klj27
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Luv2trav said:Isn't that the truth..... I also worry my first son is too sensitive... Does it ever stop?
My older son is sensitive too!!!!!


Luv2trav said:Isn't that the truth..... I also worry my first son is too sensitive... Does it ever stop?
klj27 said:My older son is sensitive too!!!!!He was crying when he got off the school bus today because his friend hit him on the bus. It think his friend was rough housing, but my son doesn't play that way. We teach people that it is not okay to hit, but deep down I was disappointed that he didn't just shrug it off.
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abacobaby said:I have been in your same situation. My DD turned 2 in May and at her 2 year checkup she still wasn't talking. She said about 2 words - honest!!! Fast forward to NOW and she won't shut up. Honestly, it was as if she woke up one morning and knew how to talk. Her cousin (one month younger than DD) did the exact same thing. Our pediatritian wasn't too concerned about it though. As long as you can tell he is trying to say stuff, he should be alright. What is amazing is that I have noticed now that my DD was paying attention to every little thing we said the whole time she wasn't talking. Almost as if she was taking her time, learning all the little phrases and words. It's too cute when she opens her mouth now and starts to talk like a grownup!
camouseketeer said:I will be the dissenting voice of the majority here, but from my experience I would not wait. My DD, now 3 1/2 had one word at 18 months. My pediatrician jumped on our case immediately. She said that children should have a minimun of 6 words (not including mom and dad) at 18 months. First thing we did, as an earlier poster said, was have her hearing checked. Please make sure you do that first. It was fine. Then we had her assessed by a speech pathologist. She concluded that her receptive language was ahead of schedule, but her spoken language was around a 12 month level. That qualified her for state sponsored speech therapy. She was also diagnosed with Sensory Integration Disorder (characterized by over sensitive to sounds, walked on tiptoes, very picky about foods, etc.) From 20 months to 3 years, my DD received weekly speech therapy and occupational therapy and it has made worlds of difference. She down receives speech therapy through our school district once a month, and that should end soon.
My point is why wait? If your child will "catch up" in his or her own time, then interventions won't matter, but what if s/he doesn't? Then your even further behind. Here in California, the state will pay for therapy until age three if your child has a large enough deficit. If I had waited until age two or three to see if her issues corrected itself, I would have received far less therapy than I did (our school district, which took over at age three is very limited with their offerings).
Every child is different but, please, have his or her hearing checked, look into what your state offers to young children with special needs, and see if you can have your child assessed by a speech pathologist as soon as possible.
CherCrazy said:Hi Love to Trav,
You got some really good advice here, especially from SnowWhite and SnoopyMom. I too have a child who had language delays. My DS sounds very similar to yours, especially with the frustration levels. What your child is expressing when he pounds on the fridge is his inability to TELL you verbally what he wants. He has the words inside him, but can't get them out. My son was the same way. He didn't know how to ask for things. We had to break everything down into little steps for him. He could understand what we were saying, but we had to show him how to relay his needs to us.
He was able to be tested and enrolled in a program when he became eligible at 3 (the age for services in NJ). My pediatricians shrugged off his delays, but I KNEW something was wrong...he is youngest of 4. Go with your gut.
Luv2trav said:See that is just it I don't know what my gut is saying to me. Until this past weekend I thought he was a little delayed but I wasn't worried. Again my first child did the same thing just had a few more words.
I am taking him to the Dr's tomorrow to check his ears(Ear infection prone) because we are leaving for Disney in 10 days. I will mention it to her. I will ask if there is any testing she would recommend so I can get the ball rolling either way. By the way I don't think he has any problems hearing. He sure can hear DORA when it comes on the TV.![]()
To be honest I really don't think there is anything wrong. I do believe he is delayed but will eventually catch up. I agree with the "why wait" statements because if I am wrong then it's better to start now vs later.
Unfortunately I have already checked with my insurance and they do not cover ST. Any idea on how much ST costs? I am not even sure if there is a program here in Ohio that would cover the cost. I am sure DH and I make too much money if they did. It doesn't matter we will do what we have to do.
I totally agree! My DD will be 2 next week. She says about 4 words. NO KIDDING! I pushed the pediatrician to send her to therapy. He kept saying, she'll talk, she'll talk. Don't know about where you live, but as some mentioned the early intervention program from the state will pay for weekly speech therapy visits until age 3.camouseketeer said:I will be the dissenting voice of the majority here, but from my experience I would not wait. My DD, now 3 1/2 had one word at 18 months. My pediatrician jumped on our case immediately. She said that children should have a minimun of 6 words (not including mom and dad) at 18 months. First thing we did, as an earlier poster said, was have her hearing checked. Please make sure you do that first. It was fine. Then we had her assessed by a speech pathologist. She concluded that her receptive language was ahead of schedule, but her spoken language was around a 12 month level. That qualified her for state sponsored speech therapy. She was also diagnosed with Sensory Integration Disorder (characterized by over sensitive to sounds, walked on tiptoes, very picky about foods, etc.) From 20 months to 3 years, my DD received weekly speech therapy and occupational therapy and it has made worlds of difference. She down receives speech therapy through our school district once a month, and that should end soon.
My point is why wait? If your child will "catch up" in his or her own time, then interventions won't matter, but what if s/he doesn't? Then your even further behind. Here in California, the state will pay for therapy until age three if your child has a large enough deficit. If I had waited until age two or three to see if her issues corrected itself, I would have received far less therapy than I did (our school district, which took over at age three is very limited with their offerings).
Every child is different but, please, have his or her hearing checked, look into what your state offers to young children with special needs, and see if you can have your child assessed by a speech pathologist as soon as possible.