Well put. And though I am not quite so lucid, I would like (in my own crass and politically incorrect way) to add one more thing.
It's time everyone start (or continue) to act like children

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Seriously - most of you have kids, and you know they get upset and angry with each other. Some handle it well, some poorly. But, by and large, they are able to make up and within a time so short as to astonish adults, return to playing as if nothing happened.
One of (if not the main thing) that brought me here is that that most of the people seem to be (in the common venacular) "chill" and, dare I say it, playful. In fact, the entire spirt of the board was playful.
Sure, people often raise serious things going on in their life, and get support from the community - and that's great. That's what communities are for. I personally don't bring the "hassles" in my life here because for me DIS is an extension of TOAL which is, to a certain degree, a chance to escape from the muck and mire of daily life. It's a chance to relax and be a bit (or more than a bit) goofy (or Mickey, or Donald, or whatever). But that's just me, and I have no problem at all if others share more serious issues.
But when it comes to interpersonal conflict and offense (which is inevitable in any community, online or not), I can only plead with everyone (and strive myself) to be more like children, and quickly put hard feelings behind, and return to playfulness.
Yes, there will probably be more offensive postings (I have absolute confidence in my own ability to inadvertantly offend people - I may be doing so right now). But let's all try to handle these things in a childish manner - a bit of whining, a quick appeal to mommy (moderators), and rapid forgiveness and forgetfulness so we can go back to playing.