I was looking at the some maps and it looks that even if you drive your car to the Magic Kingdom you'll still have to ride a shuttle and then transfer to a monorail? Is that correct? Seems pretty inefficient to me. I guess I am just spoiled walking 10 minutes from my hotel room on Harbor Blvd. to the front gate of
Disneyland. No car, no bus, no monorail, no wasted time.
Inefficient? Maybe. But for us, the ability to go wherever we want when we leave MK (including offsite) is worth it. Plus, if we didn't do that, we might not have any excuse to ride the monorail, plus my son LOVES the ferry. Add in that I'm just nostalgic enough to remember being little, holding my mom's hand, and feeling like the tram was a ride itself, bringing me another step closer to M-A-G-I-C. So we virtually always drive to MK, too.
To the OP...I don't HATE the buses, but I don't like them much, either. My son has Asperger's, so having the quiet of our car is nice (and even I can get people-d out and need that bubble). I don't like the element of not knowing when the bus I need will arrive and the needless worry of "Have I allowed enough time?" even when I'm sure I have. And honestly, a lot of people love the a/c on buses, but it takes about 42 seconds and I am shivering. In my own car, it might be hot when we get in, but it cools off quick enough and then I can turn the a/c down if I'm too cold.
Another issue - we're DVC members, which means we're always at a resort that shares with multiple other resorts, or has multiple stops within that resort, so that's a lot of time making stops and loading/unloading. And we do almost all of our dinner meals at resorts, which can be a real hassle to get to using Disney transport.
I also LIKE driving. I love turning up the music, singing along with my son. It isn't a chore. Maybe if I had a long commute every day I'd feel differently, but driving is easy and pleasurable and I like the control it gives me.