
...so sorry..justm, for your recent loss & stressors. you're in
my thoughts..for happier days & times.
...i have enjoyed this site. however, we are not offiical members. *
there are 2 motivational reasons for that. i'm not the disney planner
in the family. nor do i wish to be....as it may..hurt my lil'cutie's feelings
[ being a lil' territorial..in such matters...]. instead i prefer..to be the
critiquer. secondly..i just don't think i would look to good...in the nakey
rugby out~fits.
* except..the red nose,
...thru my experiences,...i have found.."right"... to be more of a matter
of opinion/s.
anyone wanting to work ..on my crew? ..ok..justm, you can stick your
tongue..back in, [ we already know its cute-

]. however, the
crew under my directions....are also my responsibility....& i can't be in all
places...@ all times. this arena....should never be under estimated,...
...where...the highest casuaities..occurs..each year. so for the faint..of
heart...mught...want..jump ship, [ funnie ].
101...you come upon..2 adults barking..over "who's the lucky fella?, that
...the new cute..lil'

..was sticking her tongue out? and now its
esclating....into....asorta name callin, and other inhumane jestures....
made by "humans"....what intervention should you chose? nothing. that's
is the correct response. why?...any verbal intervention....will likely
be precieve..as taking..sides..& all of a sudden.."you might become the
new target". instead..making your presence known....& assuming a
monitor 's position...demonstrated your faith & expectation...for the "two"
gentlemen....to agree..even to disagreed..or wait until....they begin..
to switched...from verbal..to disruptive "posturing"..where it's necessary
for separation intervention.
oh, the first rule...of sucessful limit setting?..setting a limit..that is within
your power ...to enforce.
if i may, dear..justm., i never knew....

..what..a terrible reaction-
formation memory to carry. and still you carry such a "wand"~erful &
shinning zeal..for life...tells alot about your character. speaks nothing of
your tiny lil'acts of kindness...everywhere you bounce.
* reactions formations..are things that many of us..mis-understand..the
strong feelings they create. [ my first...i have no recollection..except..of
being told..& the divide it created. then there was the one i heard from
a dear close friend..{ he was from hawuii ]. wouldn't think?..but when he
was child..he witnessed..a man stabbing another to death. ]
..when i saw..the gorilla's ....the very first thing..i thought..was the recent
national g.'s special..over them being murder...just to be killed.
...wnata....kno, what is very

..no one listened ..to those ..who could
improved..our country's mental health needs. to us..fyi, our crew...are
insulted..by people ....that do not/should not..be in a position to influenced
so many [media]...dr. p., is an excellent example..having negative efffects
...across the boards. the powers..to be..are more intetested..in preserving
their "profits"..then caring.

...doing..the old formats...explain why
there are sooo many deaths. in reality, including the basics..knowledge
..we had to developed....would in~deeds saved police officers...and would
addressed major problems..in our school systems. for example, the highest
risks...of being killed..is from "others". [ when a person makes a fist..during
an disagreement...,i immediately + verbally recognized..that intention.
( following a few simple..rules...i have never been hit //in 17 years. )
* was kicked & stomped on by steel-toes boots...because...others, did
not follow my instructions..and i got it..when i had to helped them.

. { not my crew...& during the excitment..they failed to listened.}
..interesting.,...they were the guys....not the women i worked with.
our laws....could improved their designs..by recognizing....common sense
from our mental health needs. there are so many ways..to improved....
& yet..we still ignored..what is in plain sight. why?..from my obsdervations,
we like creating..comfort zones"...between us & them. my new &
threatening neighbor..called me .." a crack head [ most likely projecting},
..and a "va patient."...., enough!...i'm a veteran...& for such a nasty person-
who feels he has the right..to make fun...of those sick ..."those" that
have made his freedoms...a reality.....is self in-crim-i-ating. however,
there are mental interventions..that are very effective, begining with
documentation.
oh...anyone having desires..to abuse...me? , sorry that's my lil'cuite 's job,
& she pretty good..@ it...
