Any late talkers?

Luv2trav said:
Isn't that the truth..... I also worry my first son is too sensitive... Does it ever stop?

My older son is sensitive too!!!!! :confused3 He was crying when he got off the school bus today because his friend hit him on the bus. It think his friend was rough housing, but my son doesn't play that way. We teach people that it is not okay to hit, but deep down I was disappointed that he didn't just shrug it off. :guilty:
 
I have been in your same situation. My DD turned 2 in May and at her 2 year checkup she still wasn't talking. She said about 2 words - honest!!! Fast forward to NOW and she won't shut up. Honestly, it was as if she woke up one morning and knew how to talk. Her cousin (one month younger than DD) did the exact same thing. Our pediatritian wasn't too concerned about it though. As long as you can tell he is trying to say stuff, he should be alright. What is amazing is that I have noticed now that my DD was paying attention to every little thing we said the whole time she wasn't talking. Almost as if she was taking her time, learning all the little phrases and words. It's too cute when she opens her mouth now and starts to talk like a grownup!
 
Thank you all very much for your stories. It is giving me a lot of reassurance! I just want him to do it already. It really didn't bother me until I saw that little BARELY 17 month old little girl talking...


My son can talk and he even "tells me off" but it's in his baby language...
 
klj27 said:
My older son is sensitive too!!!!! :confused3 He was crying when he got off the school bus today because his friend hit him on the bus. It think his friend was rough housing, but my son doesn't play that way. We teach people that it is not okay to hit, but deep down I was disappointed that he didn't just shrug it off. :guilty:

Awhhh, I am not prepared for that. My son is in preschool and I ask him who he has played with and he told me "no one" "no boys like me".... I know the boys are not being mean to him they just don't want to play what he's playing. It's so hard to teach them that not everyone is going to like you and like what you are playing or doing. He still gets very upset when I raise my voice at him. Now my little guy laughs at me.... :confused3
 

When I read your first post I really thought nothing of just a few words at not quite too. Many kids are late talkers and then speak in full sentences when they start. What made me think pehaps evaluation is two things. One he seems flustrated that he is not able to communicate as well as he would like, and that he also walked late. Chances are that everything is just fine but early intervention is free in most states and if there is anything it can have him caught up by the time he enters school!
Parenting is such a heart tugging job!! Prayers for you that you find the answers and peace you need.

Jordan's mom
 
So glad to hear more about this. Our DD was 2 in April and literally says about 4 words (and most animal sounds). She's been having speech therapy for about 6 months but hasn't improved all that much although she makes many more sounds. We have been saying "any day now" since she was 1.5.

We get the therapy through Early Intervention so it is free for us, they just take whatever our insurance pays (which is about $30 per 30 minute visit although they will $170).

I'm told she has no other problems at all. Comprehends everything. But, as a baby, she was late turning over, late crawling, late walking, etc. So this just may be the way she is. No rush, she'll get there. I hope.

While I'm not glad you all are having the same problem, I'm happy to see this thread as I do worry about DD alot!


abacobaby said:
I have been in your same situation. My DD turned 2 in May and at her 2 year checkup she still wasn't talking. She said about 2 words - honest!!! Fast forward to NOW and she won't shut up. Honestly, it was as if she woke up one morning and knew how to talk. Her cousin (one month younger than DD) did the exact same thing. Our pediatritian wasn't too concerned about it though. As long as you can tell he is trying to say stuff, he should be alright. What is amazing is that I have noticed now that my DD was paying attention to every little thing we said the whole time she wasn't talking. Almost as if she was taking her time, learning all the little phrases and words. It's too cute when she opens her mouth now and starts to talk like a grownup!
 
My now 9 year old was a very late speaker!! We took him to a speech therapist at age 26 months. He had us make a list of all of DS's words. Well he had 10. i only wrote down 9 though. One of the 10 was sh%$. Imagine how I felt when my baby didn't say Mommy or big brothers name, but sh%$ came ouy clear as a bell. It was also used very appropriately too. Any way the speech therapist just wanted us to reinforce holding up an object and saying the word when we played with him. So when playing with a farm we'd hold up an animal and say, "cow" or "horse" etc. By age 3 we were wishing he'd just be quiet. Hang in there!!
 
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I will be the dissenting voice of the majority here, but from my experience I would not wait. My DD, now 3 1/2 had one word at 18 months. My pediatrician jumped on our case immediately. She said that children should have a minimun of 6 words (not including mom and dad) at 18 months. First thing we did, as an earlier poster said, was have her hearing checked. Please make sure you do that first. It was fine. Then we had her assessed by a speech pathologist. She concluded that her receptive language was ahead of schedule, but her spoken language was around a 12 month level. That qualified her for state sponsored speech therapy. She was also diagnosed with Sensory Integration Disorder (characterized by over sensitive to sounds, walked on tiptoes, very picky about foods, etc.) From 20 months to 3 years, my DD received weekly speech therapy and occupational therapy and it has made worlds of difference. She down receives speech therapy through our school district once a month, and that should end soon.

My point is why wait? If your child will "catch up" in his or her own time, then interventions won't matter, but what if s/he doesn't? Then your even further behind. Here in California, the state will pay for therapy until age three if your child has a large enough deficit. If I had waited until age two or three to see if her issues corrected itself, I would have received far less therapy than I did (our school district, which took over at age three is very limited with their offerings).

Every child is different but, please, have his or her hearing checked, look into what your state offers to young children with special needs, and see if you can have your child assessed by a speech pathologist as soon as possible.
 
camouseketeer said:
I will be the dissenting voice of the majority here, but from my experience I would not wait. My DD, now 3 1/2 had one word at 18 months. My pediatrician jumped on our case immediately. She said that children should have a minimun of 6 words (not including mom and dad) at 18 months. First thing we did, as an earlier poster said, was have her hearing checked. Please make sure you do that first. It was fine. Then we had her assessed by a speech pathologist. She concluded that her receptive language was ahead of schedule, but her spoken language was around a 12 month level. That qualified her for state sponsored speech therapy. She was also diagnosed with Sensory Integration Disorder (characterized by over sensitive to sounds, walked on tiptoes, very picky about foods, etc.) From 20 months to 3 years, my DD received weekly speech therapy and occupational therapy and it has made worlds of difference. She down receives speech therapy through our school district once a month, and that should end soon.

My point is why wait? If your child will "catch up" in his or her own time, then interventions won't matter, but what if s/he doesn't? Then your even further behind. Here in California, the state will pay for therapy until age three if your child has a large enough deficit. If I had waited until age two or three to see if her issues corrected itself, I would have received far less therapy than I did (our school district, which took over at age three is very limited with their offerings).

Every child is different but, please, have his or her hearing checked, look into what your state offers to young children with special needs, and see if you can have your child assessed by a speech pathologist as soon as possible.

I agree with you and that is what I posted earlier.

Have the PCP do a referral and get your child checked/evaluated with early intervention. It's free and the earlier you start the better for your child.

They also checked my DDs hearing to rule that out as well. She was fine.

My DD also has Sensory Integration Disorder; she is still, to this day, sensitive to sounds, she used to walk on her tiptoes, and she was/is still very picky about her foods...some still make her gage.

Good luck OP!
 
Hi Love to Trav,

You got some really good advice here, especially from SnowWhite and SnoopyMom. I too have a child who had language delays. My DS sounds very similar to yours, especially with the frustration levels. What your child is expressing when he pounds on the fridge is his inability to TELL you verbally what he wants. He has the words inside him, but can't get them out. My son was the same way. He didn't know how to ask for things. We had to break everything down into little steps for him. He could understand what we were saying, but we had to show him how to relay his needs to us.

He was able to be tested and enrolled in a program when he became eligible at 3 (the age for services in NJ). My pediatricians shrugged off his delays, but I KNEW something was wrong...he is youngest of 4. Go with your gut.
 
CherCrazy said:
Hi Love to Trav,

You got some really good advice here, especially from SnowWhite and SnoopyMom. I too have a child who had language delays. My DS sounds very similar to yours, especially with the frustration levels. What your child is expressing when he pounds on the fridge is his inability to TELL you verbally what he wants. He has the words inside him, but can't get them out. My son was the same way. He didn't know how to ask for things. We had to break everything down into little steps for him. He could understand what we were saying, but we had to show him how to relay his needs to us.

He was able to be tested and enrolled in a program when he became eligible at 3 (the age for services in NJ). My pediatricians shrugged off his delays, but I KNEW something was wrong...he is youngest of 4. Go with your gut.

See that is just it I don't know what my gut is saying to me. Until this past weekend I thought he was a little delayed but I wasn't worried. Again my first child did the same thing just had a few more words.

I am taking him to the Dr's tomorrow to check his ears(Ear infection prone) because we are leaving for Disney in 10 days. I will mention it to her. I will ask if there is any testing she would recommend so I can get the ball rolling either way. By the way I don't think he has any problems hearing. He sure can hear DORA when it comes on the TV. :)

To be honest I really don't think there is anything wrong. I do believe he is delayed but will eventually catch up. I agree with the "why wait" statements because if I am wrong then it's better to start now vs later.

Unfortunately I have already checked with my insurance and they do not cover ST. Any idea on how much ST costs? I am not even sure if there is a program here in Ohio that would cover the cost. I am sure DH and I make too much money if they did. It doesn't matter we will do what we have to do.
 
Luv2trav said:
See that is just it I don't know what my gut is saying to me. Until this past weekend I thought he was a little delayed but I wasn't worried. Again my first child did the same thing just had a few more words.

I am taking him to the Dr's tomorrow to check his ears(Ear infection prone) because we are leaving for Disney in 10 days. I will mention it to her. I will ask if there is any testing she would recommend so I can get the ball rolling either way. By the way I don't think he has any problems hearing. He sure can hear DORA when it comes on the TV. :)

To be honest I really don't think there is anything wrong. I do believe he is delayed but will eventually catch up. I agree with the "why wait" statements because if I am wrong then it's better to start now vs later.

Unfortunately I have already checked with my insurance and they do not cover ST. Any idea on how much ST costs? I am not even sure if there is a program here in Ohio that would cover the cost. I am sure DH and I make too much money if they did. It doesn't matter we will do what we have to do.

My son attended st in OH. I believe the childrens hospital charges $100+ for an hour. My son went to a private therapist who would only see kids for a half hour and she charges $60, but gave us a $30 rate after our insurance right out.
 
have to agree with posters saying to have your child tested, it can't hurt and if something wrong it can be addressed. Our son didn't say much at age 3 and we finally had him tested, he is in therapy through his school(2 days a week) and we hire someone private in summer. He is almost 5 now and is so much happier, does not get frustrated and everyone sees/hears a huge difference. Good Luck!
 
My dd was a late talker...and boy did people react. She was tested and tested..and nothing was found. But in todays world so many people have kids on a schedule...eating solids by...crawling by...walking by...talking by...and if they don't reach those milestones when who ever said they should...then SOMETHING must be wrong.

My gut was telling me everything was okay..and all kids develope at their own pace. (DH didn't talk until he was older than 2...and when he did...he started talking in full sentences). More than likely you son is just taking in the world...and when he's ready he'll let everyone know. But anyway..with my DD since she wasn't up to the standard and behind in the develepomental chart she qualifyed for speach therapy...which at her age was a play group with other kids....it turned out to be a wonderful thing for her socialy. Personaly I don't think it helped her spead her talking up any...but she enjoyed it.

Now she's 7...doing great developmentaly...right up there with her fellow class mates...

Like others have mentioned...stick with your gut. But it dosn't hurt to have them tested...just don't be alarmed if they say he's behind developmentaly...after all it's just someones idea of guidlines of when a human should do certian things.
 
Try the Easter Seals. So. OH here was based on income. Of course we didn't know that until after he had "bonded " with his ST at the hospital! There is also an early intervention program. Call you local Community Action to find the info, and ask your ped. Good Luck!
Michelle
 
Just a word of caution here. My middle boy was late in talking and we took him to our doctor and ENT many times. He was also ear infection prone and we are convinced that is what caused the delay. When kids always have fluid in their ears it sounds like they are listening with ear muffs on. Finally we insisted he have the tubes put in to drain the fluid. Well wouldn't you know that he started adding words immediately.
Also, I believe most stated have some kindof state funded early childhood development program that will supply speach therapy or other developmental therapies at no cost to you. Call your school district guidance counseler or even your local childrens hospital (developmental department) and they should at least know where to point you. Here in PA they will even come to your home to evaluate and assist the child. All of that being said, I agree with the poster who said to go with your gut and comparing is never and accurate picture. Compare your son with himself. Is he adding words? Does he understand what you say to him? Can he point to things if you ask (i.e wheres the ball? Which one is the cat?) ?
Good Luck to you. I have a 11 month old and I am not looking forward to all the worrying I am going to be doing about his speech development. We are leaving for Disney in 7 days!!! Enjoy your vacation!
 
camouseketeer said:
I will be the dissenting voice of the majority here, but from my experience I would not wait. My DD, now 3 1/2 had one word at 18 months. My pediatrician jumped on our case immediately. She said that children should have a minimun of 6 words (not including mom and dad) at 18 months. First thing we did, as an earlier poster said, was have her hearing checked. Please make sure you do that first. It was fine. Then we had her assessed by a speech pathologist. She concluded that her receptive language was ahead of schedule, but her spoken language was around a 12 month level. That qualified her for state sponsored speech therapy. She was also diagnosed with Sensory Integration Disorder (characterized by over sensitive to sounds, walked on tiptoes, very picky about foods, etc.) From 20 months to 3 years, my DD received weekly speech therapy and occupational therapy and it has made worlds of difference. She down receives speech therapy through our school district once a month, and that should end soon.

My point is why wait? If your child will "catch up" in his or her own time, then interventions won't matter, but what if s/he doesn't? Then your even further behind. Here in California, the state will pay for therapy until age three if your child has a large enough deficit. If I had waited until age two or three to see if her issues corrected itself, I would have received far less therapy than I did (our school district, which took over at age three is very limited with their offerings).

Every child is different but, please, have his or her hearing checked, look into what your state offers to young children with special needs, and see if you can have your child assessed by a speech pathologist as soon as possible.
I totally agree! My DD will be 2 next week. She says about 4 words. NO KIDDING! I pushed the pediatrician to send her to therapy. He kept saying, she'll talk, she'll talk. Don't know about where you live, but as some mentioned the early intervention program from the state will pay for weekly speech therapy visits until age 3.
My friend went through this with her DS. Pediatrician(same as mine). Kept putting her off, by the time she had the hearing test done and speech eval done, he was a week shy of his third birthday. She got 12 visits for speech approved by her insurance for inhouse then had to pay $128.00 for 1/2 hour.
My DD already went for her hearing test and speech eval. They said she is making all her words from the front of her mouth, like ma, pa, ba, but not ca, ga, words. She recommended speech, so we have someone from the county coming on October 7th for their own eval.
I wouldn't wait also, because the process takes long. Where Haylee got her eval, at the local Childrens Hospital, if I decided I wanted the free in house therapy as well as paying at Childrens, the wait list at childrens is 4-6 months. So I would talk to your pediatrician. Good Luck!
 
Don't worry!
My son is 31 months old and says about 22 words. I too am concerned. My other son who is now 5 1/2 was a very early talker and started sayign Mama at 6 months!
I took my little guy to a speech therapist and here is what they said. Boys tend to speak later than girls and if the sibling is very vocal and the child relys on brother/sister to do talking before them.
They told me that he is communicating but not verbally. He points, babbles, smiles, good eye contact, social skills are good. In other words - no red flags. They told me that he would benefit from a pre-school setting where he would be forced to speak because Mommy is not there. I will be taking him to another assessment in a few weeks and I can PM more info. to you if you like. In the meantime, speak in simple 2 word sentences, slowly. If he says, Ma for Milk say..that's good Ma - you mean MILK! Give him loads of positive reinforcement even if it sounds nothing like the words. He needs to learn that sound has a function.
Good luck and don't worry. I too am worried about my little guy. Also, I should tell you that my nephew starting speaking clearly at 4-5! He is now 20 and studying very hard to be a Dr. He is brilliant.
 
Luv - my son that I was talking about also started walking at 15 months. Also, it is a good idea to get a hearing test done anyway. Please keep me posted!
 
One more addition to my last 2 posts - my little guys went to Disney and adding 2 new words to his vocabulary --

NEMO and MINNIE!
 


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