in april I am having a birthday that is a big number. don't wanna talk about it. shhh. don't get me wrong, I'd rather be this number than not be it...the other option isn't pretty, lol, but still, don't wanna talk about it. anyway, dh asked me if I want a big party for it. I'd rather spend the money and go away for a long weekend and be pampered. thinking someplace warm, maybe an island (I really would like to go to england but the money isn't there this spring). I've never been to an island like this before. we're on the east coast, so someplace on this end of things would be ideal. any suggestions??? where would you go if money WAS an object, but you still wanted to go somewhere nice? what if money wasn't but you still only had a long weekend (okay, I'm going to fantasize with the money-isn't-an-object a bit, too. hehehe).