DisneyFan32WI
Grumpy Cat
- Joined
- Apr 5, 2008
- Messages
- 5,892
I think she has been deceitful.
BUT SHE ISN'T BLACK!!! Yes, a transgender boy who is now a girl can apply for a scholarship specifically for transgender people. What a girl can't do is SAY they are transgender, tell everyone who will listen that they have had surgery to become a female, receive a scholarship based on these "facts" only to find out it is absolutely not true. It turns out they were born female, have always been female, never had surgery, and aren't even remotely transgender. That is exactly what this woman did.
It's not baiting. There are similarities between the two issues. What can you "declare" or "define" about yourself, and what can't you? Everyone on here obviously thinks it's okay to define your gender but not your race, and I can't understand why, to be honest. What's the difference?
So what does it mean to feel black? No one is answering that.
In my view, someone who is black isn't different from me except as an individual of course and their look. Is this all about how someone looks? Aren't we supposed to move beyond that?
I also don't think that the Caitlyn transformation is anything like this. You are talking about how someone looks versus how someone feels in their mind. I don't really understand the feels like a woman part either but I can see that it could happen. I don't at all understand the feels like a black individual bit at all. What does that mean?
I don't deny the cultural aspect but someone can't just suddenly absorb that cultural background when they never experienced it. There are many great cultures and I find all of them fascinating.Off topic a bit, but of course there is a cultural aspect to being black. Just ask my bonus son. He is an African American and our family is not. He is different from me in the way his family mourns a death and the way they worship God and some of his favorites foods and music and art. He is also different from me when it comes to his history. I would never want him to lose that beautiful identity and be the same as me, just as I don't want to lose my cultural identity and be the same as any other group. It isn't racist to be different, it is racist to detest those differences.
Your question was "so what does it feel to be black" and "shouldn't we have moved beyond" our differences. I love the differences. This has just been our families experiences. Nothing relating to this NAACP lady. The opposite of racism isn't color-blindness it is simply love.I don't deny the cultural aspect but someone can't just suddenly absorb that cultural background when they never experienced it. There are many great cultures and I find all of them fascinating.
how do you pass for a color you are not. I don't get how she was able to pull this off for so long
I hope that everyone keeps and celebrates their culture! I have my own non-American culture that I adore.Your question was "so what does it feel to be black" and "shouldn't we have moved beyond" our differences. I love the differences. This has just been our families experiences. Nothing relating to this NAACP lady. The opposite of racism isn't color-blindness it is simply love.
I'm all for people being who they want to be, but doesn't it do a disservice to black people who actually lived through experiences - good and bad - that make up their culture? Especially when in a position of authority like the NAACP? I'll be interested in hearing how black people actually feel about this. (Somehow I don't think it's going to be just a matter of, "She can be black if she wants to" for most people.)
She's a lying liar who lies.
It's not baiting. There are similarities between the two issues. What can you "declare" or "define" about yourself, and what can't you? Everyone on here obviously thinks it's okay to define your gender but not your race, and I can't understand why, to be honest. What's the difference?
I believe that there is a biological reason for transgender people. They feel a real disconnect with their gender.
The reason this woman feels black has nothing to do with biology, she feels black because it fit some agenda for her. She used that to manipulate many people.
BUT SHE ISN'T BLACK!!! Yes, a transgender boy who is now a girl can apply for a scholarship specifically for transgender people. What a girl can't do is SAY they are transgender, tell everyone who will listen that they have had surgery to become a female, receive a scholarship based on these "facts" only to find out it is absolutely not true. It turns out they were born female, have always been female, never had surgery, and aren't even remotely transgender. That is exactly what this woman did.
As another poster commented, I feel that there is a biological reason for the gender identity issue. Think of the many things can go awry when a baby is forming- heart defects, conjoined twinning, chromosome abnormalities, cleft lip and palate, clubfoot, extra digits, missing digits, third limbs, both sets of sexual organs....it's not a stretch to believe that there is a biological reason for the way transgender people feel. I don't think there is any way a person can feel like they were not born with the correct amount of melanin in their skin. Who knows; maybe science will prove differently.
Why does it matter if it's nature or nurture?
Maybe because black people and others have been historically mistreated and seen as lesser simply because of their skin color or their church or their heritage or whatever. These people share a common bond with others like them as they try to deal with the aftermath and what sadly still goes on. How can she truly understand?Why does it matter if it's nature or nurture?