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<font color=darkorchid>Yes, we are going to Disney
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The DISboards have been enormously successful partly because tolerance of others is required here. I don't want to judge DLP for not organizing queues for character greetings, I just want to talk about it and find the best way to tolerantly understand what is for me a cultural difference. 
The fact that character greetings at DLP are non-queue oriented is important information. First-time visitors should know about this in advance, especially if they are familiar with WDW where queuing is required and you can be thrown out of the parks for line jumping. I wish I had known before my family's first visit to DLP. If, like me, you are very "queue-ish," you might find it more relaxing to decide not to include character greetings in your visit to DLP. That would have worked very well for us -- and was ultimately what we chose to do. If you find that your cultural point of view is not the same as that of a culture you are visiting, you need to either just "do as the Romans do" or keep apart from the activity you might find stressful.
Sometimes I think I am too obsessed with queuing. For instance, at Disney's Hollywood Studios in Florida, the first greeting opportunities with the CARS cars were not queue-based. To me it felt chaotic. I mentioned this to a cast member at the greeting. He was obviously prepared with talking points for this issue and tried to convince me that the intended atmostphere was one of a "Car Show" -- a big party, it's fun, it's exciting! (Car Shows are a big deal in the U.S.) I was unable to relax and feel that. I wanted order. I wanted a queue. Maybe I would have had more fun if I'd been able to let go and relax.
Other queue-ish people may have thought this out better than I have, so I wanted to see if a discussion was possible. I know that people who rush up to a character at DLP without figuring out who's next are not being rude. My son and I had been waiting to see Donald at DLP. A mother with four children rushed ahead. On her face was a look of joy and excitement. Getting ahead of us was not her intention. I don't think it entered her mind. She and her children were only thrilled to be there and to be seeing Donald.
Maybe she was thinking more the way the CM at the CARS greeting event encouraged me to think -- it's a great time, a party, we are all here together, we will all have fun and see Donald.
I sincerely would like to understand the non-queue mindset because my own is awfully tense. We met so many lovely people in France who treated us with kindness and great politeness. They are a gracious people. If you don't agree, please don't reply here.
I don't want to judge a cultural difference. I accept it. But I wish I could also understand.
If you feel the same way, have you reached any tolerant insights that have helped you "go with the flow" and enjoy another culture rather than judge it?
By the way, the "Car Show" atmosphere didn't work at DHS, and they gave it up. Now you just queue up to meet Lightning McQueen!

The fact that character greetings at DLP are non-queue oriented is important information. First-time visitors should know about this in advance, especially if they are familiar with WDW where queuing is required and you can be thrown out of the parks for line jumping. I wish I had known before my family's first visit to DLP. If, like me, you are very "queue-ish," you might find it more relaxing to decide not to include character greetings in your visit to DLP. That would have worked very well for us -- and was ultimately what we chose to do. If you find that your cultural point of view is not the same as that of a culture you are visiting, you need to either just "do as the Romans do" or keep apart from the activity you might find stressful.
Sometimes I think I am too obsessed with queuing. For instance, at Disney's Hollywood Studios in Florida, the first greeting opportunities with the CARS cars were not queue-based. To me it felt chaotic. I mentioned this to a cast member at the greeting. He was obviously prepared with talking points for this issue and tried to convince me that the intended atmostphere was one of a "Car Show" -- a big party, it's fun, it's exciting! (Car Shows are a big deal in the U.S.) I was unable to relax and feel that. I wanted order. I wanted a queue. Maybe I would have had more fun if I'd been able to let go and relax.
Other queue-ish people may have thought this out better than I have, so I wanted to see if a discussion was possible. I know that people who rush up to a character at DLP without figuring out who's next are not being rude. My son and I had been waiting to see Donald at DLP. A mother with four children rushed ahead. On her face was a look of joy and excitement. Getting ahead of us was not her intention. I don't think it entered her mind. She and her children were only thrilled to be there and to be seeing Donald.

I sincerely would like to understand the non-queue mindset because my own is awfully tense. We met so many lovely people in France who treated us with kindness and great politeness. They are a gracious people. If you don't agree, please don't reply here.

I don't want to judge a cultural difference. I accept it. But I wish I could also understand.

By the way, the "Car Show" atmosphere didn't work at DHS, and they gave it up. Now you just queue up to meet Lightning McQueen!