by your "Happy Yule" offertory--but think you would do us a service if you explain that aspect of the holiday season. The only time I see yule logs is in the form of a cake.
I'm happy to inform people of it. The problem is that most of the population takes great offense to even hearing about it.
You asked about Yule. Dec 21 is the change of seasons. It's the time when winter is seen as truly beginning so the growing seasons are over and is a celebration of the "death" (or rather the going to sleep) of all the plants.
Each person in the Wiccan faith celebrates its differently but the generalities are that it is part of the turning of the seasons.
It is also the beginning of the god's time of year. Hmm that's sounds confusing so let me explain.
There are four seasons. Three belong to the goddess and one to the god. Spring is the time of youth and growing of the goddess. It's her maiden aspect just as it is a time of youth and growing for all the living plants and animals of the world.
Summer is the time of adulthood. It is during that time that the living things are fertile and at their strongest. It is the time that the goddess is celebrated in her mother aspect. Usually as being pregnant.
Fall is the time of elder knowledge and wisdom and the goddess is celebrated in her Crone aspect as an older woman with much knowledge to impart if you only listen. It's the time when growing things are aging and many are dying or preparing for the winter.
The Winter is the time of the God. It's because of him that life continues though the gods are seen as equal in every way. He is always seen and strong and beautiful at this time of year and he imparts the same on those who must live through the winter.
A yule log isn't just a cake. It's an ancient tradition. It's a log fallen from a tree (in north america, its usually the pine tree and ISN'T cut because to cut it is an insult to nature. It must have fallen because only that is a gift from nature instead of being forcibly taken) and is soaked in herbs and spices to deliver a sweet smell through the house when burned. It's burned throughout the day and sometimes we often burn it into the morning.
Just as you do, we eat good rich food, dance, drink and celebrate throughout this time of year. Well, if you can get enough Wiccans together we do. Unfortunately because of the way we often get treated, Wiccans are reluctant to reveal themselves and usually just celebrate with everyone else and not say anything though they perform their own rituals in private when no one else is around. We have a long tradition of secrecy born out of fear of persecution.
We also say our own prayers, perform our own rituals, and decorate with natural gifts from nature (often made into pretty decorations).
Since there are such major differences between Wiccans about how they celebrate the holy days, there is no exact ritual or anything that I can tell you except the general stuff I have already spoken of. I imagine other Wiccans would like to add (or even detract from) to the explanation.