I'm always amused at the depth of discussion that can occur over a single word.
First off, not all spontaneity is good. If I drop a brick on my foot and crush it- unless I planned to do that, that's spontaneity. So for purposes of this discussion- I limit myself to the good kind of spontaneity.
At some point along the line- planning is done for WDW. Whether it's in my home, at my resort or in the park. No one just looks up and they're on a ride. They planned that ride at some point. So if planning has to be done, I prefer doing it at home. I don't think there's a lot of value in not knowing where we're going or what we're doing every second of the day. It may be spontaneous, but it's spontaneous mess. One person wants to ride x, another wants z. Someone wants to eat sit down, the other counter. Those kinds details are planned.
But 3 rides takes up 10 minutes of our day. Planned meals take up maybe 1-2 hrs of our day. We know what parks we'll be in each day but outside of a couple of hours a day, and within the confines of the particular park we've chosen, what happens is spontaneous and unplanned.
Rather than spending time standing, trying to decide what an entire group of people want to do, where they want to eat and when, we spend our time enjoying the parks and that's when spontaneous moments happen- the magic if you will. Of those two, I'm happy to make the first planned so that the second can happen spontaneously.
Cake I agree that not all spontaneity is good. Dropping a Brick on your foot if accidental, is not spontaneity, its an accident. If you decide in a moment that you would like to drop a brick on your foot and you do so, that's spontaneity.
Its fine that you think a total go with the flow trip is a "spontaneous mess", other people don't feel that way, my family doesn't feel that way. There is no need to plan, you can simply wake up, head to the buses see which park bus arrives first, or decide in the morning its going to be an AK day, and then go about your day as such. Both perfectly spontaneous, you make a decision and act on it then.
Its possible you plan which park which day, but then go through those parks as your mood, and the crowds, take you. The park selection is not spontaneous, but the rest is.
Your "3 rides takes up 10 minutes a day" is obviously misleading, I hope not purposefully so. Having 3 rides booked takes up a significant portion of time, if you pack them all as close as you can, you are looking at 2 hours of time, if you spread them out the calculation gets a little different. However it means that you have significant portions of your day prescheduled, you have to be at a certain place at a certain time, meaning everything around that appointment must also conform to it.
Its not like you can decide in the morning to go to AK despite having FP+s in MK. Then at 10am when your FP is booked suddenly appear in MK, ride SM, and then POOF back to AK. You might only spend 10 minutes ON the three rides, but those appointments end up scheduling FAR more of your day than 10 minutes.
And its fine to say that you like it better that way, you like your day more scheduled, more planned, but that is NOT more spontaneous, in no way, shape or form, does this make a day more spontaneous.
And yes, people get caught up on words here, but that's because words are important. Its important to some people whether a day is more spontaneous or planned. And some people like to defend their decisions because they see the value in their trips being categorized as something spontaneous, relaxed, efficient, value for dollar, etc. and they like to spin their experience to match what others or they value. But lets not do that.
