scrapbookersdis
<font color=darkorchid>Yes, we are going to Disney
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In Just remember, it may seem bad for you when you're part of a 'scrum', but just imagine how awful it is for the Character who is in the centre of it.
It must be sometimes downright frightening.
Unfortunately, just as we've all heard before, there's always going to be somebody to spoil things - and really that's a reflection of people in general as opposed to Disney itself![]()
But Disney has the experience and knowledge to protect people from much unnecessary spoilage. If guests are made unhappy by the scrums at DLP (and most of the people on this thread seem to feel that way), all character greetings should be queue-based. However, what I wonder is whether many DLP guests don't mind the scrum, don't complain about it, don't worry about it. If that's the case, the queues aren't needed.
It seems to me it doesn't matter what nationality you are there will always be some one who seems to think its ok to push in front no matter how many people are there before them
I agree 100%.
I didn't start this thread to point the blame at anyone. I started it to see if I could figure out if there is in fact another way of looking at group experiences -- other than being dominated by the awareness of the question, "Who's next in line?"
Having been there in January, we didn't witness a real scrum. All the groups were small. In fact, the one that really impressed me wasn't a scrum at all. My son and I were the only ones waiting for Donald near Town Square. Donald was with another group, and it was fair to assume we were next, since we were the only other people. Until I saw another family approaching from across the street. They were right in my line of sight and were headed straight for Donald.
"Oh no," I thought. "They wouldn't." They did. But what truly struck me was the mother's face. She was *not* being rude. Because rudeness implies that you are doing something you shouldn't. The expression on her face was joyful. "Who's next?" did not exist for her. It's the mindset that is different. Sort of like a culture for whom belching is a compliment to the cook. If they belch, they are not being rude. In other cultures, belching is considered rude. I believe that disregard for "who's next" is not rude in some cultures. This is what I want to understand.
We saw similar instances of this mindset in other situations -- at the breakfast buffet at Hotel Cheyenne, at the bus stops, even just looking at merchandise in a shop that was slightly crowded. I'm not saying it's a bad thing. I just think it's a Thing. And it's good to be aware of cultural Things when you visit another culture.
One person here said that children in some cultures wouldn't queue for a slide at a playground. In other cultures, the children would. That's not a case of one being rude and the other not. It's just a difference in mindset. I wonder if, for those who don't tend to queue, the idea of fretting about taking turns would be equivalent to the idea of having to take a number to use a slide at a playground. It would spoil the fun and the spontaneity.